Gym Game

I was at the gym today, and a hot girl came in and I wanted to pick her up. Here is what happened, what is the best thing to do for gym game?

I work out at the country club gym, as no one is EVER there and I can do whatever I want and use all the weights hassel free. I'm in the corner doing leg lifts, when two girls come in (one fat, one HOT.)
"....yeah...like I love coming here cuz like...no one is ever here..."
I interrupt:
"Hahaha you are not alone. Welcome to the party!"
"Wow, like you are the first person I have seen here, I like am gonna jog for a bit."
"Cool. But I swear to God if you put on Keeping Up with the Kardashians, we are going to have some serious problems"

Banter about working out with the TV on. Her fat friend seems self concious (prob cus of working out) but the hot girl actually seems to want to talk more. I was torn between gaming and working out, which is what ALL of us are there for. So I continue my workout.

The girls talk about guys, relationships, guys with younger girls, guys with older girls, and how they have gained weight since high school. I am having a hard time controlling the laughter in my head.

The girls ass was prime, she was very tall, skinny blonde with beautiful lips and eyes. She was wearing make up and earings to the gym, so I figure she is either very insecure or takes herself a bit too seriously.

Finish my workout, debate whether or not to talk to her. Go to a cooler, get water, thinking yeah bud, you really want to just leave, not talk to her? Is that what you want? You know you're gonna hate yourself if you don't at least introduce yourself."

On my way out, I walk between them and say, "Hey girls, having a good workout?" They thought it was a statement (break rapport lol) I look at the hot one and say, "What are your names? We might as well get to know eachother....." "My name is Earl, at this rate I will probably bump into you at some point next year down here" I gently tease and smile to the fat one, making a point to acknowlege her as she was on a break.

Anyway, I looked the hot girl up and down and we talked for like a sec longer. I had my foot halfway out the door, and figured because of that, I was out of the set. Could I just stop her from the treadmill and be like, "give me your number." Without winning the friend or talking more? It seemed strange, because they were still working out and I was leaving. I swear tho, the look on the hot girls face was like "yeah, I want to see you again." Or she could have just been intimidated by being approached at a gym where she expected to be alone. They did seem intimidated while I spoke to/at them (breaking rapport is my default tone of voice)

I am really hoping to see her again down there, but chances are slim. What should I do to quickly get a number, even if a girl is mid work out? Is it ok gym etiquette to just blow into some chicks routine?

First of all big respect for all the things you do...
a lot of poeple are just talking it, you are doing it man :thumbup:

I think here is still some work to do with your belief system.

Just change the scentence to: You know you're gonna hate yourself if you don't introduce yourself and get her number for a date. (or something similar)

Just try it the next time, because only than you will know if it works or not works... it doesn't help if somebody tells you that this wouldn't wok or would work... just get the experience by yourself and look at your process as a man not the single set...

Are you the man? Or aren't you the man?
If you are the man than it is ofcourse okay, but not because they think it is okay, or anybody else is thinking it is okay, it's okay because you want to do that... and nothing else counts...
if you want to speak to her, you do it...
if you want to get a date with her, you do it ..
if you want to tell her that her as is prime, you do it..
etc.

it doesn't mean that you will get a date or anything else, but it means that you are acting like a man and that's all what counts...

my thougths on it

I liked the Gym report dude welldone

I agree with IAM. By asking for her number your doing your job as a man. So just ask for it dude it doesnt matter.

Remember if you're hungry you eat. If you're thirsty you drink. If you see a woman you want to date what do you do ?

FM

I should have gone farther. Sometimes I do not push myself far enough, for lack of experience. I'm confident that my overall belief system is fine, I have always held myself accountable and stood behind my actions my entire life. But I agree with IAM that, I should add to my thought loop: Dude...get the number!

I am working through a deeper issue here as well. In my head, when I looked away from the girl and noticed I was already on my way out the door, I figured opps, sets over, just dropped the ball.

Next time (hopefully she is there again) I WILL push it farther. I will get out of my head more. I was just wondering more about theory and kino tactics for Gym Game that are effective. Like, say you see the hot girl, logistically you can't just run up and put your arms around her (which would be fine in a club) while shes on the treadmill or sitting on a bench doing curls...

I see what your getting at. What I would do is walk back upto her and say with a smile "I hate to interrupt your workout but I have to ask <pause> lets get together sometime continue our conversation\chat over a drink\tea\coffee" if she smiles and says yes then swap numbers.

At this point just drop the game and be totally real with her.

Secondly set yourself a goal to take the interaction as far as possible. You might want to set a goal from today whenever you chat to a girl and the interaction is going well always ask for a number.

The Aftermath: I AM LEGEND

OK, Jesse, what I said was sarcastic and as a joke. Anyway, not important, does not matter.

Went to the gym today. SHE WAS THERE! I figured the Gods had smiled upon me. We start chitt chatting again as I stretch, she was on eliptical. She tells me she is watching a show about babies on TLC instead of Bravo. I joke about it for a bit, find out she is a Med student at local college.
OK, the cool stuff: She kept re-initiating conversations, turns out she had visited her sister who lived in Baltimore, close to my old apartment.
"Hahaha, Oh boy, takes me back. I have some crazy stories from that city..."
"Omg, it is ghetto! Tell me!"
"Nope, not appropriate gym talk."
"Please cmon tell me!"
"no way, my stories are too dirty and involve great detail hehe."
"Please!"
"I'm trying to workout, this would be more appropriate over drinks."
*she smiles* "Ok, this one time, I saw a crackhead!"
"Now your just lying to try to impress me..."

