Rather confusing predicament -need advice

hey guys, its been a while since i last posted,big ups to tequila, tiger and jess:thumbup:. Jesse keep up the good work man it is really bang on and top class. Now on to the issue that has been troubling me for a month now.

I have been playing a theoretical tennis game with a girl for over a year now of what you would call a back and forth love hate relationship. No, she is not my girl , which sucks ass but this is why i have sought to get some help becuz honestly this is gettin wayy to complicated.

i will try to condense this saga as best i can , cuz it would really b a chore to type it allll. Now i met this girl a year ago at a social get together , and from then even though she was just one of the chicks i was just casually conversing with we were really clicking. so i got her digits and the other particulars and i left .
now it turned out that she actually was going to the same college as i was at the time so i decided to meet her and her friends . so from then you could say things were really going good , it even progressed to the point where we had fights and fallouts and the whole relationship bs but funny thing we were and still not together . and i must mention that this is not the case where im just the close friend who thinks that theres something when theres not , nope not by any strecth of imagination. any ways , it was evident that she was nuts about me then and still is now.but back then i was warm with her but i wasnt interested and im not the type of guy to take advantage of womens feelings just becuz they may like me.

so this chick even though she was crazy behind me kept playing it down wen one of my friends would ask her. and this went on for some time, her sayin one thing but doing sumthing totally contradictory. so now its at the point that she has grown on me and i really am digging this girl so i go to make my move .Bamm she has a boyfriend im like ok , so shes single again cuz these things wit these other guys dont work out . so i try again bamm she has another one .... and im now in frustration cause this is gettin ridiculous . she falls out with this next guy . i now think of giving it a third shot and low and behold to my suprise she has another one . and the thing is you only find out wen she is well into the relationship with the guy .

so then she confesses to me , likewise i do the same . and shes into the whole tear up mode telling me that she's liked me for sooo long and now to find out that i feel the same .she was in a moment of passion so i let her just spew everything out . to my shock shes never really liked any of the guys shes gone out with like me in fact with me it is hard core love . well i knew that already, and she went on about she only dated them because she wasnt sure if her and i would work out. i said fine , so we went bowling a week ago with some freinds of mine. and my best fren, a real joker is still talkin a bout the electrical storm that was flying between us. and he was right we couldnt help but laugh and joke and flirt with each other. so we moved upstairs in the lounge and in less than the blink of an eye we strt a heavy make out session.and then it went from thaat to us going home and my boy asking me wats the next move for us and shit . then the girl is gonna drop on me she isnt sure about gettin together cuz shes been going out with a new guy for 2 weeks and this role of bs . yes at this point im just sayin wtf ,not to mention she claims to love me and not even this guy .

im now telling myself mover her to the left cause she obviously is just messin round wit my head .and even though i am serious im not sure she is anymore ... so advice anyone ?

me again

thanks Jesse , much appreciated

Yeh, you have to step-up to the plate and be Reckless, Touch, and NOT be like the rest of the men in her life.:thumbdown:

Thanks for mentioning, me... Where's Tiger?!!!

TM