Sandee, this is good - shamelessly persist to a ridiculous level, and be playful... and just openly admit it to the girl... to diffuse objections. I think this is the difference. Wrong way = hiding you intent from the girl, but persisting. This is creepy and needy. Like trying to be friends and always calling her up to have conversations about life. Wrong way = giving up / nexting Right way = You're up front with her that you're massively attracted to her (showing sexual intent), and you're up front with her that you will persist, and you persist. That's what this little routine you have here effectively does.
Well, great work! You have helped me to improve my knowledge about this field. Thank you so much for sharing.