Got a question for you all : My current girlfriend seems to be holding out on me for some reason. When we first met, the sex came often, and it was great sex. Lately things have died down alot, and she doesnt seem interested anymore? Ive tried to reverse the power and hold out on her, but being a guy, that doesnt usually last long, and i always go crawling back for more (and i always kick myself afterwards!) I speak to her often during the day via email, and i always give her hints about what im going to do tonight to her, and she usually replies with a neutral or positive response, but when we get home and i start making moves, she gives me the cold shoulder and makes up the "im tired" excuse. Ive even tried NOT emailing her and trying to freeze her out, but it doesnt work, and it seems that she always has the upper hand on me! (On a side note, she's on of those FUCKING STUBBORN people that doesnt back down or give in!) If we have an arguement, she always refuses to apologise, even when its so fucking obvious she was wrong! We end up not talking for a few days, and then things just seem to slide back to normal without any apologies. Im running outa options here guys, and i wanted to try sort this out myself, and im coming to you guys as a LAST RESORT! I know most of you havent had or dont believe in LTR's, but there are also some that have/do, and i need some advise from them! (Another side note : Ive gone down on her a few times because its something i enjoy doing, but she doesnt seem to be enthusiastic about returning the favour <something about past experiences and her not liking the taste in her mouth>) Im fucking lost as to how to deal with this!