Help again!

Was Einstein wise???

Einstein’s Definition

Albert Einstein once said “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results”. Think about this quote for a second and ask yourself Taco, does this quote apply to the way you run your love life?

Do you want to admit what you are doing is absolute insanity? Following her still, trying to convince others you are right, controlling those around you to believe what your reality is.

Freakin' stop already.

Well duh. You and Nina took the words of some guy you've known .00001% of the time you've all known Monica.

She viewed you guys the same as you all viewed her. You guys viewed her with suspicion now she views you with suspicion. There's a complete distrust in each others intentions. So many lives are being changed.

Fear.

You fear things getting worse. Always.

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That you jumped off a cliff, and by the time you heal you'll be finished acting like a psycho and scaring her.

You should have taken her word before a couple guys' words you just met. Duh. This is pre-SS

Exaclty

I am not upset with you ether Taco. Your pain is understandable. Change is difficult and it takes dedication to do this. I think you have some very serious soul searching to do and if you need to talk it out here feel free to do that. You might not always like what you read but it is written with the attitude that it will help you not insult you.

BTW, if you follow through with these difficult moves it WILL make your mind relax and you will feel at ease with the choices, it might take some time though.

tough love cures

Taco, you need tough love.

Nothing stopped you from reading 10 minutes per day for the past year. Or even 10 minutes per week for the past year.

If I said Blueprint you'd think I'm talking about the layout of a building...

You have no idea of even the simple concept of social value.

Instead you went to a police officer to gain leverage over her (and consider talking to her dad about this).

You still want to be a robot doing every little command we tell you to go do. You don't even question anything we say to you. Maybe you were just born this way. I'm reading some of the old posts and you are the same skill level you were one year ago. The only difference is your value went up through your job, then you were probably a complete bore to her despite your new cash flow, and controlling bore too, that you pissed her off and she went to the modelling school out of anger and spite toward you (and got her new social value, and is "rebelling" against you for your ridiculous tyranical degenerate behavior which you never tried to learn to improve).

I bet I covered all the broad strokes.

(These are the kinds of posts I type after I've given help numerous times, you don't do anything to help yourself, then you ask me for more help again).

I have other guys asking for my time, and they're willing to listen, willing to work on their own, and find new stuff on their own.

You're on your own from here (for my point of view). If you show me you've done at least a quarter of the suggestions I've given you in the past year, let me know and we can talk from there.

This has to be one of the funnier threads on here.

I wonder whatever happend to this guy.

Dear in despair

1. First you ask yourself is it worthy enough to try to get her back ?

2. WOULD you be able to trust her or do you trust her????

3. If she loves she would not have left you, i might sound melodramatic but
this is the bitter truth , you love her like anything, you do so much for
her like you are always there when she needs you ! and when you
need her she has better things to do ? Get yourself a life man.
I hope things get better but what if you get married to her and she
does not change ?




3. Women do not like a male who is always there , you have to put some
ambiguity like " if you go on a date with a girl , after the date do not
message or compliment the time you spent with her , this would give
her questions in her mind that she might have done something wrong
and you get the upper hand getting my point my friend ????

4. Dude you did wrong by messaging her now wait and see what happens.


5. Do not call or message , get yourself another girl and make sure that she
sees you with her.


6. If she calls , pick up tell her you are busy would call her back...but call
her after a day or two.

7. UPSTAGE YOURSELF ..show her that she's not the only option OK ?

Ummmm ... you do know that you can tell when a thread was last updated, right? It's that date in upper left hand corner. In this case it's:

08-02-2007 02:00 PM

You're writing to yourself.

"LISTEN" to tony robbins.