Help again!

Poop! The guy can post whatever he wants. I'm sure it's cathartic for him to write these things out.

As for him not taking your advice, well that was to be expected, and it's actually pretty silly that you guys thought he would. If you became totally dependent on someone or something, and saw that person/thing as your only source of happiness, would you give it up because some faceless dude on a message board told you to do so?

AK

I want to add to your comments AK. I think the concept of relationship and seduction are interwined. You use seduction to get into a relationship, but once you are in a relationship the seduction should continue. When you are in a relationship whether it be a girlfriend or a wife once you know everything about a person attraction starts to disappear because there is no mystery left. This is when we often look for that new girlfriend or get a divorce. I think in order to have healthy long lasting relationships with women we need to use the tools of seduction we have all learned. Every morning you wake up with a a woman is an opportunity to seduce her, to learn more about her, and to show her a new side of you. Imagine creating attraction with the woman you are with every single day. I'm not talking about being mysterious because there is only so much of that you can do, but bringing more of yourself to the relationship. Sharing your feelings about her as you are feeling them. Telling her how she has touched you in that moment or in your life. Telling someone that they have caused a feeling within you or that you feel something towards them is very powerful.

-Bluesky

yeah

You should only come here to post knowledge not learn, what's wrong with you guys. People NEVER change for the better- give up on all the ass holes out there, this is a closed cumminity and we are the precious chosen few.....or not.

Please pass the offering plate, AK is feeling the spirit.

BTW, if you don't think someone will change, don't read the post, if it is really that annoying to you.

Yeah, I'm being a bitch right now.....LOL!

Bitch all you like, I won't stop you.

But like with my previous post you're missing the point. People are getting bitchy at Taco because it's hard for him to change. I was pointing out how stupid it was for them to expect him to give up the one thing that he has centered his life around because they told him to.

But hey, your response is funny, and funny is always good.

AK

no problem man

as I mix my next drink ;-)

You still have your beard? Cause I'm picturing you stroking it right now as your making your Long Island Ice tea.

And so it goes.

ahh yes

But the poison is a martini......or martooni as the second one goes. BTW I do stroke my beard at times, but only when I drink Cap't Morgan, thank you.

You are hallucinating. After you're finished smoking the funny cigarettes maybe we can figure out where you stand in self improvement / seduction and build from there.

I suggest a total demolition of all knowledge you think you have (except for logical facts about your work) and begin a total rebuild starting from the foundation

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I had just finished typing a long post about how I have started to change myself and become a more understanding and mature guy and not being jealous or insecure , I had written stuff that had happened after that lunch we went to..I met her on wednesday and we both cried and consoled each other , I had told her iam going to the UK to study for an year in 3 weeks , I told her lets make us work and ill do everything to make it work , support her in modelling and become her strength and so on....She just said that if only you wouldnt have treated me like shit for those 2 years when I was madly in love with you things would be really different now , I would be married to you but its just that now I cannot love you the same and I know we cannot go on until I respect you and what you want so its better we give up and try to be happy without each other.And she said she will always be there for me no matter what and left crying...

Now yesterday my coach called me up and said to come to the gym asap ,
I went there and he told me that your girl and that guy in the gym were caught by the cops in the car doing some shit.I just froze , and asked him to confirm..a friend of mine in the gym told me that on saturday in the evening I saw that guy and monica in the car in a secluded area and couldnt make out what was going on inside but saw the guys hair all open and in a very weird state , they were there for 2 hours and the cops caught them under suspicion and left them after taking some money.He didnt know that she was my girlfriend until I told him yesterday , then he said he will confirm that it was the same girl who we are talking about , but one thing he said was for sure that he had noticed that Monica and that guy are always together in the gym and send SMS's to each other and are very flirty.Both of them leave at almost the same time.So today iam gonna go to the gym and first confirm that it was Monica who was in that car with that guy and then gonna talk to that guy and ask him what the hell was going on.99.9 percent she scrwed around with him if she was the one in the car...and if that guy says that he did do it with her , iam just gonna die man...iam soo mindfucked right now..i did fuking everything for that girl she had absolutely no reason to do this , I mean the car incident happened on saturday and on sunday we met for lunch and she was so sweet to me and acted like she wants to get back.
I dont know what will I do today if I find out she screwd him, I need alotta strength to hear all that , dunno what will I tell her she would probably just say that even if it did happen I wasnt dating you so whats the big deal?

