Here are some of the responses from women who were asked, "What turns them ON". (This was on a forum, on FetLife.com.) Now, this is REAL GOOD info, because, most or almost all women DO NOT say this to people. It's a WELL guarded secret that most women truly will NOT admit to. You will notice some constants here: 1. A mans' smell. 2. Talking dirty..good girl, sexy slut, etc. 3. Strong hands or TOUCH 4. A man who takes control. 5. His VOICE You can see the responses at: https://fetlife.com/groups/347/group_posts/1672528 "For me, if a guy smells really good, that can drive me to want to rip his clothes off and fuck him on the spot"! "I'm ready to go when I get called a good girl....... so simple but it does it EVERY time, it makes me melt"! "I'm in the same boat with the smells... If a woman smells good not the fruity an perfume stuff.. If it's all around good. Like a package of smells... It's so delicious and I immediately think the dirtiest of thoughts. Another is when a whisper in the ear is with the tug if my shirt. I'm predominately Dom but when a tugs my hip and tugs my shirt an whispers in my ear (even If the subject for whispering is not sexual) I want to turn to her and lay a nice juicy kiss. Damn just thinkin of it gets me goin. Damn". "Wind - as in a stiff breeze. Problematic when jogging outdoors". "Food: Strawberries, cucumbers, and pumpkin The scent of a man ....... especially fresh outta the shower ...... or Him wearing a great cologne Sounds: the sound of a motorbike or a car racing, rain, thunder oh and if i get called a 'good girl/whore' OR 'sexy slut' - i melt <3". "Stares directly into my eye's.. or from a distance but intently". "scent, His smile, and quiet self-confidence - and strong hands". "Self-confidence and that dominant you-do-this-now tone. A tug on my hair, by anyone makes me melt. Also being told I'm a "good girl". TM