I'm a bit slow on the uptake. Tells during the bantering stange. If there anything in, say, the world of NLP which can help?
Mate, they say that hypnosis can be a magic bullet you are looking for, but I never believed in quick fixes, because you can never solve the underlying problem like that. Plus NPL is too complicated... Its more complicated, in the sense that it will require you the same amount of work or even more of work, with books content of knowledge you need to remeber before you start. Its a wast of time in my mind. Remeber, anything worth doing wont be easy! Cheers Tiger
Jesse, what I'm talking about is the stage where, say, in a bar, or you meet some girl(s) on the street at a festival or the like, and you open them and banter. Before you get onto qualifying. I'm saying my wit lets me down.
Mate! Sorry about my 1st response, I was drunk when I wrote in and it made sense back then. I corrected it so if you re-read it you will know what i ment. As for having problem opening, right now it seams effortless to me, as even people on the street are opening me in hords, and the only thing i changed was my closing. Im not talking about pickock I am talking about generally dressing good. Also what works for me is being in great mood, being friendly, and having a generally well worked out body :lol:. Perhaps that are the basics for everything, so if you need more specifics, you can also be even more specific! Example! sweet ol examples, haha! Cheers, Tiger
Maybe your problem is... Thinking of it as a 50/50 interaction. In fact, you'll need to do about 80% of the work. That means leading and talking about what you want, not what you think she might want. So you're talking more AT the girl about what interests you, rather than "with" the girl. At some point she'll begin to get comfortable with you and contributing more, at which time you'll pivot to a more "normal" conversation with her. Your job isn't to be "witty" or anything like that. It's to just fire through topics that interest you, randomly, in neutral to breaking rapport tonality. During this time the girl will get attracted because (a) you're not trying to impress her, it's bad boy, you don't give a shit if she likes it (b) she's interested because she doesn't know where you're going with it and you're unpredictible and (c) you're not going inside your head trying to think of what to say next and (d) you're leading, which in itself is sexy to a girl. So, given that, what exactly do you think the problem is ?
