HOW MANY GUYS ARE IN LTRs, HAS GAME PREPARED YOU??

hey guys wasup...I just wana know how many of us here are in LTR's.

I have been in the game for five years and I gotta say that I am on a different stage in my life....I want the next level. The deeper level if you might call it.

we all know that you do not have to be much of a magic worker to have lots of casual relationships and wild sex......but if you have chosen to have an emotional connection with one woman like I did it is a different ball game...pros and cons granted

there is limited material out there that adresses game from an LTR perspective and that is what I need heck if I wasnt busy with my studies I'd probably set up a website, write an ebook and sell some dvd's for guys who want game and are in LTRs hehe

but yeah I just wana get a feel of how many guys are like me here.....how many guys have been in a long term relationship with one woman for more than three years??

what are your experiences....has what you learnt from game helped you in an LTR or did you find that shit changed I dont know just talk.

from my perspective game has helped me shape my relationship.....i have enjoyed many adventures, I have also had the previlege of having a woman as a best friend that can share in my adventures and persuits...from driving a career to chasing sexual adventures. it has been an awesome journey...it doesnt matter if it lasts forever or not what matters is that I have experienced it.

my natural need to fuk lots of different woman has not left me alone...I am after all a man with animalistic tendencies

if you have been in an LTR can you share what your journey has been like in general??.........has game prepared you enough to deal with challenges of LTR??

please guys give me some feedback I just want to figure something out

Hey Bounce!

I tend to agree with Jesse on this one. I decided first to get into relationship to see what it is like, while learning about the dating life, so my experience so far is that it helped me to many the relationship more spicy and to get the girl I want. I became more certain about what I want from the relationship and I dont wuss around.

The flip side is that you have to lose that hunting instinct, which will be very hard to do. If dont do it and decide to get into relationship, it will always come back and perhaps even ruin LTR.

Regards,
Tiger

I am finding that I tend to be curious about certain things. To be honest game to me is like a theoretical school, moving from game to an LTR is like joining the corporate world from the school. I know it's put very rough...I am just not good with words haha

It's easy to have kinky sex with many casual girls....you gotta work a bit smart to have a girl in an LTR and still pull out kinky sex with her.

There are things I have also encountered from being in an LTR that I wonder if other guys do encounter.

Half the time I tease my woman and spank her in public places but i do find that there are times when she wants to get a bit romantic .......yeah I know what you thinking

Although I have done 3 ways with my woman I have noticed that when we are on holiday...even if we are in social places like a beach she wants me to reserve the attention for her...it works better in a bar.

I have also found that I actually enjoy more friendship in a relationship...sex for me is the last thing it comes down the line so I enjoy the kind of girls that are playful and are as good as guys in terms of getting it but still feminine....the kind of women I can game other women with.

I have also found that in an LTR shit does get boring...so to keep shit interesting you gotta have common interests and travel...sky dive...ride bikes whatever......I can't imagine having an LTR with a woman who doesn't share 90% of my interests

I have also found that my woman loves it when I am nice around her friends...so around family and friends I cut out a bit on my animalistic tendencies

In an LTR as a man you gotta have your own shit goin on....I am constantly studying and working out....that keeps me away from my woman at times and I use that to deal with discipline issues to get away from her then she misses me....so it's important to have some shit goin on other than your woman if you are in an LTR

I have also found that In an LTR it's easy to fall into unspoken rules like getting home in a certain time and behaving a certain way so it's important to break this rules before they become permanent and cause you to behave like a wuss unaware

Lately I get bored with gaming woman to a point of creating comfort and getting laid it just takes too long. So if seduction doesn't happen on the first date I abort.....


I could go on but this are the kinds of things I'd like to share with other guys who have an LTR perspective. I am probably in the wrong forum but who cares really...let's just talk

With all said a done I enjoy my LTR so intensely.....I think mostly because I have the freedom to game other girls so I don't feel boxed in and you know my woman and I are in the same kind of shit so we do most things together......including being into the same type of women haha

Bounce- I also agree that people who are in LTRs also have the option to be sexual with other people.
This can be found in the polyamorous and swingers groups.
In the poly groups, better relationship and communication skills are needed.
If you are only interested in one-time flings and the pursuit, that is fine. But, it is time consuming.

Here's an article about poly relationships and how to fuck-up any relationship, by Elise Matthesen, at:
How to Fuck Up a Relationship - By Elise Matthesen

TM

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