i have a problem..I live at a doorms,,with only chicks.. im the only guy there And one girl is from romania..So we were sitting in the sofa and watching tv and another chick, which is from sweden as same as me.. asked her how do you say common phrases in romania.. So i said to the girls..There are only two questions I want to know, before going to romania.. number one is "how are you doing" nr 2.." take off your pants" they both seemed not that eager wanting to talk more..The romania girl was like "annoyed" at me. and soon both of the girls left to the kitchen, and closed the door.. So i dont know what am doing wrong..i mean i dont want to be a pussy and just "GIRL talk"... IS it because those woman doesnt view me sexually and therefore get offended when i spark some sexual into the conversations? how is the best way to practise training talking to girls with the girls at my doorm ?... without being annoying.. Can i flip the "relationships" anyhow? if so..what tactic should i use..What should i say ? etc..
hmm, nobody is answering here .. I believe there is a difference between confidence and arrogance. Girls usually hate arrogance. And what you said was some kind of arrogance/asshole behavior and probably combined with only a bit confident. So it is really a no brainer why the girls left.. cause if the girls only see you as some friend, not sexually, maybe as a guy who they believe has no options, they just give a shit about: " take off your pants", because they do not believe that you would really say that in a real situation and that's why they left... If you would be this overall sexually guy, who has a lot of girls and say this line in a sexy funny way no problem.. but if not it's like talking, talking without action.. Action and not Words should be your mantra from now on.. because of course they get offended when you spark some sexual in the conversation, if you are all the time fucking unsexual.. so instead to train to talk, i would train to touch,get physical.. :thumbup:
Joakim... You said "take off your pants" in front of BOTH girls. If the girls said, "Yeah, I'll do it!" she'd look like a total slut in front of her other friend. Women want to be seduced, but in a way that she won't look like a cheap whore in front of her peer group. Since these girls are in your social circle, you don't need to be so hardcore sexually direct. You can talk rapport / comfort building (normal conversation) while simultaneously getting physical with the girls - thumb wrestle, take her hand and lead her around, poke her, etc. That will do the trick.
To corroborate.... A friend of mine in college fucked every girl on his dorm floor within the first 2 weeks of school. He was the RA and was Mecha Player. He started with a chubby/drunk chick and worked his way up each night. He ended up getting fired from his position because all the girls found out and hated him. Well, they all hated him, but they still fucked him LOL However, it made getting action from the dorms next to impossible for him after those first weeks. So he was constantly seen as "predator guy" and went out alot by himself or with one friend. He didn't care because his game was insane, but he basically had NO FRIENDS on campus.
