I'm struggling with motivation to get good game. I can fire myself up and open sets but this take me a lot of emotional energy, energy that tends to drain away over time. I think the problem is I can't see light at the end of the tunnel. My sets go ok, girls like me, but I have trouble building any sexual tension then I end up losing motovation and stop approaching. I think I need to commit to it and go out every night and just blast through it. I feel i'm the kind of person that need goals to stride towards so my question is, how long is it likely to take to start getting consistent results? I know thats almost impossible to awsner without knowing me but if someone can give me an idea of how long it took them, that'll help me set goals and hopfully get this stuff handled. Hope that makes some sense Thanks
Hey Joey, I struggle with motivation just about every day. I get really pumped if I am out with friends, but going out alone can feel like a chore at times because there is so much to learn....so you have to just DO IT. I have been at it consistently since May. I came from absolutely no experience with women, and now can open groups of girls consistently. I would say set reasonable goals that you can accomplish on a weekly basis. Like maybe start with one or two nights/days a week, and have a goal for the amount of sets you want to do. If you are having trouble building sexual tension, which I did, you are probably NOT touching the girls enough or giving enough eye contact--those are insta-fixes. Something that is easy and fun is to chat up every waitress or sales chick you see in your day to day life...because they HAVE to talk to you LOL. For me, my first goal was to simply go to a bar alone and talk to one girl. Point is to build momentum. Remember, how much time do you spend thinking about some random person that may have done something retarded at a bar? Probably none. Nobody gives a shit and neither should you
Hey, thanks for the reply. Starting small and building it up and having a set number of sets to open sounds like a good idea. I'll probably then just get on and get it done rarther draging it out for a whole night waiting for perfect opportunities. I know it kinda gose against the whole intent thing but I can add that in later. I went out last night, did five sets and it don't think I touched any of them and was mainly looking at their lips so I'll try and add that in and see what happens Oh and I'm working on the not giving a shit thing. I used to overthink everything and it was horrible.. totally killed my state. I will report back.
