Dealing with a girl who is a virgin ?

Had a date with a young polish girl (23 years old) i approached her whilst she was sitting on a park bench reading a book last week.

On the date we met at the station. Took her hand lead her to the park, we chatted talked alittle bit about each others lives for nearly 30 mins whilst slowly escalating my touch freqency to a point we were making out whilst lying on the grass.

After making out I said to "hey I wanna show you my collection of samurai swords back at my place" she said no and smiled. We again went for a walk around the park holding hands.

Then we sat down under a tree and we started making out again. At one point she said "i love it when you bite my neck do it again". I told "no you must bite me first" she bite me in the neck and i bit her in the neck she loved it.

I started talking sexy stuff with her whilst pulling her closer to me. I asked her what was the craziest thing she had ever done when it came to sex"

She replied back "FM theres something i have to tell you i have never slept with a man before"

I was kind of stumped because my sexual experience is very little and now it seems like i am dealing with a girl who could be a virgin.

I got her to share her fantasies role playing me hand cuffing her and then licking her naked body up and down before fucking her.

Her eyes light up and she became alittle more sexually aggressive touching me all over. I pushed her way and started talking about something else.

I invited her again to come back to my place but she refused. Before we left each we maked out again. She sent me a text just now...

"I am like a cat on a hot tin roof its all your fault x"

Now my question is has anyone had any experience of dealing with a girl who is a virgin ? I mean with my limited sexual experience i am not sure how to handle this myself

I think you need to stick at it. She'll eventually try to seek some higher level of connection ("Do you love me FM"?). You're gonna have to say something to her lol

It's not gonna be easy bro... you gotta stay consistent and don't push it so hard that she'll be turned off.

But definitely escalate when you are making out...

Did you pull her hair?

Did you touch her breasts, ass and pussy???... If you haven't yet DO IT!!! Then push her off her fast and remind her that she's a virgin jockingly... then do the whole thing again. And if it's in public ...WHO CARE's. I did that shit to a girl in a bar with bartenders watching. I've fucking had a girl grab my dick in the club stroking that shit having people looking at me. When I left the bouncer told me to behave.. i didn't give a fuck. I fucked her 1 week later

Don't ask her so bluntly to go back to your place again. Don't even ask her. Just get her to a higher hornier state. Then just leave...say you gotta do some shit or whatever.

You need to lay that seed and be patient. Don't over water it or that pussy plant will never grow!

Here's a challenge for you next time to meet her. Do one thing to escalate the makeout than you previous did. If she's not feeling it just joke about it and tease her that "I guess virgins are this and that lol..." but do it so you're not a jerk (that's where i fuck up lol!).

Thanks Mike i actually had my hands on her boobs and grabbed her hair and pulled her head back during the escalation she seemed to love it.

Absolutely i dont want to be a jerk to her mate. Shes a nice enough girl, she admitted to me shes very shy and very private but she says i make her feel really hot.

Why are you assuming that you are going to be a jerk FM?

It sounds like your talking yourself out of it???

Ok let me know how it goes!

Wow if she's a virgin and you're getting that far with her you are on your way to getting some soon.

I would say where you're missing is that you're asking her to come over to your place. So, don't ask -- just go. Because she's a virgin if you ask her then her natural response is to say NO. She's been saying it for years so why stop now.

But by avoiding the question you avoid the natural response.

So how do you get her into your place. What I do if I'm driving and we're going on a date somewhere, I just drive to my place (BTW I hate taking chicks to my place but more on that later) and when we're close to my house, I'll say something like, "I need to get X out of my house before we go -- if you want to stay in the car you can or you're perfectly welcome to come in as long as you don't try anything funny - lol.

This usually drops there defenses and they laugh about the whole thing. I've done this lots and only once have a had a chick who didn't come in.

If you keep it light, carefree and fun - a chick will follow you anywhere. When you get her in the house is another story.

Good luck

Jesse i think she is thinking of me day and night. Shes sending me flirty text messages every other day

Thanks Steven excellent advice

FM;

You are doing ALL of the things to get her sooo turned-on to you!
(TOUCHING, dirty talk, sex fantasies)
Yeh, she is thinking of you, a lot, and she is masturbating and thinking of, YOU.
She has, probably, NEVER been turned-on this much by, anyone!

But, FMs' question is, what should I do with this woman who is a virgin.
("Now my question is has anyone had any experience of dealing with a girl who is a virgin ? I mean with my limited sexual experience i am not sure how to handle this myself".)

Now, FM, if you do have sexual intercourse with her, she will NEVER forget this experience and YOU.
There is little info/available knowledge from men/women about how to have sexual intercourse with a virgin. (What I would do is go to the internet and do some searches).
Tiger, did a post about this subject and said it was difficult and he would NOT do it again, I believe.

There's, always the CLIT that she knows very well. I have told you about other types of orgasms she can have. (Nipple, Butt, Foot)

I would ask her other questions about her sexual experiences.
Such as:
Has she/would she do oral sex on a man?
Does she pleasure herself with her clit?
Has she ever have sex with a woman?
Does she think she may be Bi?
Would she like for a man to do oral sex on her?
Did she ever have anal sex?
Have you ever had a man who tried to have sexual intercourse with you?
(Asking these questions will allow the her to be more open about her sexuality.
These questions will help fill-in any questions in what you can do with her.
She will, also, get the impression that YOU have GREATER knowledge/experience than what YOU really have.
She will have GREATER confidence in YOU.)

Eventually, the two of you will get-together in bed.
I would say, "Where can we go that is close where we can get to know each other better". (Thanks, Steven for this idea)

TM