Phase III : The Good Stuff

Okay, guys. After sarging with Duo recently and having some long conversations with my wing and McMaax, it's become apparent that I am much better in the game that I give myself credit for. I disguise it as objective self-criticism, but when you don't allow yourself to feel success and don't celebrate small victories there's no such thing as objective self-criticism.

I've known for a long time that my head is my worst enemy, but I always thought that if I do the work changes will come and I'll transform internally just as a matter of process. This has been working, but at such a crawl that it's almost torture.

Well... it's apparent to me and everyone around me that I've done the work and I am already capable of seducing the women I want and living like a king... I just need to cultivate a mindset which will allow it to happen.

So that's what PHASE III is: me celebrating the good stuff. This is the journal where you're going to see me going over the top. You're going to read about me banging strippers, models, pornstars, celebrities and the 102 year old queen of England just because I fucking can.

Friday Night: my wing and I go to a dripping wet teen bar.

Enter the club, see HB9 snowflake, the hottest girl in the club that night. If she wasn't a stripper, she sure as hell knew how to dress to have guys slobbering when she walked past. She was full of attitude. I bookmarked her for later.

1st set - HB8 tall brunette, HB 7 short blonde. I go in, open, and dominate like an animal. I didn't neg or challenge much, but they had no doubt I was the coolest guy in the club. I played with them for 15-20 minutes before leaving. My wing was raving about my body language and how they just clung to my every word with their desperate eyes.

Again, my mindset was a hindrance: towards the end of the interaction I thought I was losing them. What was really happening is that I had conveyed far too much value and they were becoming really intimidated. I keep thinking I need to perfect my judgement (and maybe I do, in time), but as long as I follow the blueprint I'll walk through the steps. Blind obedience to the blueprint leaves no opportunity to sabotage myself.

2nd set - HB7 friendly/shy girl - opened a 3 set, took one, my wing took the other two. I was awesome, dominant, forward merged with a set walking by (never done that before!!!) with wild success. In the back of my head I feel that when I have more value than the girl I need to DLV, which is dumb because then I lose my attractiveness. What I need to do is screen and accept her so she comes up to my level. I walk like a god but don't realize it.

There were two hotties in particular that slobbered whenever I walked by, but I never got a chance to open them. The entire club was watching me in no time at all.

3rd set - HB7 bisexual, guy - indirect opener on a mixed set - never done this before, was wildly successful. Girl was touching me, saying I'll drive her home, qualifying herself to me as a bad girl, telling me about all the girls she's slept with. I will no longer be held back from mixed sets. From now on I will dominate all!!!!!

At this point I saw a girl dancing on the catwalk who I totally loved. HB8 Wild Thing. She was was totally my type. She had an amazing body and a great energy. I bookmarked her as someone I would open later.

4th set - HB phone number - don't remember who this was, but I've written her down in my notes as "HB phone number". All I can assume is that she was hot and I owned her. If she gave me her phone number, I can't figure out who she is in my phone. ???? Too many girls.

5th set - my night started to falter here, almost as a reflex of being too happy and successful. My brain was telling me that I wasn't doing well. I went indirect on some cuties, had them mesmerized, but feared that I was making a fool of myself and bailed.

6th set - my mood continued to plummet. Opened HB7 and HB7.5, got huge attraction, but my mind compelled me to act weak and needy so they left (even though HB7.5 gave me huge IOIs just a few minutes later). As they left, the two HBs from my first set walked past me and reopened me. My mind was still pulling me down, so they left me, too. I don't know what happened in real life, but in my mind the sixth set blew me out, then the first set saw this and blew me out as well.

The reality is much different, but that's what my mind was telling me.

7th set - I was standing around with my wing, bitching and moaning about how my mind put me back in my little hole, when HBsnowflake walked by with her bitch attitude on high. Instinctively I grabbed her around the waist and said, "What do you have going on for you besides your looks? I think you're cute, but are you fun to talk to?" BAM!!!!! She squeezes my hand, leans into me, starts telling me she's so much fun and that I'd love her. She was still qualifying herself to me as her friends physically hauled her away, knowing what she was in danger of doing.

