Masturbation and Sex Life.

Its been about 2 months since I lost my V's, and I have to say that I may have some habits that drasticly affecting my sex life. I'm talking about masturbation, I suppose I have developed a way of pleasing myself which is quite different to that of the sensations of actual sex, in other words maybe squeezing and aplying more pressure than would actualy climax a man during sex. I'm finding that attracting women isn't soo much the problem now, I'm alot more confident there but I could use some pointers when getting down to the nity gritty (Sex) and improoving my sex life, I know I should probably just stop wanking all together but I've got atleast 6-7 years of rough angry wanking habits I gotta break. Any advice would be much appreciated!

For me personally, I never thought masturbation was a problem. I've been doing it for a decade now, and over the years I've heard so many of the superstitions around masturbation..you cum quickly during sex, it messes up your sex life etc..I've found neither to be true.. I've had @ least 30 women in my life and personally I can say masturbation has not affected me in a negative way during any of my encounters. For me sex is different with different women.

The only fault I've seen with masturbation is that it can create acne, at least for younger men like me. Other than that I don't see how it might affect anyone negatively. EVEN WOMEN LOVE TO MASTURBATE.

The best advice I can give is to do it less often cos you might get used to just jerking off and wasting your sperm count instead of getting real pussy.

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Hey yeah true, I've been working like a slave atm, just working real long hours and shifts, just for the sake of keeping busy and getting some money. Keeping occupied and constantly surrounded by people has defintly boosted things, I don't have as much time to waste masturbating I may not have had any lays but I am consistantly meeting and flirting with girls, and sometimes thats enought o feel good in a day, Just gonna keep at it as I do, gonna hit up more clubs and bars at night and just have as much fun as I can!

I dont see any harm in posting about my sexual journey here, I figure most guys wont take the time out to improove this area of their life let alone seek adivce. I'm willing to bare myself atleast here to get the success I want.