New Video of Myself... !

Hi, Everyone;

OK, I am older than 60 years old, in good health and I have a lot of FUN talking to and being sexual with much younger women. I prefer to talk to women than men because they are more FUN and more interesting.

Jesse is one of, maybe, 1 or 2, on-line mentors, whom, even, mentions this subject.

After being on Jesses' Forum, I have learned a lot about myself. I have become more mellower and NOT so judgmental/critical of people.

I do get-out and socialize with women VERY frequently.
(I look for places where the women are friendly and FUN.)

My belief is, it's going to be difficult to convince older men that they can be successful with younger women.
(This is based on my limited experiences in talking to older men. I believe, they have been programed to believe mainstream beliefs that are NOT beneficial to their well-being.)

I, probably, know more about human sexuality than most people. With this new knowledge, new beliefs and experiences, my sexual confidence has, sky-rocketed. It is my belief that women want men who are GOOD at satisfying them, sexually. But, few men can do this. Most women are willing to SETTLE for mediocre sex and other things that they want.

TM

Note: I am behind you, Jesse.

So true!!!

My friend's wife told me a story about her great grandfather who is 95 years old and has sex with a lady down the street who is 25 years old!!! Yet, he doesn't use any type of Viagra. If I heard this story from someone else, I would have suspected it to be exaggerated.

There is a good audio book called The Body/Mind Code by Mario Martinez that you could get through Sounds True. In a nut shell, our western BS culture will kill you before your genes will. Our culture wants us to feel insecure about our age so we spend more money on the things that will try to make us feel young again. There is no money to be made in simply being a man at any age and attracting any woman at any age.

This video rocks.

I used to have problems where the majority of 18-25 year old women would tell me I'm too old for them. I was myself thinking it was a problem. Once I got rid of that limiting belief it ceased to be a problem, and hasn't happened since (only once).

In my experience pretty much 90% of women 18-25 will TELL YOU they won't date an older man, but that's just social programming. If they find you attractive or think you're a cool guy, they don't care about your age.

What I've discovered is the toughest arena for getting young girls seems to be in online dating sites. Every single girl I've seen so far on there who's like 18-22 has their age caps set at an average of 4 years above their own age, and by simply sending a message I haven't been able to generate enough attraction to get around this.

Basically I think it's all about having a hot pic on your profile. shirtless, sexy, etc. but some guys do it. would love to learn that secret

To sexually satisfy a woman, a hard-dick is NOT all that necessary.

Having the skill, knowledge and beliefs of how to sexually satisfy a woman is RARE in men.

Men who have erectile dysfunction can still satisfy a woman.

Women who have postpartum pain (after child-birth) during vaginal sex, can still have other types of orgasms.

Women who are paralyzed, below their waist, can have many types of orgasms.

Men, can have other types of orgasms, besides, regular (penile) orgasms.

Tantric and Taoist Sexual Beliefs and Practices and other advanced techniques, address these types of orgasms. They are NOT well-known in our society.

TM

Note: It's GOOD to read your story, Playboy. I agree with you. On-line dating has been lousy with me, also. They, NEED to see you...TOUCH helps, a lot.

Damnit I had an entire long post typed and tried to send it but i had been logged out by then, and when I tried to go back it was gone for good

I, use to, have the same problem. I would type some real good stuff, go beyond the time limit, and be prompted to re-enter my name and password....guess what, I entered a bad password.
What I do when this occurs, I will click-on the BACK button and start a new log-in.

TM

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Let me give this one more try...

Normally I am more of an observer in this forum, because my place here is much better served learning from the more experienced members. However I do tend to date much younger than myself, primarily because I have always looked much younger, so perhaps this one time I may be able to add to the conversation. I encourage the more experienced members to comment on anything I have to say. I feel this is my opinion and not necessarily correct.

For starters I'm 28, but my dating pool generally tends to be in the 19-24 range and I'll be the first to say that there are just as many cons to this age group as there are pros. The personalities, character traits, and demeanor of these girls are often times contradictory to the envisions we have dancing in our heads. A lot of guys (myself included) make the mistake of envisioning these young ladies as confident, promising 30 year old women stuck in a tight 20 year old body. In reality these girls are still new to the real-world, scared and confused. Once you demystify this facade it becomes much easier to approach young girls as you realize how much your own social value outweighs hers.

Having said all this, I still believe the approach to these girls is slightly different. From the ages of 18-25 girls tend to have the dating advantage. They're young, sexy, tight bodied, highly sought after, in the prime of their dating life and want to have fun. I do not mean this as a golden rule, but merely as a basic observation to the dating world. Seduction Science does an excellent job explaining how these social stigmas aren't as crippling as many guys make them out to be; nevertheless I think it's still important to understand their effects.

Young girls know that at any point they can slap some makeup on, slip into a skimpy dress, shake their ass and get more male attention than they can shake a stick at. As a result young girls (in my experience) have very short attention spans. IOW if your main goal is to find something serious, or if you are the type who becomes easily attached, you may want to reconsider this demographic of girls.

However, on the up side, somewhere in the late 20s to early 30s this scale starts to tip in the guy's favor. Girls/women are no longer in their dating prime, their friends are getting married, they start wanting a family/stability, and that ever so scary biological clock begins ticking louder than it ever had before. The main point I'm trying to make here is this: Even though a young girl is in the prime of her dating life, so is the older guy trying to get her. The difference is, you've already passed your disadvantaged stage, she's yet to approach hers.

Thanks, Hoyle- That was a good write-up.
I have, always, preferred women in their 30s.

The thing that irritates me are women who keep-on conveying mainstream beliefs that are NOT healthy for ME or the woman.
It's, almost like, they are TESTING me, but, it makes them appear as asexual women with negative beliefs.
With my increased confidence/beliefs/knowledge, this is what I am finding in women.
I will, at a later time, elaborate on this subject, when I better understand it.

TM

so true. This is why for me online dating is a backburner thing.

Cool, concise video Jesse.

On a technical level, I liked the format. Having the video centered in the screen with the rest black really draws attention to it in a professional way. Plus, it doesn't open a separate page or distract from the forum or your blog, etc...closing the video takes you back to the original post.

As far as the content, it couldn't be more true. Romeo and Juliet anyone? All those arranged marriages of YOUNG girls to much older dudes back in the day (ie: Romeo was like 30 and Juliet was 13 if I remember--no way that would fly nowadays!!!) but that was the social norm for centuries.

I am friends with two girls who I clearly remember making fun of or putting down girls they knew who dated older men or blubbering about how "stupid" it is. Both of them are currently in a LTR with guys old enough to be their dad (one girl is 19 the dude is in his 40s). Both guys are really REALLY strange, dress terribly and kind of do their own thing, but hey, if I can date girls half my age when I'm 40 who cares?

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I think the videos are a nice touch, but would tire you out if they became a weekly routine.

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Jesse;

I'm glad you are addressing older men dating younger women.
Most of the young men on this Forum will be dating women when they get older.
All of your points about older men dating younger women are beliefs that most older men DON'T, believe. To state these beliefs, that are TRUE, is a step-up in conveying new beliefs.

I have given-up in conveying my beliefs to men that I know, except on this Forum.

I am going to get in-touch with some older and more experienced/knowledgeable men and women. I will ask them if they want to participate in this Forum.

TM