I was staying at my parents house last week, as I have a performance coming up in that town. Between rehearsals, I decided to stop by my neighbor's house and drop off a few posters to let them know of my gig coming up. They live across the street from me and I am very close to the family. Grew up with the kids and have been to hell and back with the parents (different story, guess they didn't like it when I would break in and blow up fireworks in their house...but I was only 12 . When I went over, I could hear serious arguing going on through the walls. I waited, but after a while, I just figured screw it, I haven't seen them in a while so I should just go in. I let myself through the garage and popped my head in. I saw it was just my friend's mom, his sister, and his girlfriend. I opened the door, put on a big smile and said, "I heard bitchin' round herr, yall think itz safe 2 come in!?" They were happy/surprised to see me. Turns out they were arguing over some dress at Ann Taylor. Told them I have the same problem and changed the subject---I told them about the gig and etc, caught up, but the whole time I could not stop looking at my friend's sister. Basically, I do not know if game will work. I have known her and their whole family most of my life so they know both my accomplishments and the stupid, idiotic things I have done. The daughter is super hot, a bit flat, but her legs, ass, hair, skin is all dimepiece 10. Shes tall, and pretty quirky. Most of her life, her parents/siblings just made fun of her for how "ugly" she is or how she smells or is disgusting. Most of this was initaited by her dad to prevent her from being a slut, because she has been hot since highschool (now in college.) I have not been in a room alone with this girl since I was in 8th grade. At some point in my youth, I believe she had a crush on me. She drinks ALOT. I think my best bet is to go out with her friends/family and drink, and at some point touch her and go from there to see how she reacts. Any sort of formal date, actually trying to connect with her, or being too forward with words could really ruin it for me/ the whole family. I want this to be a fun, random thing. I have no idea if this will (ever) work out, as she will be out of state most of the summer for classes. But, I wouldn't mind the possibilty of banging her because a) I think it would be funny, b) shes HOT, c) I actually feel a bit giddy around her.:thumbup: Has anyone been in this situation before and has anyone succeeded? Give me an idea of what to do.
Forget game. Theres no need to "game her". Gaming her might end up destroying any vibe you might have with her. My advice is get her alone and say to her "Listen theres something I want to tell you" pause let her speak. She might say "what" "go on". Then say "I find you attractive looking and I want to take you out on a date." pause look at her in the eye. Then continue and say "whats a good day for you". Then shutup don't say anything and wait for her to reply. Shes either gonna agree to go on a date with or not. The only way to find out is to ask out straight and be geniune DONT GAME HER.
So I think that's a problem right there... if her parents or siblings are always around maybe it's not meant to be. There's no good way to "sneak under the radar" with this. That generally doesn't work, because you just end up playing the "nice guy" who is too timid to make any real moves because you're so worried about "getting caught." That's a horrible head space to be in. Either go all the way (full sexual intent) and run rough-shod over any possible negative outcomes... or don't go for it at all. Go full in and explode it... or forget it. By the way, FM is onto a good point. She needs to know that you want to bone her if you decide to go for it, it's better to be up front about that so that the sexual tension is there and raw.
Exactly guys, I think gaming would be taking a shotgun to my dick. If I get her alone I need to just tell her she is beautiful and see how she reacts. If I am too forward, or too under the radar (creepy) it may really mess up my relationship/polarity with the whole family. I'll keep you guys posted, won't be back in her town till June anyway.