I continued to watch her interact throughout the night (should have reopened, didn't) and I was the only guy in the entire club that she had any sort of positive reaction to. My wing was shaking his head for hours because immediately after her friends pulled her away, my mind processed the interaction as bad. Luckily my wing's jaw was on the floor and he was raving about how he didn't think she'd ever qualified herself like that to anyone in her entire life.

As my wing raved, I began to process my thoughts differently until I felt damn good about the interaction.

8th set - HB8 Wild Thing - this girl was so hot. She was dressed pretty casually. If she had dressed like HBsnowflake she would have been damn close to a ten.

I opened her and her friend, got them laughing, connected instantly with Wild Thing, screen and accepted her, took her phone number, played some games, ran a connect/bond routine that had her looking at me like I was the single greatest man she had ever met in her life. I've never had a girl look at me like that before. I've gotten a gaze just as intense that was purely sexual, like, "You are the sexiest man alive and I want you so badly right now that it hurts!" This look was like, "You are the most amazing man who ever lived and I am so lucky that you shared that with me!"

Some guy sat down at the table while I was gaming her. It was weird as hell. I couldn't tell if he was trying to AMOG, but was too shy to say anything while being so persistant that he refused to leave. Then it seemed like he wasn't there to pick up the girls, but that he knew them, so I introduced myself and went back to ignoring him. He tried talking to HB Wild Thing a few times, but whenever I was talking to her she ignored him, talked over him and treated him as totally invisible. He left.

My wing came to get me. He chatted with HB Wild Thing's girlfriend as I hugged HB Wild Thing. She gave me a special little squeeze in the hug. I whispered in her ear, "I like your energy. Don't ever lose it." She whispered back, "I won't!" and I just knew that was the happiest moment of her life.

Normally I would have gone for a time bridge, but she's works full time and is a full-time student, so it just wouldn't fly with this girl. I arranged to call her Tuesday night.

Something worth noting here: I took her phone number early and STUCK AROUND TO ENJOY HER COMPANY. Very powerful. If I just would have taken her number as I was leaving it wouldn't have felt as good to her. All kinds of flags might have been raised in her mind.

HB Wild Thing's girlfriend said HB Wild Thing had a boyfriend. My wing told me this in the parking lot and I started laughing uncontrollably. Was that poor guy at the table her boyfriend???? Fuck... I am GOOOD.

Wait, somewhere in Friday night was a two set HB7 and HB 7.5 law students. HB7 was looking at me. I stopped walking and looked at her. She came over and introduced herself. Her hotter friend followed her over. I ignored HB7.5 for minutes as HB7 pressed herself against me and whispered in my ear. When I finally looked up at HB7.5 she was looking at me with eyes that could only be described as sexual obedience. I asked her something and now I had both of them pressed against me and whispering in my ears. Some really pissed off dude came and took them away. I suppose I could have AMOGed, but I wasn't that attracted to them and didn't really care. The guy followed me around the club for awhile (even into the bathroom), glaring at me the entire time. Total weirdo.

Yah you are good, I saw first hand how you got that 10 at the bank. I saw so many AFCs stare at the dance flooor, hold their drink against their chest and check out hot girls. While you went up to the most attractive two set in the club and got the # to the hottest girl I have ever seen. Damn was she so fine, give me HERRRR number!!! WAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH.. duo cries...

