This is how I do it: I either game her with body language and engage in a totally non-seductive conversation, or game her with words and be totally uninterested with body-language.
I'm a little surprised to see such a thread started by you Sandee, because I've been using a lot of your tips recently on this very thing. I don't think I have the experience to really say anything you don't already know, but the one thing I've gotten the hang of doing is taking one tip I get on here and really perfect it. For example, recently you suggested I get better at "re-framing". So I decided to focus only on re-framing and made a conscious choice to exercise it. I use it all the time now, and really love the effect it has. I used to have conversations with girls and get stuck on one topic trying say the perfect thing. I've learned that this very process can make you look needy and chumpish. Now I just re-frame.
KNOW that women are an addition to joy in your life, not the makers of it. It's all about what angle you go at it from.
