Wow, so you started when you were 12 ?? Holy cow! Cool I'll check it out Sounds like you've got a good girl, since you've been together that long. This is your girlfriend's sister? Hot! But there might be some sibling competition between them. Your girlfriend sounds pretty cool. Jobic, why don't you upload an Avatar image to your profile. Just click on "Your Profile" in the yellow nav bar up top and it will take you right there.
You are amazing, Jobic!!!..your article about yourself was sooo interesting! (Having a lot of interest in, SEX, at such an early age, (12), is VERY rare! I'm leaning towards the idea that you MAY be an Old-Soul.) I have been reading from people that people in Europe are more sexually, FREER, than other countries, such as, the USA. "and my gf said that "my sister would have probably tried to take you away from me if this was a short thing" I was thinking "well she can always join in ". (Threesomes DON'T, usually, work too well if the two women know each other. I have NEVER heard anything mentioned about, sisters. . I think the competition would be too great. ) TM
GREAT, response, Jobic. For being, only, 22, you have a much deeper sense of yourself..maturity?..Old-Soul? "I do believe that I can make pretty much every relationship work out when it comes to me, my gf and someone else (even if it was her sister). I seem to have a calming effect on my gf and also on her sister, she gets less rude, but still tries to act "cool". (Believing what can be done and having confidence that you can do it, is, a GREAT feeling to have.:thumbup Almost ALL women are bisexual..is your GF, bi? Here's a good TRUISM: If a woman can have GREAT orgasms with a man, she will be VERY forgiving, of him. (In other words, it's HARD to find a man that a woman can have GREAT orgasms, with.) I believe, from my experiences, women WANT other women to enjoy having GREAT orgasms. They are willing to share a man who can do this to women. But, their first though is, "Oh, I must NOT let other women know he is, this, GOOD!...I DON'T want to share him". But, they will, later, realize, "Hey, MOST women have little or no orgasms with a man. It's OK to share him as long as he cums back to, ME". (I'm curious to find-out if this is TRUE with most women.) TM
Some women will say they are absolutely, hetero, but, that, MAY be, what they say to people, outside of the bedroom. One theory MAY me TRUE: ALL women are bisexual...some are just stuck into being hetero. (This is why I say, almost ALL women are bi.) For a woman to be, bi, it is more acceptable in the USA. (This is NOT true for bi-men or gay men.) For a woman to see a gigolo, (male prostitute), this is a different type of relationship, I believe, where drama and jealousy does NOT exist with women. (I believe, they want the fantasy of a romantic experience. They will pay for it, but, they don't admit that they are paying for it.) It's GOOD communicating with you. We are suggesting ideas that are based on knowledge and beliefs. TM Note: I use the phrases, "Do you want to start cuming", "Keep cuming...keep cuming, etc.", ALL of the time when I am intimate with a woman. She will, then, start having Spiritual Orgasms. Let me know how doing this works with you. I am one of a VERY few men who does this, successfully. I am telling women that I am telling you this...they, SMILE.:thumbup:
You are, probably, being over-loaded with info. One of your next steps is to start talking dirty and telling her sex fantasy stories to expand her sexual imagination. (I'll tell you more about this when you are ready. Certain types of dirty talk is OK, some are disaster.) TM Note: DON'T feel bad about being reluctant to teach men this stuff. I have tried, and I run into a blank-look or NOT wanting to know. They think they know it ALL. I think it's called, denial..they DON'T want to admit how much they DON'T know because it's NOT taught and there's self-esteem issues.
Jobic; 6 years ago, I started learning about sexuality. It took me 6 months to begin to understand the basics of how a female thinks about sexuality. It felt like I HAD to twist my brain around, by, 180 degrees! It was a life altering, experience! (Yeah, it was like, emptying my brain of old beliefs and replacing them with NEW beliefs.) Learning this stuff is a PASSION of mine. I do research on it, everyday, on-line. I have, about, 10 mentors that provide me with, mostly, FREE, info. I contribute my knowledge and beliefs on this Forum and on a news forum. (You are the first person that shows a lot of interest and desire to learn this stuff. I don't know if I can be effective at doing this. You're doing GREAT...keep-up the desire to learn.) "I won't even talk about the spiritual, etheric body, reality creation, metaphysics and stuff like that, because I know they're not open-minded and think all of that is just hocus-pocus". (I use beliefs and knowledge that I believe are TRUE and some people MAY understand it, such as, Truisms About Women). TM Note: It MAY be VERY important for someone like you, Jobic, to show success, besides, myself, on this Forum. Most of the stuff I have learned were re-emphasized by more than 1 other person.
I had to look-up the word, ubergasm. This is one of my goals with women; to let them learn how to have wild, screaming orgasms! You are on that path...but, guess what...you will ALSO have GREAT orgasms, with her. :thumbup: There are different levels of intensity of orgasms. ALL of them are, GOOD. TM
At urbandictionary.com, it defines, ubergasm as: 1. ubergasm 7 thumbs up buy ubergasm mugs, tshirts and magnets the type of female orgasm that is so good and intense it could result in happy tears, extra head-giving, and/or elaborate moaning and screaming. Just when I thought I was about to hit the high note, my husband surprised me with an ubergasm. There is no comparison in bed to the ubergasm. orgasm über oobergasm oobergasim ubergasim by Hdpjrp311 Mar 17, 2008 share this 2. übergasm 3 thumbs up buy übergasm mugs, tshirts and magnets A super or extreme orgasm. Oh Johnny that was the best orgasm ever it was an übergasm. orgasm climax cum ejaculation frenzy peak spasm by CheVolay Nov 3, 2009 share this TM
"Oh and tell those women who're smiling that your pupil is going to do everything he can to become as good (hopefully ) as his Zen-spirit-gasm-master ". (OK, Jobic...I will!) "I realized years ago that the saying "empty your cup" is true and false at the same time. True because everybody thinks they know what they're talking about and will flat-out refuse new input. False because there actually isn't a cup, all the information you learn is gone the moment you stop thinking about it. All one has to do to actually "remove" their cup alltogether is to learn to accept multiple truths at the same time and then you can decide on which truth is more "true" to you". (Amazing concept...Multiple TRUTHS...remove their cup... Wow, that is beyond me understanding that...eventually, I will.) ""It's like the zen-master trying to teach a student but the student thinks he knows it all. Upon which the zen-master says: "You are like this cup; you are full of ideas about Buddha's Way. You come and ask for teaching, but your cup is full; I can't put anything in. Before I can teach you, you'll have to empty your cup"". (GREAT, concept to be aware of. I will use it.) TM