Hey smashbug, I notice the improvements already just by reading your FR. Your developing your social calibration and realizing what your doing wrong with sets rather than pummel them with A2 game. The thing is I notice in alot of your sets and from your F.RS is you hook the set TOO well(and you engage the entire group for 20 mins - rather shift your game to isolating your target and spend the remaining 20 mins with her to screen/accept her and run the blueprint to bond/connect). I know I am not an expert with isolating/and approaching groups as I only game in day game with targets who are alone(so they are already isolated HAHA), but you need to isolate them from the group so you can build an emotional connection with her and at the same time physical connection with her(kino escalation/hand holding/kissing etc - you can't kiss these girls/fondle them/grope them in front of their friends it make her look like easy). You game mainly in clubs so in that environment push it with all girls to makeout with you. You definately have strong enough attraction game for any girl to allow you to make out with them. Remember that 10 at the bank? I was constantly touching each time I talked to her and I had no resistance. You could have easily pushed to make out with her as her friend HB 8.5 went to dance with pinky creepy.

I don't think you realize most females look at you Smashbug, your finally realizing how good you are at this stuff. Like I mentioned with the 10, since you were with her most of the night and reopened her counltess times all the girls were looking at you. It is really powerful social proof, and you are starting to realize how easy you can instill it in many of the females in the club.

AHHHHHHHHHHH again why didn't you push it with the HB bisexual. She was touching you right? That means push the kino escalation through the roof. You can easily make out kiss/grope her if she has her hands all over you. This goes back to social calibration with style, why screen and accept if she is already getting physical with you? Just push for the physical if she is already physical. We as puas use the blueprint to instill an emotional connection with the girl to get them open to us being physical with them. Your going backwards into the seduction. She is telling you "please make out with me" I am already attracted to you so screw the blueprint. Again back to social calibration - always gauge the females reactions and work your game around what they throw at you. Most of the time you need to use the blueprint, but in certain instances like this one she allows you to skip the blueprint and wants you to skip the emotional and get to the physical. Remember that # close I got with the HB 8 blonde? The thing is I noticed how physical she was being with me so I said "fuck the blueprint" and starting escalating the touching. By the end of the night she had her hand on my crotch ^_^. The prob though is I didn't run the blueprint so I am having problems with getting her to a day 2 as I didn't run comfort game.

OMG you get the hottest girl in the club again!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What are you doing smashbug!!?!?!?!?!??!?!!? Do you want me to go to your city and club you over the head with something to get some sense into you? Right there is qualifying to you so all you had to do was accept her and go into comfort game. Then kino escalate/kiss her/makeout and proceed to take her home/get day 2 and screw her brains out. I don't think you realize how good your attraction game is. What you need to do is get PHYSICALwith your targets asap. She was already holding your hands, so accept her then and then kiss her. In the club it would be okay to do things like that. AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH DUO shakes his head.

I am so proud of you man, you ran the blueprint to bond/connect! Your game is starting to get structure to it. I see alot of improvement already. Dude again go escalate the kinoing with her, why didn't you kiss her when you saw her looking at you like that?

Right there you should have kissed her, dude give the SOI to her by kissing her. Karea is right you have to kiss your targets when the time is right. The girl IS WAITING for you to plant your sexy calibrated pua lips on her.

What you did is an excellent method to get contact info. Always get it 75% through the set and hang out with her and frame it NATURALLY. What you did was exactly what TMM teaches. I follow it to the tooth and notice how under the radar it is because it is natural to get her info because you genuinely are interested in her.

Ah this took me 50 mins to reply to your field reports. Stop making them so long like mine. Jeez I have school dude HAHA. I just wanted to give you some more feedback to repay you for analyzing my game thru the pm. Honestly you made me realize alot of things I didn't see and finally made me realize another missing piece to the puzzle why I didn't get consistent day 2s, which stems back to not instilling strong sexual attraction to my targets.

Anyways your f.rs are alot better and I am seeing major improvements in your game. Your finally changing things and your already noticing the results. Remember always amp up the kino esacaltion. All of these girls you gamed you should have kissed them, I noticed you dont' go for the kiss. You should as that is the first major SOI to a sexual relationship. I notice you spat these girls, hug them , hold their hand, but why not kiss them and make out with them? You can easily do it.

Cheers man, keep your f.rs coming. I'll still be your loyal reader.

