Game--> Fuck Buddy---> Strip Club LOLz:woot: I have only been to a skin bar twice, and it was cool for the first 20 mins or so, then I get bored. You seem to like going to those places alot. I hate when they start hounding you for money even if you don't give a shit about their dance and they are being rude. I think I said something along the lines of..."Wow, that attitude really makes me want to be nice to you..." obvious sarcasm Anyway, sounds like the chick def wants to crash the bone and get pitted. I would say the smartest thing you did was the, "I don't know if we will see eachother again." That is the kind of shit I need to start pulling. She wants her holes plugged, but also needs an emotional void filled. Why didn't you suggest going to your place or a hotel? Could she not leave the strip club till her shift ended? If that is the case, you probably could have tried going to the VIP room and just ran pure escalation. If she was as attracted as you say, I don't see how it wouldn't work. Grab her, kiss her, etc, if shes like, "omg $$$ baby" but still on you, just be like, "Yeah you earn tht money you filthy little girl." But keep escalating, you know, do the shit that "gets you kicked out of school" Then you bang her and leave without paying. Asshole thing to do, I know, but maybe she was saying the $$ and champagne bit to lure you into being alone in the first place. How hard was it to work your way up from "that guy" customer who is always there and never paying, to dealing well with the girls?
She probably did feel a level of attraction for you, but to this particular woman it's about money as well. Why not make money while she's feeling those good feelings of attraction at the same time? That's a win-win for her. Strippers are paid to present a male fantasy; hyper-sexualized women that throw out IOIs like crazy and are perceived as ready for quick and easy sex. But once you start trying to push the and poke at the limits of that fantasy bubble (like trying to to get to know and date the real girl beneath the surface of the fantasy), you run into increasing drama. The fantasy bubble really isn't designed or meant to be popped. My point of view on strip clubs is this: Going to a strip club can be fun, but for me I expect nothing from the girls beyond the fantasy being projected.
