"I can't stopping analysing every interaction... and her not reacting to any of my advances is destroying me". (You can call it one-itis or infatuation. Even if you were seeing someone else, this woman would still be haunting you. Seeing someone else would help to let you forget about her, though. You are in a state of TEMPORARY insanity. The LESS you have any contact with her, the better you will, become.) TM Note: This is my best guess, based on, my recent experiences. The relationship is dysfunctional (fucked-up) and there's NO resolution. I have, almost, the complete opposite scenario.
GOOD LUCK, Shark. I have been in your shoes many times, in my life...job-loss, find a new career, re-locate, etc. TM
Shark; I was wondering, but, now, may be too late...I was thinking if you ever spoke to her about your infatuation? Yeah, I know it is a BIG secret to keep from women, but, it happens to everyone. The next time this happens, I think you will handle it better. Being jealous of other men is common. Isn't that one of the deadly (so-called) sins? Yeah, jealousy can mess-up, anyone. I think it's the feeling of being inadequate or not good enough. (For the past year, I have noticed that I am NOT jealous of any man. It's, due to, my knowledge and beliefs about sexuality and my experiences with many women. In summary, it's called, sexual confidence.) Being sexually confident doesn't equate to going to bed with 1,000 women. From my experience, pleasuring 100+ women with the result of them having many orgasms, will provide you with, sexual confidence. If this sadness (depression?) lasts for more than a month, it will be time to get professional help. This Forum is a good place for you to describe how you are doing and feeling. (Not many men would do this...you're unique.):thumbup: TM
