That's a GOOD question, Shark. "So can, anyone throw me some tips on how to not make a fool of myself in (a strip bar)...". I would recommend that ALL of you go there to have a GOOD-TIME. The women there are there to make money. (You DON'T have to foolishly give them ALL of your money.) Some of the strippers are in to enjoying their experiences with the people who go to strip bars. (Choose the women who look happy and have a good personality.) I would NOT recommend that any of you do any PRIVATES. (Paying her $25 or more to go into a private room...it's NOT worth-it.) Treat the women with RESPECT. (They are doing things that are TABOO in our society...acting like a SLUT.) Be FRIENDLY and FLIRT with the strippers. TOUCH the strippers. (A friendly handshake, warm hug, hold their hand for a minute or more.) Encourage the women you came with to go to the strippers stage. (This is a TABOO thing for women to do in public...they might like-it!) It's OK and healthy for men to view the strippers as sexual beings. TM Note 1: These are my BEST suggestions. You might want to make copies of these suggestions and give them to your friends. Note 2: There's one thing that I say to strippers when they ask me to do a private with them...almost ALL of them will, SMILE! "I will sometimes do privates, but, most of the time the women don't want to pay me, enough". Note: DON'T think that you can out-game these women. They have far more experience than any man.
Yeah, I would forget about 'gaming the strippers'. It will just make you feel weird and outcome dependent. Focus on having FUN. Smile, laugh with your buddies, have your own fun, make the fun about YOUR group (not the girls), be loud, do funny and stupid stuff. The naked girls are just there maybe to play off of and say nonsensical and weird stuff to. At least that way you'll be relaxed and having fun, instead of inside your head and all serious trying to think of how to 'game'. Lower your expectations and don't put pressure on yourself. Just think in every moment, 'how can I make this fun for me and my buddies'
Shark; You have NEVER set-foot into a strip bar, before. You are going to see sooo many good-looking women who are partially naked. You are going to be over-whelmed! And you are thinking of out-gaming these women who see, about, 100 men, each day?! OK, almost ALL of the men who go to strip bars are wimps and have NO game. Some MAY seem to, but, they are wanabe playboy/players. I could tell you in more detail what I do, but, it is sooo hard for me to explain it and for you to duplicate or even believe it can happen. Here's a hint: TOUCH the women. In my thread, "Types Of Orgasms a Woman Can Have", it tells you the types of orgasms a woman can have. When I go to a strip bar, women will have Butt Orgasms (their favorite) and many more types. They will, eventually have, Spiritual Orgasms. TM Note 1: Oh, I have learned to NOT drink any alcohol. The more you drink, the more you will spend. Note 2: That was good info that Jesse, said. Enjoy each moment with everyone.
Shark; In some parts of the USA, the customers can't TOUCH the dancers. Usually, you can do it in the private area, for money. I'm not sure what the rules are in your country. This was your first time in a strip bar. Some of these places aren't all that much FUN. Usually, it goes back to management and/or the local legal codes. I was hoping you could apply my techniques of giving women orgasms...maybe the next time. :lol: TM
Sandee and Shark: I have learned that women have a social intelligence that is much higher than men. Put the women in a bar, wearing almost nothing with the intent to take money from the male customers, who are high on alcohol; there's little that any man can do to out-game these women. The ONLY way to win is to give the women what they want. It could be MONEY or something else that they want. (I DON'T spend too much money.) TM