Your wing,

P.S: Your becoming scary HAHA, I wonder how long before an mpua badge is attached to your name.

-Duo

Keep soaring!

Didn't I tell you Smashbug??

Keep up this amazing work you are doing.

One area you might try is showing a little vulnerability. You have amazing value right now, to put some vulnerability in there too will definitely help.

For Ex, When you are in comfort, talk about something that gives you passion enthusiastically and then say something like "I sound so silly" or "sometimes I wonder if I'm smart enough to manage these ten companies", I think you get the point...it softens you, makes you more attractive to her, b/c now she sees you are a super guy, but human too with flaws.

Looking forward to the next one.

All the Best,
Av

Duo, you're right on on so many points. Those are just some of many changes my game is undergoing right now. My wildest successes have involved me initiating kissing early on.

Av, I think you've got something there. I think I display vulnerabilities in the wrong way. That's so simple it's brilliant.








My field report for Saturday is this:

went out to a club, walked around for an hour and a half, couldn't open anyone. Why? I don't know, but it's not the first time I've been there. I had a sense that I wasn't "in state" and didn't want to have less-than-stellar interactions with people.

Would forcing myself to approach have helped? I don't think so... at this point I can approach if I really want to. Approach Anxiety isn't a big deal for me any more. This isn't AA. Some part deep in my head was certain that if I approached I wouldn't have the success that I want because I just wasn't in state. It was kind of like going to martial arts when you're recovering from a cold: your body just has that feeling of weakness.

I'm becoming able to readily identify my on state and my off state.

My on state is me being bold and powerful, teasing people and disqualifying them. Saying and doing daring things.

My off state is me just talking to people.

After last night, I'm slowly learning that I can enter that state by acting cocky. It really is like my mind just changes settings. In this higher "game" state, I find myself experiencing a fun little challenge in regard to frame control. Who's frame are they in? Mine, where they need to prove that they're my type, or theirs, which is that I'm just like every other guy? Am I talking to people to amuse myself or am I talking to them in the hopes of winning them over?

Instead of feeling down that, after two years of doing this, I can still have nights where I go out and totally fail to approach, I'm viewing this as a challenge of mastering my own brain. Optimizing my performance. Becoming powerful.

I remember when a night like last night would have me battering myself mentally for days.

I remember a time when I could not, under any circumstances, think of statements that were cocky. For me to be cocky was so far outside my reality that it was literally impossible for me to think that way. I'm finding that cocky is the difference between my on state and my off state. That's also the key. The moment I turn cocky is the moment I start to turn on.

My mind is changing in little bits.

I'm travelling two paths right now.

One is a natural, alpha, high-value male along the lines of David D. or Payton Kane or Tim from RSD.

The other is very material-oriented, like Jesse or Mystery or Style.

You might not think there's a difference, but there is. The best way to differentiate is to compare Payton Kane to Style.

Mystery has a philosophy: competence over confidence. The idea is to move the interaction along the structure. I can learn to do that in my "off" state. Style is a very soft-spoken man from what I've seen on his DVDs. For him to get the results he does can only be through the words he chooses to speak and the guiding hand he takes with the ladies. He cannot possibly be confused with a macho spirit.

I do not need to change a great deal, I just need to progress the structure I've studied: open, attract, screen/accept, comfort, close.

I can do this in my bad moments. For some reason I feel that I can't. That it takes a superman to do this. No. If Style can do it, I can do it.





And that's how my brain has changed for the better today.

This is cool man. Great stuff, not to mention inspiring. Keep up the good work.

Wow. What a time to start working on a positive mindset.

I recently got some bad news. It could turn into worse news. The kind of news that is irrevocably life altering. I'm trying not to ponder how bad this could potentially get.

So my wing and I went out tonight. My wing has a terrible cold and my mind's a mess, but he made me go out because he knew it's what I needed.

I would love to know how my mind works. Last week I went out and couldn't open. At all. Tonight my mind's a mess and I'm worried about horrible things and my confidence is rock bottom, but I go out and approach the hottest girls in the club.

