OK, so the during my hiatus, the past few weeks were easily the most productive and successful of my life. I went on a date with Casino Girl and now I'm in a rut. Karma kicking my ass for the highs. Here is the report. Pre Date Game: Text her a couple days after getting her number from FB. Here are the exact texts so other people can benefit. Aww you rememebred my drink, how cute Actually, my thoughts were...this guy is losing at penny slots and drinking crown...complex? You love it Yeah, no lie...I dig crown. So impressive, so did you enjoy yourself then? ---(her seeking rapport) So how do we have a blast? (I wait) Leave that to me, g2g teach Have fun As you can see, I did shit right by being glib and she was clearly eager to contact me. I called her a few days later and left a voicemail. She texted me the next day before my concert : Sorry I haven't called you back, I'll give you a call later. I'm free Sundays! I have about as much investment as anyone can ask for. She apologizes for a late response and then tells me what day she is free. I call her Sunday morning and tell her to get up, get dressed and come hang out with me. She drives about an hour to meet me at a park near my house. I brought two blankets and a nice bottle of wine. I see her get out of her car and say "I'd recognize that smile anywhere! Get over here." We sit at a bench and I build comfort before leading her to a more secluded area. I only have two hours before I have to be somewhere for dinner. My entire game plan was to be caveman physical leading and cocky funny, since her sense of humor is great. I lead her around the park by holding her hand or the hips, telling her I will protect her from goose shit and rape vans. I set up the blankets and pour her a glass of vino. She asks if we are allowed to have glass in the park and I say "we are going to be naughty and break rules." We talk and she is nearly in tears laughing so hard. I have never seen anything like it. My hand is on her ass, back, arms I may have overdone the kino. She would adjust herself or cover up occasionally while laying down next to me. To test this, I froze her out and just laid looking away from her. Eventually, our legs "accidentally" touched. Because the gods were smiling upon me, the sun came out and it started to sun shower right as I wrap her up in a blanket and have her sitting between my legs. She starts talking nervously and re-applying her chapstick a bunch. I gently touch her cheek and kiss her. "Everything is going according to plan eh? And I've only had one glass of wine!" she chuckles. Me: "pretty much." Keep kissing, roll on top of her. We keep kissing but she gets nerouvs that there are some poeple around and it starts raining harder. I get up and challenge her to "race me to the patio - where we are going to kiss more." We run, I smack her ass, she sits on my lap and we kiss more. Its all very sweet and not hardcore makeouts though. She starts getting weird and asking me if I will protect her, or tyring to ask serious questions and just clinging to me like a baby. I dodge everything playfully, but get the vibe she is looking for a relationship. My time is up so I walk her to her car, and open the door for her after slamming her against it and making out more and rubbing my boner on her LOL I turn and walk away without looking at her, and yell to her to stop staring at my ass. A few hours later, I think I fucked up as I texted her "hey had a great time today" She took an entire day to respond, punishing my needyness for ruining the mystery, with "sorry that was a dick move on my part. I had a great time too, hope all is well." I text her 45 min later "bad kitty" as during the date I was petting her and making her "purr" for me. My over-arching plan was to go between asshole physical and genuine nice. Clearly that didn't work and I will never text a girl after a date agian - no matter how well it goes.