Brent Smith (PUA mentor) says some GOOD things. I just got this e-mail letter from him and he described me, almost, exactly. (Ahh,..I still believe that some women are in a BAD mood and NOT approachable). (Funny-thing at how these mentors seem to convey similar ideas). Here is the letter: Ever wonder why 99.9% of our interactions are successful? One of the reasons that we're successful is that we truly believe that you get back what you give out. (My comment: This DOES NOT work, ALL of the time in my world). When we're out, we convey absolutely no negativity. If you give out negative, you'll get back negative. People think we're someone to be reckoned with. They assume we're powerful by the way we walk in and put on the show. Women are drawn to someone who acts as if everybody wants to know them. We don't assume that people are mean or in a bad mood. We assume they're out to have a good time and want to interact with everybody. Those of you who've been out with us know what we mean. We put out this vibe of "come talk to us." We're out to be friendly and have a great time and have nothing at stake, accept that. So that's what we get in return. When we're out and about we believe: Everybody is friendly and in a great mood Everybody already likes us Everybody wants to talk to us And more importantly that: Every woman is attracted to us Every woman wants our numbers Every woman will ask for it Every woman will text us Every woman wants to see us again, ETC. We have an old friend who exhibited this behavior perfectly. His name was John Brown. This guy was absolutely convinced that every woman wanted him, all the time, and he wasn't a pretty boy. He'd walk through a place and say: "Every woman in here wants me." He'd say this out loud to himself or to us. As he continued walking he would often pause in front of a girl (or group of girls) and blurt out: "The name's John Brown, in case you need to know later." And then, without waiting for a response he kept moving. He was already assuming that they would want to know him. It was incredible. Later in the night, women would often seek him out, and already knowing his name, would say: "Hey John. What's up?" Or "Where did you go?" This was especially effective when he was standing with other women as they approached. It was further social proof. He didn't know any girls when he walked in but one simple tactic changed all that. The more we thought about this, the more it made sense. We mean we're not going to walk around saying "Every girl in here wants us" out loud, but what a powerful mindset and place to come from. Inside your head you already assume that every girl wants you so you go about choosing the one YOU want. When you say something positive to women and are being friendly (not hitting on them), their automatic human response is to be friendly back. Try it and let us know what happens!
