Karea, What About Avoiding STD's?

OK, Karea..you want us to ask you anything..

I'm reading from guys about how they did this and that and what they did with the women..but, guess what:
NO one mentions STDs/Pregnancy and Prevention.
I am recommending a Pre-Sex Talk with women.
It will cover what we like to do and not do and how we are going to protect each other from STDs and her from getting pregnant.
There a whole list of things to talk about and Sheri Winston mentions them in my thread, Types of Orgasms a Woman Can Have.

It would be great if you would tell us some good info of what you do.

TM

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Karea said: "I still had a few sticking points myself that I was battling..".

I think, we ALL have some areas in our lives that we need to realize.
As for as myself, I can't define what they are.
I am, probably, in denial.
(But, I must admit, I have never felt sooo good about myself, since, being on this Forum.)


As far as having a Pre-Sex Talk with a woman, I see that Karea and Diamond are opposed to it.
Sheri Winston recommends that the Pre-Sex Talk occur at a lunch or dinner date. In other words, NOT just prior to sex.

Here's some stats from Jesses' Playboy Questionaire thread:
46% of readers from midwest have never been tested for HIV.
45% of readers had sex with more than one person in one day.
13% of males never tell their partner of a STD.
56% of males didn't know the name the person they had sex with.
5% of males had sex with more than 100 people.

I am seeing that people have NOT been taught or encouraged to take a greater responsibility for themselves and the other person.

Karea said: "Now, as for STDs. I've never had any problems, but I *always* glove up".

The HPV virus can NOT be detected by a test with males and it can cause cervical cancer in women.
Most STDs are transmitted by CONTACT and condoms DO NOT give you 100% protection from STDs.


Karea said: "Now for pregnancy, that's a very serious risk as condoms do break (I've had that happen with 7 girls so far)".

That's a scary frequency of breakage of condoms.
Condoms are good for about 30 minutes of use. After that, get a new one.
Consumer Reports has good articles about condoms. Some are lousy and break, easily.


Karea said: "I wouldn't do that (Pre-Sex Talk), personally. It puts bad thoughts on her mind and it also spoils the moment. You just don't want a girl to be thinking STD and pregnancy when you try to lay her 2 hours after meeting her on a street corner.

I'd rather have a passionate escalation where we both get swept away in the heat of the moment BUT follow all the precautions anyway and be safe. I only discuss it if SHE brings it up".

I was talking with several women about this subject... they said: "it spoils the moment". (Most men would say the same thing.)
I think, that it's the mans' responsibility to bring-up the subject.
I think, we are in denial of getting STDs and a woman pregnant.
It's like: If we DON'T talk about it, we won't get an STD.

The reason why I am supporting and recommending a Pre-Sex Talk is because, I believe, we need to address these issues and have better communication.
Too many people cum-up with reasons why we shouldn't talk.

I can have many GREAT orgasms and so does the woman I am with, but, the chances of STDs and pregnancy are GREATLY reduced.
If we decide to become more intimate, we will have had a Pre-Sex Talk and the risks will be reduced and the enjoyment will be increased.
(If anyone is familiar with my sexual techniques, you will realize what I am talking about.)

TM

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Ass sex is a different animal. Women and queers TAKE cum. They boil it around in their respective bellies and ferment it into H.I.V. like beer. DO you plan on TAKING cum? If yes there is is probably a more appropriate forum for you out there!


This was one of the funniest things I have read on here. It sounds like Dwight from The Office.

FACT: Grizzly bears can climb faster than they can run.

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........o an, um std r nuthin 2 lulz about.

AKM;

I had to google, E.F.T.
It stands for emotional freedom technique that someone is teaching or selling.

I don't believe that I have an anxiety disorder or any other type of emotional/psychological disorder.

What I believe is:
1. Most people are in denial of getting an STD.
2. Most people don't get tested for STDs.
3. Most people don't know the proper precautions to prevent STDs.
4.Most people do not talk to their potential partner about STD/Pregnancy Prevention.

I am leaning in the direction that STDs, pregnancy and talking about sex is a TABOO subject. Therefore, few people bring-up the subjects.

People like Sheri Winston and other people who engage in sex with many people use safer-sex methods to prevent STDs.
If you saw her write-up, it would be apparent that she is VERY serious about NOT getting STDs.

TM

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AKM;

I believe, you're taking these issues WAY too seriously.

TM

I'm glad that we were able to address these issues of communicating to a woman what we want in a sexual relationship, in a respectful way.

TM

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I'm pretty sure, TM, has mentioned, briefly, about STDs in his thread, "Types of Orgasms a Woman Can Have".
I think he buried it in this thread because people don't want to know or talk about STDs...TABOO, you know.

TM

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I disagree...it's a TABOO.
If it isn't why don't people talk about it?
Why don't more people get tested?...TABOO!

TM

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I lost my Secret Space Cadets Decoder Ring when I was 5 years old.
Sorry, I can't decode what you said.

TM