Ok some of you may have read in my previous post that a stripper was trying to hussle me. She gave me her email instead of her phone #. I let it go but she emailed me out of the blue and i'm dropping a line back because it's starting to get interesting. I want to include you guys in this and make it INTERACTIVE! I'm obviously not following my Rule #3 to stop fucking around with strippers...but oh well I'm holding a contest to see who can come up with the best email reply. The Prize: Me fucking the shit out of a smoking hot stripper Here is the email trail below: Hi Savannah, It was nice to meet you last week. I remember you were a very detailed oriented kinda gal... If you're that detailed, then do you still remember by ethnicity? Mike Hey Egyptian! yes of course. I'm actually on my way on vacation. I'll be back to work on wed the 21st. Will miss you! Come see me. Next time we should do a private in the back. Should be interesting (wink) lol. Til then xoxo. ~Savannah Wow I'm impressed lol. Have fun on vaca! Good luck with your future hussle Best wishes Mike Sent from my iPhone No hussle needed. I have fun with what I do. Lol. I'll have fun boo. ~Savannah Omg u so took that the wrong way You should always have fun at what u do and enjoy it! I think one should also have fun outside of work as well. Don't u agree? ~ Boo Sent from my iPhone Hehe gotta know you first. I'm very observant btw as well as detail oriented. ~Savannah I see that! Ok gimme ur cell. I'll holla at u after vaca and then we can get to know one another. Sent from my iPhone I don't give out my # til I get to know you silly. ~Savannah Ahhhhh... So u want to get to know me hehe... Ok ask me a question then My question for you is: What qualities in a guy makes you go absolutely loca? Sent from my iPhone Greetings from Puerto Rico! ~Savannah I'm Jealous How was PR? Sent from my iPhone Hi my trip went well. How are you? ~Savannah I'm doing fantabulous U never answered my question I didn't think u were that shy? Sent from my iPhone Qualities, hmm... Sexiness. Confidence. Power to take over me. ~Savannah
Man, that's approval-seeking (a big no-no, she's used to that!).. Nevermind, here is a 'get-around', short, simple reply for you : "Huh? No, I meant, aside of the things I already have "
Anytime mate Remember, you already ARE what she wants.. Only SHE needs to realize it And hey, don't forget my prize
Ahh, Ilbestia, why haven't you been responding and saying good things to us, before? By living in a small country, you seem to know a lot! Oh, shit, Mikey. You're messing-around with a stripper. They are the most difficult and problem laden women you will ever meet. Note 1: I thought that last woman you talked about was a stripper. ("...insisted...") Note 2: How do you think I know about strippers? (NO!!..I never married one or dated, any.):lol: Note 3: What do you think that I do when I am at a strip bar? (It's, NOT spend a lot of money...It's about TOUCH/massage, dirty talk and I do something VERY special that no other man does.):woot: Note 4: Hate to say this, Mikey, but, she is luring you into her world of ripping-you-off. Note 5: ALL strippers are CRAZY!!! TM
Yeah, and that's why Mike only wants to fuck her..right..? RIGHT MIKE? She's hot, he probably wants a 'temporary bonding + hot fuck'
OK I'll set aside for the moment that 94.9% of all strippers are crazy and you're just asking for drama to come screaming into your life and just get to your question. The dynamic I see in the emails so far is, she's still working. She may like you a little more than the average slob who comes in for a lappie, but you're still a ticket. You HAVE to break that frame or she is going to continue to see you just as another customer and it will only build upon itself the more you let it go. If I were you I would start by getting her attracted to the idea of seeing you outside of the club. Get her to see you as not just another customer but as someone who's NOT a customer at all. Next if you are paying for anything STOP immediately. The more you pay the more she will see this as a transaction. The moment you stop paying is the moment she starts investing in you. She may be investing in you because she thinks you're going to pay out big but the more she invest in you the more she is going to want to invest in you to get that payout. Eventually, she'll dump you because you're not paying or she'll fall for you and that's a different problem. But it all starts when you stop being a customer. OR You can just ask her how much to fuc*?
Ahh, Mikey...who was that lady that you invested $6,000, with? (I think I know the answer). :lol::thumbdown: Mikey, strippers are a different breed of women. Unless, you have some qualities that are OUTSTANDING (Example: A SUPER fuck-stud), your chances of getting ANYTHING from her, or any other stripper, are next to nill. Mikey, I am learning some real good stuff at one particular strip bar. But, this is the EXCEPTION! Listen to what Steven and I are saying...DO NOT go to strip bars to pick-up women. Go to these places for entertainment and to see beautiful naked women and spend as little as possible. TM Note: Those are VERY wise words, Steven: "Get her to see you as not just another customer but as someone who's NOT a customer at all".
Hey Mike I wish i could give you some advice here but i cant as i have never attempted to pull a stripper before totally outside my reality. Just becareful a work colleague of mine years ago dated a stripper for a short while. He told me she was a real pain in the ass constantly lying, having tantrums and was hooked on drugs. I guess at the end of the day they are still women and deep down they still enjoy a hard cock keep us all posted
Ok sorry for the late reply guys. Just one point of the clarification ...That $6,000 TM... NOT ME!. I think you got confused with some other dude. And the last one i talked about was a stripper ...but it's the same stripper giving me a shout out of the blue.... so i'm gonna see what's up. She's not ripping me off because I haven't spent money on her (aside from a few lapdances which was no biggie) I know the strip club came pretty well. I've gotten about 10 #'s in my life time and one was almost a homerun...with a lot of makeouts and naughty stuff on the side... Believe me i don't need a lecture about strippers. But you'll always have that one that doesn't follow code. And one willing try it out. I'm not spending any money and time on this... believe me... I'm totally agreement with Steven. But I'm still gonna try. Updates... I sent that line to her IB...no response yet lol. She knows that I'm trying to fuck her... and she's prolly playing her game...i'm trying to override that!
Sorry, Mikey, I got you mixed-up with someone else. It took me a long time to realize what was going-on in strip bars. I always had the impression that within a month of dating a stripper, something WEIRD will happen. I still believe it. So many of us men think we can "out-game" these women..it will more than likely, NEVER happen. One man told me something that was interesting and it took me 1 year for it to sink-in. He said something to the effect, "Stay away from women (don't get involved outside of the bar) who take their clothes-off and do sexual favors for money". I have a GREAT time at the strip bars and I am learning some good things at one bar. They are a GOOD way to escape reality/socialize and to have FUN being with the beautiful, naked women. I practice my hard-attraction with these women. It's a lot of FUN!!! TM Note: Sorry about the lecture. You and I and every other man has to learn his lesson about strippers the HARD-WAY!:lol:
I hear ya TM. I'm not really that big into strip clubs... i go like 4 times a year roughly. Thanks for the opinion.
I just LOVE this Forum. :thumbup: It's a GREAT way for us men to learn from one another. I think Steven should win the prize, when he said, something to the effect: DO NOT cause her to view you as a customer. Talk about doing FUN things with her outside of the bar. To NOT spend any money on her at the bar is HARD to do. My opinion is, if she EARNS-IT, I will spend a few dollars for a lap dance, but, that is when my hard-attraction kicks-in. TM Note: I find it interesting, certain subjects seem to generate a lot of posts and some subjects generate few posts. Example: Strip Bars Steven and me talking about TOUCHING a woman. Being specific about being sexual with a woman.
Never really thought about it that way but of course it makes perfect sense what steven says "DO NOT cause her to view you as a customer"