Continue my leglifts, she is infront of me.
She turns around and says, "Look, I found the Kardashians!"
I look her in the eye, then gaze down at her ass, back up to her eyes and say, "hmm, I found something better to watch."

Change subject fast, don't give her time to react.

Some more light chit chat. In my head I am thining, I am not leaving without her number this time. REDEMTION. She gets on the weight machine while I am doing curls. It had been a while since the banter died down.

"Full body today, huh?"
"Everyday, I am sore all the time hehe"
"Thats crazy, you should take a day to rest."
"Nope, I take the summer off and workout for the school year. I gained weight first year and now I am working it off."

I have exp dealing with chicks who talk about weight all the time. I basically kept my tone of voice calm, never kissed her ass, and never outright said any dickhead things.
"Haha, me too...(kidding, im skinny) Look, the freshman 15 doesn't have to be a life sentence."
"Yeah, I work out alot, but I don't want to be buff."
"I like a girl who stays in shape, alot of girls let themselves go."
At this point she stopped lifting and was just talking to me. I begin doing reps while we talk. An older, gray hair guy comes in. I love having an audience.

She kept saying "I come on the weekends, I come in the summer" and the way she said come sounded so errotic, to me. Eye contact whole time.

She finished when I was about done.
"well, that wraps things up." as she lingers around.
"I'm about done too. Hey, give me your number, we can exchange Baltimore stories some time."
"Yeah, sure." *walks up to me. (no resistance at all, it was so casual)
"I don't have my phone, you are gonna have to call mine."
I give her my number.
The only kino I had was when she came up to me, I patted her on the arm. After she gave me her number and was on her way.

"see ya later!"
"Yeah, see you around, some time not down here sweating!"

Def could have come up with something wittier, but I was preoccupied keeping my cool.

Come home, have her number in my phone. I am going to text her later, so it does not seem desperate saying: "Awesome, you are now in my address book, congrats! "

Is that cool? I will probably do it anyway, regardless of what you guys think.:thumbup: Would have liked to get more kino in, she is a total hottie. Hope this works out, she is 5'10" , has brains (assumption based on school) and works out alot. This would be epic for me.

Fucking awsome mate well done .

Now give her a call and organise a date.

Thanks FM, I will call her Saturday afternoon to set up plans for that nite. I am busy all Friday.

I texted her about 20 min ago. "Awesome, you made into my addres book, congrats "

Before I could put down the phone she texted: " Hahaha should I feel special?"
Me: You mean you don't already!?
Her: Hahaha you should feel special I gave u my number
Me: Haha it takes 2 to tango, we will hang and c how special
her: okay then.

it took her a while to respond to that one, I might send her something more playful like, :hmmm, thought u'd be a better flirt
her: I am a great flirt when I want to beee, mostly when im not covered in sweat from the gym
me: haha Righty, we shall c. A lil sweat and those tights are a gd look for u btw"
Her: haha Thanks

Thanks gents.

Ideally, we will hangout this weekend, where the getting physical process starts at my house or a bar...

At the gym: "Hey, you again! Get off that machine and give me a sweaty hug!"

Don't want to jynx myself, she is a very friendly, bubbly girl. Looking forward to the weekend!

I may need ome Day2 Help

OK FM (are you named after an Eric Clapton song?)

I called her today. I left a decent voicemail, but she ended up calling me back while I left it (which is cool!)

We chatted for about 5 minutes, mostly small talk. "Hey, I was just leaving you an awkward voicemail, whats up?"
She was at a college football game, and told me she was drinking heavily. I never once changed my tone of voice over the phone, from breaking rapport or either loud and playful. I wanted to get her to come out tonight, but she is out of town at the game.

Anyway, I teased her about how "we need to get together so I can test her mad flirting skills." She was laughing on the phone and kept talking, I hope this is not from the drinking. She told me she is upset I met her at the gym, where she looks like hell and is sweaty and used to only seeing old men. I didn't know quite what to say so I said, "Boy, then you sure did luck out when I rolled up in there! Yeah, go get your drink on and work it off, thats a nice routine you have going for yourself (sarcastic), at least you still looked hot enough to get my attention."

Basically I never said don't worry, you look great...blahhhhh

But I still felt like I had a hard time getting around it. Anyway, she told me she will be back in town tomorrow and told me to call her in the morning. I told her I could not do that because I need my beauty sleep. I told her she would hear from me later. She wants to go to the country club and have drinks.

Not what I planned on doing, but, it is outdoors, nice, and I think there won't be too many people. Oh, and I don't have to pay. I am pissed that she started setting plans, even tho mine were just, meet somewhere else and drink...

I said, "Gee, sounds like someone likes to rack up daddy's account bill...thats a naughty little routine you have going for yourself...."
"...Look, I am implimenting a two drink max on myself, can't get too drunk and have you trying to take advantage of me ."

Hopefully it goes well.

Hope I can talk some sense in her and get her to not be a big drunk. I want to get to know her, not drunk girl, I don't care about the surroundings.

This is something I am wondering about. In my area there is a gym which has recently had a major new refit. Thing is there is a PT that virtually has his own show there. There appears to be some very good quality there. I am not a fan of mainstream gyms which are overhyped, at the same time can't help notising there is some quality poon who go there. Any advise, Jesse?