Yesterday I was approached this cute looking english girl waiting for a train. I complimented her and we got chatting. After a few minutes I persuaded her to come and join me for a coffee. As we sat down we chatted away. Then I fell silent and gazed into her eyes and she continued to chat. She then began blushing and said "no man has ever given me such strong eye contact before before..the way you look at me is so intense I cant look at you" she burst into a giggle and turned her head away. I then smiled and started chatting. When a girl says your eye contact is intense. Do you think that I need to "soften" my eye contact alittle ? What are your thoughts ? In the end she gave me her number and continues to text me.
HAHAHAHA C'mon dude! You know what you are doing! I'm gonna go out on a limb and say that is a GOOD thing... Do you just sit there and stare at her with a very, very slight grin? I find myself occasionally breaking eye contact, just to look up and think, before I speak. But when a girl is speaking, it has become second nature to stay fixated on her face/lips/eyes. It is crazy how much they notice!
Eye contact creates sexual tension... so you CAN freak a girl out with it... but this isn't about being "liked" it's about being the sexiest guy and doing what YOU want and allowing the girl to follow ! So play around with it and don't second guess it
