thank you for your reply bro. my stack differs depending on whether i am doing night(mostly kino, not much talking) or day game(mostly talking with sprinkles of escalating kino). i am always open to how other players do their thing so i really appreciate your answer. my stack is a bit more high impact, meaning blow me or blow me out(about 10 to 15 sets before laying a girl), not so much situational. still it contains some of the stuff you said above thou. i have found it works the best for me so as you said i do what gives me the most results : )
yes I have. 3 lays per 25 approaches. But this was back when i was gaming about 9 months ago. im about to jump into it again but was just curious as to what your stack was. thank you : )
I want to use the "Are you single?" opener. I saw a really hot girl that works at the gym I go to for a fleeting second today. Next time I see her I want to try this. If I pace it like, "Excuse me...I have to tell you...I find you unbelievably attractive My name is ----....*hold hand* I only have a second but I want to know, are you single? It would be great to see if we can play nice together for a bit outside this joint. *pause* Tell me your number." If she follows, would it be appropraite to ask what days she is free, or just tell her I am free on XXXday, I will give you a call/text then. Do you know about XXX cafe? The blow me or blow me out seems to suit my personality better. I was also thinking of intorducing myself and teasing her coworkers, if she is not there next time. There are other decent girls that work with her, but I am not interested in. That way, if she is working with them in a group I can go say Hi to the ones I know, and then just plow right into the hottie, to hopefully counteract potential cockblock and flatter her infront of her friends/coworkers. Its just the girls that sit at the front desk.
I could not figure out a good way to type that out. Def not a monolouge. I would plan on just doing the intro, i.e. compliment, introduce+touch, are you single. I would plan on pausing in between questions, mainly just to hold eye contact, smile and see how she reacts. I was under the impression that a high impact/pressure opener like this would not take more than a minute or so. She's either single or not. I was not planning on not having anything else to say LOL, other than what I had been doing so far that day. I would probably tease her somehow about any stupid thing I could pull off. Yeah, I think the "I am busy on xxx, what days are you free?" Would be cool, as I have a pretty random schedule. I thought you want to make something like this seem as though you are in a super-hurry, but see an attractive girl. You show your interst and if the # follows, you follow up with it. If not, idk, I would tease, and walk it off like no big deal. Hell if I keep seeing her, I would just tease her more, like "single yet?! Miss me?!" The play nice bit would be said in a more naughty tone. I have an entirely made up vocab of sayings, etc that I make up and a unique way of talking (my own slang.) My friends think it is hilarious. Hell, it comes with the package.
Just one question: Why are you so concerned about this particular girl? To talk about opener and follow up, which you could say to every girl, okay! But to talk about a particular set or girl just makes sense if you already spoke to her and want to have some feedback on what you could do better next time. just thinking that a bit more indifference could help yor game... but real indifference and not affect or pretended indifference Because you should not walk it off like it is no big deal, it should be no big deal.(Hey I know it`s not easy ^^) keep rocking and tell us what happened...
Yo IAM, I think you read a lil too much in on what I typed. I am about to go to the gym now! Hopefully she is there. Basically, I pretty much fall in love with every girl I see that is hot or has quirky features that I like. Not in some sort of 1-itisey way, more like a funny/love struck state that is hilarious. I wanna try a new opener on her. Believe me, I am the most indifferent mothalicka on the planet Although, maybe you have a point. There could be some subliminal inner game issues, I have only been really pushing game for the past couple months.:woot: