Re-attracting an ex

Any tips or ideas for seducing an ex whom u have kids with who is being reluctant and resistant because of past issues. I know she is still attracted to me on some levels, I just need to reignite the passion and do a better job of stimulating her mind.

Nanes1

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definitely not needy or lonely. We have 2 kids and it's what I want.

We had issues and I was too weak to pass congruence tests and lead properly. I ended it last yr. We tried to reconcile in winter but custody issues caused a lot of arguing (both hard headed). Called it off mutually in may. Custody issues r over and I am in a great, positive place now and just want my woman.

I need to seduce her to move past her reluctance and prove to her she can "trust" me to b the man she needs now.

I see her at 4 times per week b/w taekwondo for my oldest and exchanging kids for custody. We were having occasional dinners and doing things for kids together (zoo, beach, etc).

I have tried showing affection and nonverbal seduction at these times. She doesn't return affection but isn't mean. She even flirts in "her" way a bit...nothing overt.

She told me last nite that the nonverbal seduction makes her uncomfy and she wants space to figure out what she wants. Don't think I have much choice at this point....

hi nanes,

what kind of issues did you had? If you want to share them with us?

Because typically somebody break up because of certain issues and the issues often have to do with the personality of both or of one partner in a relationship.

So if you want your ex back, but she is frightened to be togther with you again, because she expects that your past issues could come up again, than this should be your point to fix.

The easiest way is to show her that you changed and became a better person in the last month, cause only if she can see and feel that you changed, that you relationship changed, only than she could believe that your past issues will not come up again...

Because even if you come back togther, how should she know if you not break up again with her in a few month?Or that not new issues arise?

best wishes iam

I have done things diff in last month and worked to solve some of those issues...mainly showing her affection. I even asked her if she was worried I was just doing so just to get her back and she said no, she knew I was serious.

Don't have time to rehash all our issues but I tried working on many. I think best thing now is to stop pushing things and give her the space she asked for.