Dying Authentically

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GOOD response, Jobic.
I have a difficult time wrapping my head around death. disaster and all of the other bad things that happen.
My guess is that you are NOT saying, show/feel NO empathy or sorrow.
Note: Keep-up your wise words of wisdom, Jobic. I'm learning from YOU.

TM

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Good way to express about a person who dies.

It's hard for me to accept the idea that someone, I know, is doing things that are VERY harmful to herself. But, I realize, there is little that I can do to change-it, but, all I can do is, enjoy the times I am with her. The time that I have known her, has been a VERY big learning experience for me...spiritual?...maybe?
I have told her she is my, Fairy God-Mother. (I'm, serious!)

TM

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Fairy God-Mother is the best name I can assign to her.
She could, also, be called something, else,..I don't know exactly it would be?...mentor or something?..someone who taught me, indirectly, that I have many flaws. By being around her, I can change for the, better.
It was an amazing experience.

TM

Note: I think a Fairy God-Mother is someone who protects, just, me. She will over-see me and make things good for me.

Fairy godmother
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In fairy tales, a fairy godmother is a fairy with magical powers who acts as a mentor or parent to someone, in the role that an actual godparent was expected to play in many societies. In Perrault's Cinderella, he concludes the tale with the cynical moral that no personal advantages will suffice without proper connections. The fairy godmother is a special case of the donor.
Many other supernatural patrons feature in fairy tales; these include various kinds of animals and the spirit of a dead mother.
TMs' Note: She could be the spirit of my dead mother.

Typically, the fairy godmother's protégé is a prince or princess and the hero of the story, and the godparent uses her magic to help or otherwise support them. The most well-known example is probably the fairy godmother in Charles Perrault's Cinderella.

In the Grimm Brothers' variant of Cinderella, Aschenputtel is aided not by her fairy godmother but by her dead mother.[5] A great variety of other figures may also take this place. She is portrayed as kind, gentle and loving.

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Many women, seem, to be my Fairy God-Mother, especially, within the past 2 years.
My belief is, everyone that I meet, will TEACH me something.

TM

Note: That woman I talked about; she is the woman who can't get enough of the Spiritual Orgasms that we have. She can easily have 100+ in 15 minutes. As soon a I TOUCH her, she starts cumming.
Our PASSION and BOND seems to wane back and forth.

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WOW!..does your wisdom never end?!
That recommendation about writing in a book the good things you like about someone was REAL good.

TM

Note:
"It's refreshing to have people like that come into your life, but you should try not to feed off of their energy too much or it'll be a draining experience for them".
(I'm NOT sure what you mean.)

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OK, I know what you mean by relying and clinging to someone...they get weary of the experience.
I NEED to hash-out what's going-on between us...???
I am seriously thinking of severing the close relationship.
It MAY be too draining on, ME.

TM

Note: Thanks for your input.

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I am thinking, SERIOUSLY, of severing the close relationship.
She has some serious flaws that prevent us from growing.
It was a GOOD experience, one that I don't regret, but, something I will NEVER do, again.
Damn!...this makes me sooo depressed/sad!

TM