I'm 32 and I've been reading pickup since 2007. Going from being a social misfit basically, you'd have to say my game has improved, I've had 2 girlfriends in this time. I get more female interest than I did. I actually remember kissing the hottest girl in the club one time. But my game is not tight enough to get 9s and 10s really. On top of some pretty bad news in relation to my health situation today I visited a pub where I've been gaming the barmaid. I've been running game and she seems to think I'm funny. Had rapport happening. But today I crashed and burned. It was spectacular. Went in there and was wooden and akward. It was just terrible, attrocious and disgusting: an God damn awful outing. In Jesse's latest email he says if you study PU for 12 months and do the hard yards you can get real good in this time. But honestly I'm only a RACF after 4 years. In particular with my online game, I have never fuck closed; in fact, I can't keep them interested for very long at all mostly. But Jesse says be single minded. Everyone comments on my unbounded determination. I'm ready to make PU 100% of my life. Tell me about your all time greatest crash and burns? I'd be interested to know how they helped you on to greater heights. I'd be open to any questioning that might help you to understand my sticking points better.
DBCooper, I've found that guys who are floundering for years, the issue is that they're in it more to "be liked" by girls rather than to get laid. They want sex or a girlfriend surely, but the need to "be liked" by everyone is even stronger. So they always, always, always "play it safe". That's a formula for "going at it at 20%" for years. Here's an elaboration, Being
In saying I want to make it 100% of my life, I do realise Sandee that a lot of PU is general lifestyle improvement.
I have to move from my house in a small country town soon. I've got the choice: move to another house in the same town or in with a friend in the inner of a city. Being 100% dedicated to PU I think I might choose the latter because of more opportunity for day game and to meet women generally. That's what I mean: seeing everything through that prism. I hope I make sense.
My Impression, maybe i am right or wrong.. ARE YOU REALLY READY? Think about this question! Are you really putting everything in there? Again maybe i am wrong and also i don't know your situation (health, money, job, etc.) I think sandee is right... If you really wanna do this, you have to give it 100% and not 70%.. So the question for me is, why do you have to move to a small town? Of course you can learn all the things there too, but bigger town more opportunities... I just speak for myself here, but if I would see "everything through that prism", I would check my money, would try to go to a big town, rent my own flat, would go out every day as sandee says, would working on my body and my style etc. Just my humble opinion
