Turns out, I have really thick skin. This FR chronicles my absolute worst interaction/reaction from any set of girls EVER, and what I could have done differently to improve. Bar is a microbrew and known as a bit of a "hook up" bar. Intro myself to split 6 set and ask what they are drinking, and offer anybody in the group my drink (which a random girl just bought for me DHV) I tell the chick that I don't drink beer, but don't want to be rude and turn down her drink offer. Make small talk with the group about the drinks etc. Hot girl plays along and teases me, telling me to drink it because she roofied it. Usual teasing follows, about how I'm "not that easy," etc. Starts touching my hair and says "maybe if ur lucky I'll take advantage of you!" I test, by stepping back and saying "whoaa slow down, you need to say pretty please to touch the hair" She steps forward to close the distance, complies, and says pretty please I pull her in, give her permission to touch me, and spin her. I intro myself to one other girl she was with and the dude. I try to engage him a bit, but he is being a huge TOOL. Acting gay, lying about what his name is, the other girl gives me an obviously fake name and starts being rude. I crack a joke, FTC and start talking again. One girl starts being VERY rude. Girl in set behind me turns to me and demands that "I stop bumping into her." She does this atleast 2 times saying I am being inconsiderate. I laugh it off and make a self-depricating joke. Blonde girl from the other set comes over and starts pushing herself between me and the 1st girl. I guide her towards the bathroom, as if she was cutting through to get there LOL Creativity points! She turns and rudely says, "Oh. I'm not going to the bathroom. I'm going to stand here so you can't talk to my friend." I smile and say "Awesome! In that case, my name is Earl. Figure I should get to know the girl who's interrupting me." Ignore her, keep talking. Blonde keeps being a bitch, but I persist and try to engage her. All the sudden, her and her friend just start calling me names and making fun of me TO MY FACE. Is this grade school?! I laugh at them and say "I was right, you guys are so charming!" or "Yeah, glad you noticed, I do look pretty lame." Girl next to me AGAIN fucking says I am bumping her (I am not, I don't know what her deal is) She turns around and says somethng really demeaning. I just stare her down and say ok. Not breaking eye contact until SHE turns around and moves. Dude in the set jumps in my face and starts whiteknighting trying to fight. "you were funny at first, now you're being an asshole. You aren't aloud to look at these girls like that! Wahh" I just stand there in his face and don't flinch. I note that my heart hasn't so much as fluttered and that I really don't give a shit. I would wreck this guy if it came down to it. He backs off and I reengage the girls with small talk. They are being rude as fuck. The blonde says "Hey, there are other pretty girls here, go talk to them." I say, "Whoa!? There are pretty girls here?" I start being a total ass because I am not going to take this disrespect. The one girl starts blabbering about how she is 10 years older than me and a wise, career woman. I say "yeah, I am WAY too young for u. You're on the wrong side of 25, thats hurting ur chances with me." Eject set with my head held high. Maybe I am mistaking the "evil eye" for the "fuck me" look, but each girl from the set was oogling me as I walked off. It all could have been avoided if they would've simply said "ok, nice to meet you." Or "Nice chatting," but they had to go and be super cunts.
I got the set off to a good start with the main girl, maybe it would have gone differently if I had more stories to tell or engaged everyone equally at first. The first girl was the only one who seemed interested in talking too. Another friend opened them later, and said they went to school for Woman's Studies. Go figure, 30s, single, whored out feminist 7s....Makes a bit more sense now... He said they were nice at first and cool, and that they did the same shit and started asking how much money he had and being rude. WOW Best anti-femisism comeback ever BTW "I went ot school for women's studies." "Awesome! I took Home-Ec in highschool too!" or..."What is that, like cooking and cleaning?" What is the most effective way to deal with negativity and turn it around? Its hard for me to WANT to attract a girl like that when, although hot, they are being outright rude. I need a wholesome girl.
yes. If they're rude, you can just leave the set... persistence is for girls that are "on the fence" and by staying in set they warm up to you and become attracted. If the girls start getting rude, you can just leave.
Damn brother.......it was coming at you from all angles but you really handled it well and that's what's gonna make you soo good in field. I would have just walked away too. Been through something like that with some friends years ago with this girl we saw regularly at the bar and we know it wasn't us she was just flat out at BITCH. Getting rejected are the best stories and I want this when I go in field from people because no matter what you're solid and this won't sway your state. It makes you really strong. Give you a lot of credit Earl. Next time try this. If the girls are being bitchy and emotional like that then match the emotion like you did and take it as they like you. Go for compliance tests while they're showing the emotion. See what happens.