She hasnt called or messaged since we met last apparently for the last time and she's been very rude to her friends...she's going on the same damn path again , she fucked my happinedd thru and thru , iam soo scared right now , dunno what will happen in the evening ..dunno what to tell her , iam a big wrck right now.

I dont think anyone would be interested now to even bother posting nything ...but right I really need something dunno what just tell ne anything ..iam going hysteric

DUDE!!! You are travelling down a dangerous road. Get off it.

You are running around, wasting your time, trying to confirm if your GF (if u can even call her that) was messin around with the dude in the gym.

Now u wanna confront this dude and ask him questions, dude you are traumatising yourself. Its time to let go my man. Move on.

When I started reading your last post the few lines seemed to be positive, but the rest was the same old Taco. Sort yourself out before this gets out of hand.

If you keep doing this, its gonna drag on for years, and your youth will be GONE, lost to you for ever...for what??? U dont wanna wake up in 5 years and realise what an idiot u have been. Wake up NOW, and MOVE ON!

Until you move on, i dont see the point in you asking for anymore help.

PS: You are doing this to yourself, you cant even blame this girl anymore. Take responsibility for you actions.

U are in a priviledged situation, you have good materials, a bunch of guys willing to help you find other girls and be happy...so use it positively.

Riddler

You are right about moving on , but now there is so much of hate in me cuz that girl has made me look like such a loser in front of everyone , the guys in the gym laughing yesterday saying you were with that slut for 4 years? I mean if what they say is true I just wanna blast her off once and take all the fucking stuff I gave to her back , I want her to come beg me for looking at her again so then I can tell her to fuck off.


I just cant live with the fact she could do something like this its so disgusting man , I thought she had learnt her lessons about rebounds and shit , I cant let go off this agaain , I know even if she didnt do anything with that guy in the car she's gonna hate me forever for creating such a scene outside the gym.Her rep in the gym is already fucked up , but the curiosity of finding out the truth is killing me.I just have to know what happened between the 2 of them.If i completely ignore this and not react she would go do more shit there has to be an end to all of this , iam thinking of telling her dad what his daughter is doing.Shes completely fuking her life , her friends have started bitching about her she shows she wants go get back and on the other hand flirting with random guys.

If I find out today they did shit then I just wanna send her 1 last message and stop bothering after that.Just please tell me the best thing to tell her before I forget about her compleltly.

Dude stop sayin we right, and completely contradict it 5 lines later.

Dude you made yourself look like a loser by creatin a scene.

Bad Idea, you just creating more trouble for yourself, you gonna make yourself look like a loser again, and then blame her for it.

I hate to say this, but this is gonna end bad for you man.

Im out of this, good luck.

I just cant see her ruining her reputation and her life like this.Everyone thinks she sucha whore , even if I dont create a scene today I gotta tell her something.

I still do care about her man , isnt there anything I can tell her before I totally diminish myself from her life?

Ok I think i wont go today , but dont you think I should find out if anything did happen or not , maybe they are just good friends and nothing more.I'll have to think of a more discreet way to find out without her knowing , I just want some clarity thats all.

If I ask her directly shell just deny it completely as she did before , I have to know the truth cause noone has seen anything actually happening maybe she is still in that phase of fighting with herself for coming back to me.

I dont want things to get ugly but I should know the truth.

Her friend told me right now to give her some time and she will find out whatever is going on and not make any scene.She knows how much we both love each other and has been trying to get us together since a month now.I think ill wait for 2-3 days and see what she can get outta her , till then do I message Monica anything?