Hey Jesse/guys I've been out of the game for about a year or so, got caught up in a LTR and then got super bored and had to leave it. My situation is that I have a child with my ex-girlfriend and we lived together. Now I'm single but the urge to be a top notch single guy is not kicking in as of yet. I did do some partying, met some girls however either went in needy or didn't go in at all.. So here I am ready to step back in and start a new course any words of encouragements is welcome. Question for Jesse.. When you're out of the game for a period of time, what the best way to get back in, real hard ? or just let it gradually come to me?
ShotEmDown, welcome back... glad to see you again. Be careful with the idea of "let it gradually come to me." That's often code for procrastination and slacking or waiting to get hit by a bolt of lightning. It's all you, and you get back out whatever you put into it. If you want mediocre results, then take it easy and mediocre. If you want epic results, make it an epic focus and constantly push your edge and expend energy. Either one is fine, but make your choice consciously and be happy with your choice for what it is and what it requires or doesn't require.
Well said, I just listen to your confidence audio and got the answer within that audio but again you a Jedi.. I'm gonna start posting field reports as they come..