I wasn't my usual A2 nuclear bomb today. I was basically gaming at the level I was at three months ago. But, if this is a bad day for me, I'll take it. Does this sound familiar to you? This used to be in every field report: I opened the hottest girls in the club, got instant attraction, and then lost their attraction.

I went in feeling miserable. I'm going to count the server as the first set.

1st set - HB7.5 server - she was totally into me. She asked me if I wanted anything, I pointed to my drink and said I was good. She said she was so mixed up. I didn't hear, so she repeated herself with a biiiiiiig lean in. I responded, "That's okay. You're not BAD company." as though she wasn't good company but not really bad company either. She laughed so I said, "I mean, you could bring me flowers or something." She laughed harder and said, "I should bring you flowers?" Me: "Yeah!" And I laughed. She left. I could have done so much more.

2nd set - an old acquaintance I haven't seen in forever. Brief convo.

3rd set - HB8pink and HB6.5redhead. HB8pink was the hottest girl in the club so I had some AA opening her. My confidence was pretty low. I went in, got INSTANT attraction from her. The longer I stayed the more it faded.

4th set - HB8, HB7, HB7 - opened the set. Got INSTANT attraction from all three, then it faded and they went to the bathroom.

I could never explain why attraction was fading months ago, but now I can. I perfectly understand it.

Basically, I opened and had friendly chit-chat. I didn't challenge and turn things sexual, which I should DEFINITELY do. That's the missing ingredient. The girls WANT to have fun, sexually charged conversations in the club. They don't go there to have chit-chats. They WANT attitude. They WANT DHVs.

That made all the difference. With the last two sets, I could have kinoed and turned sexual after a minute of conversation and it would have been all over.

Still, after where my mind has been the past few days... if this is a bad night for me, I'LL TAKE IT!!!!!

The biggest success of tonight: just a few nights ago I went out and couldn't open at all. I swore that would never happen again. I went out tonight and opened and attracted the hottest girls in the club. If this is a bad night for me... I'M SO DAMN GOOD!!!

I WILL NO LONGER RESIST TURNING SEXUAL!!!! NO GIRL WILL THINK I'M CREEPY!!! I'LL TOUCH HER AND TEASE HER AND TAKE HER ALL THE PLACES SHE DESPERATELY WANTS TO GO!!!! BECAUSE I CHOOSE TO, EVERY TIME!!!!

More like A2 bullet train ^_^

Since you helped me out with my game so much these past weeks, here is my take on your perspective. Your mindset is focused on stuff that is not important(which is approaching and attracting girls - you mastered this already so you shouldn't keep focusing on it anymore), but you should focus more on things your missing (sexual escalation). It seems you still have the mindset of approaching hot girls and making a big deal about it(well it sort of is considering most guys don't do what we do). But you got to realize you mastered approaching and attracting - you are the A2 bullet train! So it is NO big deal that you approach and attract girls. It has become a natural extension of yourself these past two yrs, if you have that mindset that you MASTERED this aspect of your game you will not have problems with no opening or not approaching. You should look at what your current sticking points are and work from that which is sexual escalation.

Remeber to always have this mentality before approaching a HB 8.5-10. *you know they'll like you, they want a man like you, they have boring lives, and want a dominant alpha male like yourself to ravish them and make them complete." I always have a positive mindset with targets now that I will make them happy if I make them my gf. ALWAYS! It eleviates alot of the AA.

I'll relate my situation as an analogy as you witnessed my game in person. If you noticed with my latest field reports I just go up to them run the blueprint #/email close and then time bridge. I no longer focus on approaching hot girls, or hooking the set to A2, or make them qualify to me in A3, or go into comfort in C1/C2, why you ask? Because I already have that stuff down so I look and focus on things I lack(time bridging with day 2s, sexual escalation/makeouts, lays).

