Guys, Need some advice here. A week ago i approached a hot blonde in her 30's with a very beautiful body in the bookshop. Havent written it up in my journal as i havent had time. She was older then girls i normally go for but her body was so beautiful.I approached her toucher her arm and said something like "That book is an absolutely amazing read" she smiled and we got into a conversation. I touched her as a I flirted with her and we got onto the subject of aeroplanes and rockets god knows how we got onto this subject So anyway it turned out she was from Holland and was a managing director for some company that sells jet fighters and weapons to countries around the world. It was bizzare how when i told her that i was against that kind of thing and we can do without companies selling shit like that the world would be better world to live in. The wierd thing is as soon as i gave her my honest views about this her attraction seem to spike she moved closer to me and gazed into my eyes. She asked me what i did we chatted nearly 20 minutes. She then said she was with her mom and said "hey let me take your business card" as i didnt have one so i said lets swap numbers. Next day i called her left a message asking her to call me back. Within ten minutes she sent me a message "Hey FM the way you approached me yesterday and stated your views noone has ever done that to me before your a very beautiful man unfortunately i have a boyfriend sorry take care of yourself x" I ignored her text then 5 days later she called me. She left me a voice message "Hey FM some things have changed in my life recently and i am happy to meetup as friends so how about giving me a call and we can arrange to meetup maybe this weekend unless your weekend is already booked up noone has ever approached me like you did "This is wierd a woman calling me asking me out. When she says "as friends" is this her way of saying "hey i just broken up with my BF so lets see how it goes" ??
FM; I have decided to cut-down on my responses to most people. I'm getting too involved with youse guys...I NEED to make improvements in my LIFE, and do more things for myself. Soooo, I am going to give you, this: :thumbup::thumbup::thumbup: TM
Women are weird and you have to give room for the unexpected with them. It obviously was a good call going strongly negative with her but I would be careful with incorporating that into you opening strategy with all women. Women bond to men who they feel attraction and comfort with. If you are continually expressing that the two of you are different there is nothing there to bond with. So, great job on getting the initial attraction - I would find an area to bond with her now to up the attraction level. And I would say, sleep with her as soon as possible. The longer you go without being in those panties the closer and closer you get to being put in the friend zone. Remember the golden rule of PUA -- Fuc* her now, Friend her later. But these are only MY opinion and I do quite well with them.
TM I hope you're not leaving :thumbdown: your insights are valuable and needed. Stay in the game, bro
Any time a girl calls you up to ask you to go out with her, she is practically asking you to fuck her. As "friends" is just her way to justify it without sounding like a slut.... and also an excuse to back out and leave if you turn out to be spineless chump on the date. But I think your question was already answered based on your latest XXX rated field report.
Steven, 1st time I hear about the "Golden rule of PU", and I like it! FM, I would go as far as to say that when she said that she has BF, she lied. Latter she was at home alone and felt the need of gentleman's company. Maybe she is close to her period, so act fast, because if you wait for to long she may become, I don't know how to say it, but the period after her period, and she will freeze out on you. As for TM, he isn't leaving, just taking some action outside the forum, due to my suggestion to spend little less time here and more time out there... Tiger
Give it your best with this woman, FM. You don't have to be exactly sexual with her, but, you can be sensuous and make her panties REAL wet! Just remember, take one-step-at-a-time. There's NO need to fuck her on the first date. But, you want to make her panties real wet by TOUCHING her real good. I would practice giving her a Nipple Orgasm. (She has NEVER experienced this!) Squeeze her butt, REAL good! (Most men don't do this, much!) Give her a foot massage. Some women will have a Foot Orgasm, doing this. Place HER pleasure, FIRST. (You can't go wrong, doing this!) TM
