Guys I'm not sure if this thread has been posted before but figure I might start a new one - yes as cocky as that sound its just all laziness on my part , too lazy to hit the search button.... *Jess your input would be welcome* I'm a reckless member (not that that information makes any bit of a difference) and at points my calibration was way off; I either come across too player-ish, or too needy, or too nice or too much of an asshole, Regardless they were all experiments using the information I learn from Jesse. Ok here is the long awaited missing point.. or was that a boring intro? regardless enjoy I recently just watched a movie called " Love and Other Drugs" and I recommend it for anyone that is using Jesse teachings and having some problems or calibration issues.. The premiss of this movie is about a Playboy ( Jake Gyllenhaal ) who worked for a drug company, yes I does turn out to be a love story yuck.. BUT the interaction between him and the main girl (Anne Hathaway) is priceless and give me a perfect visual to what Jesse preaches.. I highly recommend this movie to everyone on this forum and hope everyone reply with their take.. See Jake does everything Jesse teaches, strong eye contact, no outcome dependent, playful, confidence, knowledge of the game, non-needy, and constant smiling.. not to mention his non seeking rapport conversation method.. After watching this movie, my understanding of Jesse's method was clear and my results absolutely sky rocketed, I only watched this movie last wknd ( Jan 21)... Case in point the ensuing week I had a girl literally told me she wants to fuck me ( not my type unfortunately). I went on date this week and with my new calibrated self I had the girl calling me/texting me needing to spend see me at any opportunity after our date ( I'm spending the nite with her tonight) Went to a club on Friday and literally stop gaming because I got 4 numbers in a club that maximum capacity is 150 ( so to say the least its a small club) The difference you eagerly asked is? Well I now have a visual evidence to what Jesse is teaching, I'm playful, show knowledge of the game, not needy, strong eye contact, staying in set, passing congruence test very I mean very easy.. For example, one of my pickup was this girl I walked passed smiling and kept strong eye contact with.. I walked past her to get a drink and on my way back she purposely bump me, so I stopped and kept eye contact while smiling.. she opened me .. an minor extract from of the interaction; Her: Are you gonna say hi or keep smiling Me: Keep smiling seeing you just said hi first Me: Is this smile working for me Her: So far Me:well if that the case, Hi She: (now with a smile) cute! what's your name * I number close easily... Guys check the movie and you can literally stop watching once it start getting cheesy.. check the interaction between Jake and Anne and let me know your opinions.. And also if anyone knows any good movie that help with the gaming please share Here a short list I have.. based on memory Swingers Oceans 11 ( Brad body Language) Ghost of Girlfriends Past Bad Boys ( Will Smith) Hitch ps.. try to look past the horrible grammar.. lol..
Shot Em Down, this movie sounds like an extremely effective teaching tool. It's not in Netflix instant download, and it's not available on Amazon's instant download service either. How did you watch it, from Blockbuster ?
Jesse, I'm in Canada and its available on Netflix.. a new release I think 2010.. Yeah the movie gave me a visual to everything you talked about, and my game is literally transforming.... I struggled with either a needy frame or a player frame.. but now my game has tangible feel to it.. I hope you get to watch it.. Do you have a list of must watch movies that can help out us peasants ?..lol
Crazy stupid Love is an excellent movie for this kind of stuff. Just watch and observe what ryan gosling does and your brain will just click and go "i understand now".
Azza, I think Ryan Goslin character is too gamy, too pickup artist type.. I like his frame in terms of Lead, Lead, Lead but there's no fun in his game.. if you get a chance check out the movie I posted, Jake's game is all fun, searing eye contact, assume attraction, fun and relax.. Jake's game is natural with natural things going on, I do like that fact that Ryan's game is strong leader alpha frame. I think it's easier to understand and execute Jake's game, it aligns a lot with what Jesse talks about. With Jesse teachings and this example your game has nowhere to go but up, not to mention how he talks and interact.. Check out "Love and Other Drugs" and let me know your opinion on it..
