Hello All, Finally managed to get myself back on the lounge after my PC had suffered a hard drive failure . Got a question for you lovely lot If you meet a girl on a first date and you just dont like the smell of the perfume she wears how would you tell her that without hurting her ?. Would you tell her and make a suggestion ? How would you phrase this ? Thanks
I would not tell her ! Imagine if she said that to you ? What i would do tho is go out & buy her a nice fragrance ask her to wear it for me.. Then tell her how much i love it on her
FM; I would say nothing about her perfume or anything else about her that you don't like. There may be one exception: It causes you an outbreak of hives or some other kind of allergic reaction. Note: This may be a way to tell her you don't like the perfume without saying you don't like it..Tell her it makes your nasal passages swell-up..Say, you are allergic to some perfumes. She will, then, wash it off and never wear it, again. This reminds of when a woman who has beautiful breasts, decides to get bigger breasts. :lol: I told one woman I will miss her beautiful breasts. After she had the operation, I told her her breasts are beautiful. (I still prefer her original breasts.) :lol: TM
Hey FM. I would tell her. She'll respect you for that and chase you. It shows her too that you don't care too much about the outcome (you're not there just to kiss her butt) and that's attractive to the girl. It's what the "bad boy" archetype would do. It's like qualifying her... so get her into the habit of making effort to please you and win your approval. You don't want to work to win her approval, you just assume attraction on her part... instead, you want to get her working to win yours. Girls ultimately like what they need to chase for.
Obviously say it with a smile, and not being overly serious. It should be part of the playful banter, within the love bubble.
That would be a counter-intutitive remark for me to make to a woman, Jesse. Just how to say it is difficult for me to do. If I knew the woman, it wouldn't be hard for me to say it. Can you give us an example of what to say? TM
Make a positive suggestion rather than a critical comment. "Hey I love girls that smell like cherries or fruit. You should try that Black XS perfume, or try something that smells sweeter." In her desire to please you, she'll change quickly.
Great responses to my question thankyou everyone for contributing. Part of me was feeling just be honest and tell her what you think in a playful way. I think Jesse hit the hammer on the nail.
