Went by myself to the beach a couple of days ago, saw 2 women sun bathing on benches, one was in her 20s and the other in her 40s, maybe her mom or aunt. The bench beside the younger one was free so I took it and made myself comfortable.. That surprised her a bit and she gave me the 'what do you think ur doing' look, I returned a slight smile and said 'This is my favorite spot', no answer from her.. I went for a quick dip then came back, I said 'That was refreshing..', she asked how the water was and i said 'don't worry it's warm', she was a bit cold then I followed with some comments and questions and she started opening up Few minutes later I was talking abt where I travelled and where I wanted to go and she was talking abt her hobbies and places she's going in summer.. we took a dip in the water together and then again sat and chatted a bit, then I had to leave. She was checking me out while I was packing, I said 'Hey you wanna do something later?', she said 'I don't think so but thanks', I said 'ah ur missing out on alot' she smiled and didnt say anything.. I didnt feel like pursuing it further, I thought any further insisting would show i'm desperate so I said 'see you around' and she replied back with a joyful 'nice meeting you' Maybe I should have asked for her number instead not quickly for a date? or maybe my conversation with her put me in the friend zone? Or it might be I didnt build enough sexual rapport.. or she just might be in a relationship. However I was glad that she kept a positive attitude towards even after I asked her out..
Hey Rami, great one there. Your persisting in the face of her cold attitude turned her around. You beat her congruence tests by remaining positive and unreactive to her negativity, which is exactly what causes attraction in women. You should have directed her to go on an instant date to a specific place right there, and if a no-go, said, "Let's network" and handed her your phone for her to punch in her number.