I realized approaching girls is nothing out of the ordinary for me, and it shouldn't be for you - you have way better attraction game and still are going around in your circular A1-A2-A3, but don't build emotional comfort, physically escalate, and ultimately makeout and get SNL, ONS , or FBS. You deserve all the sexual encounters dude. I just don't know why your not making out with all of those girls and taking things sexually with them. I see you spank girls, touch them, but then stop!? Dont' focus anymore on approaching the hottest girls, you do that too easily now. That is nothing special anymore, that is like me being proud to open a hot girl in day game(EHHHHH I do it so much it isn't anything special anymore - remember we aren't AFCs, but PUAS). FOCUS ON LAYING THE HOTTEST GIRLS. Each set from now on you should see each target as a potential lay and ramp up the kino escalation and push it physically with each new target. No more trying to instill attraction, no more trying to make them look at you like they want you to rip your clothes off. You want them to rip your clothes off. That is the correct mentality to have. Next time go out focus on making out/kissing at least one target, then keep working on making out with girls every night you go out. Then from that add another layer by pushing for SNL/ONS with your targets(I am sure you can get them ^_^). If those don't work try to timebridge to a day 2 and physically escalate and get your lay there.

What I notice is you open so many sets and divert alot of your sarging/pick up to attract as many sets and hot girls as possible. Next time your in a bar focus on only 1 or 2 sets with really attractive girls(like the HB 10 blonde at the bank) and physicaly escalate them to make out with you and push it as far as it can go and hopefully a SNL could occur. Doing this improve your game drastically as your pushing things forward. Got to know which wars to fight right!? ^_^

P.S: I notice you really admire Style like I do. What he said in his annhilation method dvd really touched home with this phrase:

"Always push your sets 20% more than your last set and keep working on improving your game each and everyday" This quote directly relates to my situation(getting consistent day 2s, sexual escalation to lay) and your situatio physically escalating to lay in night game.

Out of all the members on this board. I really want to see you become an mpua and have the ability to teach this stuff to others. Since that was your goal in all of this, I really want to see you succeed. You helped me so much the past month by critiquing my game, and I realize if I keep pushing things as I am doing my goal of a girlfriend will come true very soon.

Oh since your looking for SNL/ONS and lots of sexual encounters and have problems sexually escalating, I sent you Mpua Captain Jacks newsletter via pm from TMM. That outlines alot of great stuff on this area of pua and it'll prove useful to you.

Cheers,

Your canadian wing,

-Duo

Duo, thanks for the words and the links. They're fascinating. Good stuff.




My field report for yesterday.


Okay, I haven't been going out much lately. Personal reasons.

I had an amazing night yesterday, when you consider how much stress I've been under the past week.

All I can say is I was confident and relaxed and getting IOIs from everyone. Opened several hotties. Kino escalated without realizing it on one. She was so into me.

I'm still not being challenging and emotionally engaging after the opener. I dont know why, but I'm holding back. Stress, probably.

I was amazingly unreactive yesterday. I just didn't give a shit.

Can't remember many of the sets, but it was a fun night.

Okay, guys, just checking in.

I had a lot of shit go down this past month, some stuff so serious I wondered if I'd have to pull out of the seduction community and many other things that are important to me.

Over the past two weeks I opened and got mucho attraction from 20-30 girls. I'm flipping through my notes right now because I was going to type them up, but I don't remember any of it. It's all a blur of good times.

Awesome shit. I'm trying to turn myself into a closer. If I'd cavemanned all the girls I've opened in the last year I'd have slept with at least 75% of them. Scary to think about.

hey smashbug,

it is good to prioritize your life with stuff more important than seduction. Girls can always come into your life now that your a pua. Lately I have a bunch of exams so I don't think I'll be doing much sarging. Good idea changing your mentality to start going for lays you deserve it!

-Duo

Smashbug

What are some of the realizations you had over the past few weeks since we last heard from you? (aside from the cave-manning part, which is great I might add).

