GF reading your PU stuff

I've always wondered what would happen if my GF would read my posts on lounge or any other PU related stuff I have in my room or whatever...

The thing is that girls are curious creatures and want to know everything! Well I have my PU stuff always with me, somewhere and in some form, so its easy to get a hold of it with a little search, specially if they have the liberty of going through my stuff, because of relationship we have.

For exe, I've printed some stuff on sex other day, just to have something not study related to read and guess what, my GF saw it and for two weeks straight was asking for me to read it... Eventually I gave it to her and she also got something from Cliff's list stuff I receive time to time .

The point line here is that my previous one got her hands on a bit of material too, so my approach to in is: I dont try to hid it really hard and if discovered I say its just entertainment reading.

Any other approach I can give it, or some red flags I should be aware here?

Tiger

Tiger;

I think that it is good that you are showing interests in dating and sexual matters. My guess is, she will admire you for your interests. Most men have little knowledge or interests in improving themselves.

TequilaMan

Hmmm... I actually practice my pick-up stuff on my girlfriend and absorb how she reacts. I even discuss with her what I am doing. She has no hesitation telling me what she likes and what she does not.

However, her late husband was a pick-up artist so she is quite comfortable with "community" stuff anyway.

As long as I describe PU in terms of doing it on her, not on another chick, things are fine.

By the way, we both have passwords on our computers; that solves the issue of her just poking around and finding something upsetting.

Well, I'd say that not hidding PU stuff is one thing, another thing is to say you are from the community... Obviously it has some advantages, but there are quite few desadvantages, too. I still dont know how good sharing this information is and prefere not to do it...

Tiger

Hey, Tiger;

From my view point, most of the PUA stuff is good and you should not hide it. I freely talk about different things to women. But, they keep a closed mouth about most things. Are we at WAR with women?
Tell me what you are reluctant to show your GF.

Here's my thoughts about the subject:
Women have a much higher knowledge of how to be social (social intelligence) and to get the things that they want. They have been learning it since they were little girls while us guys were playing baseball, etc. Us guys are at a much higher disadvantage compared to women.
Now, most women will not show/tell you what social intelligence tricks they use to get what they want. YES, they keep it a secret from men, so, why shouldn't men do the same thing. It's this secrecy that bothers me.
I'm confused...maybe, I'm saying too much and "TRYING" to impress the women with my knowledge. Or, maybe, I'm being more open about what I think and believe.

TequilaMan

"It's this secrecy that bothers me". This is exactly what bothers me too. TM you are bothering me more with your confusion. For now, I think I should forget about this, and just focus on the exercises and coaching. Right now, I don't feel like talking about these stuffs, cause it just becomes more and more confusing to me.

Yeah, I think we ARE at war, and woman is like...our enemy. Otherwise, I wouldn't have had any trouble going near them, approaching and opening them. And, the hiding of all these informations felt to me like we are trying to protect the secret codes from getting leaked to the enemies. Shit! I think I'm saying it too much...I'm going to go for exercise....need to clear up my mind.

Hardi;

Yeah, you're RIGHT, I am talking about things that are in some respects, too far ahead of the seduction techniques on this site.
I have been noticing some women say things that are confusing to me. I am more and more understanding what they mean.
But, you will notice that some of the mens' posts indicate confusion on their part about why a woman said or did this or that.

Shit-Tests-
I am beginning to wonder if shit-tests indicate a womans' insecurity. The more beautiful she is, the more shit-test she will give a man.

Flaking-
I think flaking indicates that a woman wants you to pursuit her.

TM
Note 1: The above posts by me are, relatively, old. I can see they can be confusing to some people. Everyday, I gain better insight and wisdom, thanks, to this Forum.
Note 2: Just because I have a lot of posts, it doesn't mean I know a lot more than other MEN on this site. I just know different things and sometimes I am wrong.

Hardi, what I figuered out is that you get a bonus points when you can stay cool if girl asks you about PU material.

Its actually good to have a book on sex or sex positions on your table all the time, so when a girl comes to your room, she gets more exited right away and if she starts speaking about it, even better! (not your mom tho)

Just keep her away from your FRs and its ok.

Tiger

Sounds, GOOD, Tiger.
FR = Field Reports

TM