Ployamory and kids

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  1. ksimpson Member

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    Correction: Heading is meant to read:

    "Polyamory and Kids"
    One's evolution in this game leads towards an Alpha behavior, and this comes with it multiple women in one's life. This tends to make it harder for a committed monogamous relationship over a long term, in my opinion.

    While polyamory seems like a pleasant alternative, I am curious as to the forum's take on how to deal with kids by different women. How would these kids address and relate to their step mums?

    This is just a thought, but I believe that it makes an interesting debate, especially with the high percentage rate of failed marriages, and with the movement towards a more fluid alternative.

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    ksimpson, May 22, 2012
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  2. TheEarl88 Well-Known Member

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    I have no idea. You should probably watch that show about that Mormon guy. But you know what, you should read up
    on some ancient Rome. They used to adopt, foster, and raise other's children and it was normal to do. Like
    adopt a good friend's son as a nephew or apprentice. Raise someone's daughter. etc. Just a thought, but it is somehting
    I would never be down for.
    TheEarl88, May 26, 2012
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  3. Angelic

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    This already happens in South America all the time. Many of the guys have kids by two or three women. It's called being a "Deadbeat Dad" in most cases, LOL.

    In more Ancient societies, like in Ancient Rome among the upper class males, you might have an official wife with the official children that were raised by the wife, and male generally ignored the kids, had little to do with them until they got older. And he may have had bastard children that he had nothing to do with them.

    So are you looking for a more "enlightened" way of raising kids from multiple women? Like being "involved in their upbringing" in the more modern sense?

    If I were to do it, I would try to get all the wives and children under one roof. That way I could keep an eye on everyone and be involved. Otherwise it would be near impossible and by default the kids would think of you as an absent father. That seems to be how modern polygamous relationships work... the man has his small harem of 2 or 3 wives all together. That could lead to some interesting threesome or foursome sex too (y)
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    Thanks for the links TM
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    Thanks TM another good one
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