Av

Some basic psychology

If you have a lot of things going on in your life you need to prioritize, which I imagine you're doing because you seem like a very intelligent guy. I dunno if this is much use, but who knows. Here goes:

Basic Psychology: Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs


5. Self Actualization - personal growth

4. Esteem Needs - achievements, success, status, ego

3. Belongingness and Love Needs - family, relationships, love

2. Safety Needs - protection, laws, security, order

1. Physical and Biological Needs - basic life stuff: food, drink, shelter, sex/masturbation


One cannot move from one level to the next without having all other needs met. For example, you can't think about your ultimate purpose in life, or desire to be a great PUA, if you're hungry. This is a very bare bone chart of Maslow, and it's actually kind of refreshing to look at since it puts all of lifes hardships into some sort of structure.

Perhaps this is a perspective to look at with all the things you're dealing with in your life right now. Also, remembering back to reading your previous reports, maybe you were having so much trouble because you were wanting sex, tier 1, but you were so concerned with your growth as a PUA, tier 5.

Just something interesting to think about. Love the reports.

Okay, typing up some old F.R.'s

I moved recently and don't have internet, so I'm scavenging internet time at other people's houses. I've been kicking ass.



Thursday, Oct. 4


1st set Saw an HB6.5 black cougar putting out much attitude at the bar. I opened her, did nothing to attract, and had her all over me.

2nd set HB6 blonde - totally cute blonde, probably an 8 if she didn't go for that geek chic look. Great face, great body, dorky glasses and clothing. Opened her, had her love me. Reopened her later, she was sort of wary (I should have escalated our first meeting instead of leaving her). She wanted me to reopen her a second time. I didn't. I reopened her the following night and she totally snubbed me.

3rd set of cuties - opened, nervous, instant attraction, got blown out due to social issues.

4th set opened HB7 hot shirt at bar. Asked her if she had as much attitude as her shirt. Made her prove it.

5th set - finished the night by opening a bitchy brunette.

I was feeling weak all night, but I performed like a rock star!!! Not really seeing hot girls at the bar right now.


Friday, Oct. 5

1st set - HB7 shy Asian. Attracted, isolated, kinoed, qualified, bond and connected. This was an awesome set. Set a time bridge for this weekend. Nothing noteworthy, just game in action.

2nd set - usually don't count bartenders as game, but had a funny interaction:

Me: "When did you guys start 80s night?"

Her: "A few weeks ago. I hate the music."

Me: "You don't like 80s music."

Her: (explains that she likes all kinds of music)

Me: (misinterpreting her, reacting as though she just listed all the music she hates) "You don't like any music? You know what that means, right? That means you're dead inside."

She started laughing so hard. I should have stayed and continued.


Tuesday, Oct. 9

1st set - 3 HB6s - opinion opener, no transition, no structure

2nd set - mixed set - opinion opener. No transition, no structure.

3rd set - HB6.5 asked about the booty shake contest.

4th set - opened the hottest girl in the place (and the first hot girl I've seen in a week), HB8silver dress. She was totally into me. The guy trying to take her home that night was having a little heart attack. I tell myself I shouldn't game when there's another guy interested in them. No real reason, except that I'm really good at coming up with reasons to hold myself back.


Looking at these reports, it seems like I'm taking a step back. But I'm not. For some reason I just went through a week and a half of approach anxiety, but my focus is now running game via a structure and taking each interaction as far as I can.

Hey My Canadian Wing,

Good to read your still approaching girls left and centre. I noticed the meeting we had two months ago really filled alot of the holes we had in our games. Your implementing alot of the stuff i.e building a real emotional connection with the targets now and not pulling the attraction A2 freight train. That is an amazing feat man. Alot of the girls will spread their legs for you sooner than you think.

Remember 99% of the guys out there don't do what we do! We are puas, keep up the good work.

Thanks for the info. It's raising some questions. I'll get back to you with them.

lol. All kinds of things. Read on.

Dude... wait until I tell you what happened tonight....




Okay, I went out tonight and came to a firm realization. But first, some background.


