In my opinion the black women are the best attractive women I have seen because black women can look very attractive at a young age and still look attractive at an old age such as halle berry,stacey Dash,Angela Bassett,robin givens,tony braxton,beyonce knowles and tyra banks,so the list goes on so that's why I think the black women are the most attractive women out of all other races.
She gave you the green light, and you walked away. In my experience whenever you pass a girl up like that she will never give you the green light again. Any future flirting will just remind her of that rejection. If some of the gurus in here know of a solution to this predicament, I'd be grateful to hear it too
I agree with this. My experience is condesive to this. I believe how you be matters more than what you say. --I had a huge shift a few months back and wow is all I can say. My shift was sudden and automatic. Like suddenly just knowing how to cook. This is something I take interest in. I read and am currently studying the link between the body and the mind and emontions. Many of the books I've read state that your beliefs and inner feelings literally change the way your body holds itself/ you yourself. The other day I was listening to a lecture on health and the speaker stated the you can tell if a women has sexually molested younger by the way her thighs touch. Even if she doesn't say it verbally. One of the things I study called Somatics deals with this and puts it into terms easily understandable. Certain meditation practices particularly breathe-work deal with the same sort of ideology. Amen One other thing I've noticed that when I don't really try to get girls I have a easier time getting them. One thing relates to an article Jesse wrote a while back about doing things you love. I literally stumped upon a girlfriend by doing something I would have done anyway. Which reminds me of something else about the heart cherishing ritual I read in blissnosis and an article. It's gold. I now have a new girlfriending/connection process.
@ Sandee I can't really take credit for the advice, because it was given to me a few years ago by an older friend of mine. I still consider myself new an inexperienced to the game, so I try to share experiences from an objective point of view only. I used to have your experience happen to me all the time with girls early on in my dating life. I was really good at holding back on taking sexual initiative, which would initially work in my favor. After a few dates, the girls would start to chase and of course I'd fool around with them, but I'd always stop it shy of sex. It was usually around this time that the girls would pull a 180 and completely disappear. Confused I sought advice from a friend who was much older than me and been through it all. Him: So these girls were looking for sex and you made them wait? Me: Yea, something like that. Him: Why? Me: Idk, I guess I wanted the timing to look right. Him: .....were you waiting to give her your highschool football jacket and ask her out to the Enchantment Under the Sea Dance too? Me: No? Him: This isn't the 1950s, if a girl puts herself out there, it's expected the guy will give in. We're guys, we're always trying to close the deal. If we're not, something must be wrong. If you turn a girl down, regardless of the "romantic" intentions, you'll probably never see her again. It's a rejection to her, no matter how you spell it out. Do yourself a favor next time and just close these deals.
