OK I started the program I finished lesson one... Reckless action- I like it do what you want, do crazy things and not care about the outcome. just a small question: why stay in a set or keep talking to a girl\girls who are not into you? why waste your time if a girl is being bitchy or ice cold? wouldn't it be better to just move on to other girls and not waste your time with these girls who are not into you?
Staying in the set is exactly what attracts the girls. Think of them being bitchy or cold or uninterested as a congruence test. Remain positive and unreactive in the face of their tests, and they'll suddenly "flip" or "turn around" or "hook". It's because when you remain positive and unreactive to their shrug off that you suddenly become extremely attractive. It's a sign of uber confidence to the girls and that you're beyond their control. You're not like every other guy that slinks away at the first sign of trouble. You'll be surprised how many times a girl first tries to blow you off or be a bitch, and then suddenly opens up to you and turns nice. And it's very consistent. Staying in the set isn't a routine or tactic. It's a fundamental cornerstone of generating attraction. Of course, it feels hard. Your instincts are to bail out because you're feeling this awkward energy. But by sticking through it, it makes you very attractive because 99.9% of guys will bail in the face of her congruence test.
Ok I see however, there is also a chance that you are not her type for whatever reason.... how do you know when to stop and go for other targets?
Iceman, resist the urge to stop and make it a game to see how far you can push it. For bars and clubs that is.
Friends, social circle girls will not act cold to you to test you... because they already consider you a friend. They'll talk to you. So there's no need to push it, just vibe and go with the flow with them.
I have run into my share of women who are just miserable. I don't think there is any way to have much FUN with them, because, their intent is to try and make everyone miserable. Some women will be too tired from over-work. They may seem not interesting or FUN, but, you have caught them on a bad day. TM