Two years ago I took an RSD bootcamp. I was such a shy, introverted person that I was scared to leave my apartment when I wasn't having a great day. If you offered to pay me a million dollars I couldn't manage more than a handful of weak approaches. If that million dollars depended on me faking boldness I would have fainted on the spot.

RSD flooded me in their bootcamp. Flooding is basically a way of confronting fears as follows: if someone has a fear of spiders, you lock them in a room with spiders. Over the course of 3 days I approached almost 100 people. In that time I was pushed to a breaking point. I was standing in the bar, freaking out, trembling, eyes tearing up, twitching, screaming inside, and Tyler Durden had to talk me down. Interestingly, what happened afterwards is a kind of approach freedom I've never experienced since.

Over the last two years I've perfected approaching. My wing says it looks like magic.

I need to be flooded again. My wing and I are working out a program where we're going to mercilessly flood my current phobia: escalation. He's going to point out women to me and I'm going to open them and physically escalate, regardless of the consequences.

The things holding me back is my fear of escalation. All the tactics and routines and knowledge and material in the world is useless if I'm building an impenetrable wall before they can be used. We're going to tear that wall down.


Okay, here's my day:


1st set - Hooters - afternoon - opened, had the girl sit down with us, chat, etc. Towards the end of the set I lost value and she started shit testing me.

2nd set - girl who used to be totally into me. I opened her, instant attraction, by the end of the interaction she thought I was very low value.

3rd set - this pisses me off. Another HB10. A brunette. Just as hot as the one I opened with Duo. Her and her HB9 blonde friend. I went up to them and said, "Guys... you guys look totally cute... so I had to come and say high." BOOOM!!!!! They're touching me, smiling, wanting to know my name, etc. I asked what they were celebrating and the HB10 grabs me, gives me a big smile and says, "You!!!! And our new friendship!!!!" And then... poof... in an instant I hit that wall that brings me down to a low value man and they ran away as though I was on fire.

I hate to think about it. I'd almost rather get rejected by gorgeous women outright than to have them fawn all over me before they freak out and bolt. And I mean extremely freak out. It's like they can't understand how I slipped past their low-value filters and registered as Brad Pitt and George Clooney combined.

You have no idea how torn up about this set I am. I'm so torn up that I also fell down some stairs in front of the entire club (sober) and haven't thought twice about it.

I'm probably not accurately describing this block. I think I've talked about it before. Well, it's going down. It's days are numbered.

You talked to TD, for some people that's like talking to the Pope. Not me, ...but for some it is.

I love shit like this. The second part I did'nt like so much. But this, Boom Chicka Wa Wa!

Friday, Oct. 12

Went to a club. There's nothing I can say to make this night sound great, no matter how optimistic I am. I went out with the intention of mindlessly escalating, pushing myself through my fears. My wing and I are going to Toronto in early November for five days and I'm going to use that opportunity to flood myself, just like I did way back when with RSD.

I approached 3 sets, went down in flames in all of them, then walked around for an hour warring in my mind.

Saturday, Oct. 13


Mall game.

1st set - clerk - cute brunette, easily an HB7. Took the structure all the way up to bond and connect. Lots of laughing, qualifying. I didn't kino or time bridge: I definitely should have. She even hinted that I should come back later.

2nd - clerk - nothing of note here.

3rd set - store manager - OLD ex playboy bunny, but still with a smoking hot body. Opened, ran structure well into bond and connect. To the point where the only escalation left was sexual. She was qualifying herself all over the place: her music, her Playboy fame, her personality, her sexiness, etc. At one point she was so nervous looking into my eyes that her long-forgotten accent came back. She said she took vocal coaching to get rid of it and it only comes out when she's drunk or nervous. I found myself doing something I've noticed before: instead of accepting her and brining her up to my level, I started doing things that devalue myself. WRONG way to make her more comfortable around me and bring us closer.

Things to work on: smiling too much.

Now to do night game. I'll let you guys know how I own the place like a rockstar.