hey guys just read an interesting article on attraction, kinda gave me a new perspective. basically it says that not feeling in control is the natural emotional state for women, i.e thier base state, much like being unreactive is the base state for a masculine man. Women are therfore attracted to men that make them feel out of control(putting them in thier natural evolutionary state), by making them feel challenged, dominated, uneasy, confused(emotionally spiked?)is this new? never seen it discussed in this manner on the forum.