Guys, I am sure this topic has been beaten a thousand times. I need to hear your views on this. I live in a small town which is 45 minutes outside London by train. All the best looking women are in London. Now do you think this presents a problem in getting the girl back to my place ?. The thing is i could jump into a taxi but again its gonna take an hour to get back to my place with the girl. Is a girl really willing to spend an hour travelling to get back to my place for a shag ? How have people dealt with this logistical problem ?
Hell YES!!! Dude if a girl is horny she'll do anything. I had a girl travel 3 hours to my place to fuck. Just don't make a big deal about the distance. Don't even bring it up. She prolly won't even realize how long the trip is. One time I had a girl suck my dick (road head) the whole way (1.5 hours because of traffic...people in the next lane saw a head go up and down my lap with a big grin on my face... hell i don't give a shit!) while I drove her back to her place (and if you're not driving standard you can finger her pussy with you hand on the wheel all while one of her legs is out the car window lol). Drive or take a taxi. That way you're alone. I do this thing where you stop at a red light and you just make out. Then you increase it every time you stop at a light or cross walk.
Yea I would agree with Mike that distance shouldnt be a problem if the girl really wants to go she will go...ask her if she wants to go on a little adventure or something like that lol Another way to look at it is that yes it may be harder to get the girl over to your place for a shag after the club late at night but you could also try to go to her place or some other place thats close by like get some food after a bar and then decide where you can go. If not, arrange for a daytime meeting for some other day and once she gets to know you more she will probably be more willing to make the trip. Cheers
Thanks guys the reason i ask is alot of people keep telling me its rare to beable to get the girl back to your place if your more then an hour away. Mike you sound like you really know your stuff. I am wondering why are you doing the reckless coaching ?
If you are meeting up for a day 2 date, locate the date NEAR your apartment, like within 5 to 10 minutes travel. That way it's far easier to pull her from the date location to your place. Girls will usually travel. 30 minutes isn't a problem. 45 minutes is a bit long, but still reasonable... But are you asking, how to pull her from a club or bar directly back to your place? Yeah, 45 minutes away by train sucks... maybe get a cheap motel room... or pull her to a hostel
Hi Jesse, Its not as simple as organising a date close to my appartment. I live in a small town outside London (its nearly one hour away by train and by subway). London is a huge city a girl might be living in the north of london. If i were to organise a date in the westend thats a journey in itself to get there. Then from the westend i gotto get her back to my place. The hostel thing certainly is an option i guess. If i am doing bar or club.
Thanks, guys, for the input. I HAD the mindset that some women are geographically undesirable. My conclusion is, if a woman wants you to fuck her, she will make it happen and SHE will go out of her way to do so. This story reminds me of this woman I know in Canada. I have NEVER met her, but, we have talked/known each other for 6 years. I swear, she is begging for me to fuck her. The ONLY reason I am going up there is because she has EARNED it. (I like her bravery/adventurousness/social intelligence) She has put-up with soo much of my shit! (She, also, said that I put-up with a lot of her shit!):lol: TM
I didn't say these chicks were 9's and 10's lol. And that was back in the day clubbing 4 days a week and drinking A LOT. I'm definitely trying to learn core skills without the booze. I'm making progress though... I'll give a report about my weekend And that question is funny coming from you (the one who's baggin models and 18 yr olds!!! )
Yes lol.. I remember years ago i use to drink whiskey shots like water. Since i stopped drinking i have started saving alot of money that i can use for constructive purposes. The pinnacle of success is to beable to do this kind of stuff without the use of crutches.
You two guys are something, else. Say, I'm glad the drinking has stopped. I think that it is our society, advertising, upbringing and other influences, that has told us that it is OK to drink a lot and, unfortunately, we end-up making fools of ourselves. (I was in the same boat).:thumbdown: TM
Yes FM I often have the same logistic problem as you... that exactly it: if you travel for more then 30m then the girl might just start falling asleep or wondering why is it taking so long and where are you taking her... Question about hostels (because where I live you cant usually find cheep hotels), is it normal for girl to accept to sleep with you in the hostel, with other 6 to 10 people who are just trying to get some sleep? and how do you bring the topic up? "Ok lets go." and latter "We are going to hostel"...? I probobly have there some sort of limiting believe. Tiger
FM, can you just MOVE? Your situation is somewhat the same as if you were still living with your parents, it seems. Sometimes we put ourselves in living situations that are simply not at all well suited for meeting women - only to find that out later when we become interested in the pursuit. You may need to begin planning a change?
Yeh, FM, moving might be a good idea for you. Would it WORK, in your situation? I have some thoughts about this subject, because, I was a Mamas' Baby, and, probably, still am.:thumbdown: In some countries, like Italy and, maybe, India, the men stay at home for a long time, before they get married. I, also think, remaining a man-child (?) and NOT growing-up and being a MAN is NOT taught by our society throughout the world. TM
Again thanks Jesse TM for the suggestion. I have my own place I basically have bought a place on a mortgage that is outside London (so no i dont live at home with parents ). I am however looking at the cheap hostel, hotel option. Tiger am i right i saying you are living in Amsterdam ?
FM, I didn't think that you lived at home with your parents, but, I remember you saying to a woman, 2 months ago, that you had to leave because you had to do something for your mother. :lol: (Hey, look, I think that it is important to keep good healthy ties with your parents and family members. Do you live close to your mother/parents?). What Jesse and I are saying is to move to a location where there are more people (especially, WOMEN!). This will make it more easier for the two of you to connect, better. I think, Tiger, is saying that hostels aren't a good idea. I say, go to her place. It will remind her better of the FUN times you two had. TM
Thats right mate i had to leave that girl as i promised to help mom with a couple of things. I live 20 minutes walk away from my parents.
I have the same situation come up a lot because I travel and taking women back to my hotel is always my LAST option because women usually want to hang around or sleep over or make this the start of a relationship or whatever is going on in their goofy head sometimes. What I do is say, "where can we go that's close, so we can spend some quality time together to really get to know each other?" Make it HER idea and put the logistics on her with how she wants to get it done. I've had girls take me to their house and I've had girls pay for a hotel room (BTW NEVER pay for a hotel room if its her idea it's on her bill). But don't see where you live as the problem. If anything you want that to be off the table as much as possible, unless you actually like this person long term and by that time she should be willing to make the trip to your house anyway. But that's just my .02 cents Hope it helps.
