As mentioned in a previous FR, Saturday is the night I HAVE to go out-no matter what. Did some day game earlier today. Funniest set was flirting with a waitress at a pizza place with my mom. Got two free pizzas! LOL!!:thumbup: I figured it would be good to go out at night, considering I need to be on my Game and at my social best to handle Gym Girl, who I really want. I feel deeply bonded to her (after one date!) and I deserve her, hell, she deserves me. Go to the same bar I have gone to the past 3 weeks. Bouncer recognizes me off the get go. So I have a minimal amount of social proof upon entry. Walk around, get a drink. On my way downstairs and towards a bathroom, a black chick opens me. She compliments my hair and asks to see me without the pony tail. I tease, of course. Exchange names, she holds my hand while talking. I go to the bathroom, tease her about wanting to come with me or not behaving, etc something like that, can't remember. Go back outside, open first group of girls with my new bar opener for momentum: "Hey! You girls look friendly so I am going to chat with you!" Before I could finish that sentence, the sorta hot MILF of the group had her arms around me. I tease and confidently introduce myself to each girl in the group, holding each girl's hands for a good 3 seconds with a warm smile. It's like all girls are WAITING for a guy to talk to them! They continue to ask about my hair. One girl tells me, "its karma we met cuz we both are wearing pink shirts!!!" I rebuttal, "I'm ashamed to admit how often I wear pink shirts..." An intentional DLV, which had all of them complimenting and qualifying themselves to me. Chat about their girls night out, etc. Free form so I don't know what I said, just warm, loud, smiling, eye contact, posture. Everything I said was cool, because I am the man. Infact, I go out of my way to say really, really stupid things just so I can smirk to myself about how awesome it is that I pull it off. They leave, I open the next set of girls, which was a table with the black chick that opened me earlier. I make her introduce me to everyone. Eye contact, shake, hand holds on each girl. Two were pretty well kept looking. Tell them the story about dildo girl from the previous week. They love it. Talk about sex toys. Celebrity lookalikes. One girl leaves to go to the bathroom, I tease her about going in to masturbate. I take her chair at the table, introduce myself to some other girls and say, in a demanding voice, "I am taking this chair, now all of you have to talk to me" Tell them I have to go talk to more people. Go back upstairs, open first group of girls, one was in a white dress. Made a wedding joke. Drunk girl is all over me. I tell the dildo story again, then talk about music. The hot girl, who I opened first was not receptive. I just kept talking, I negged her, but then she left as I started talking to her friend more. "Hmm, guess your friends are scared to play with me!" Talk for a bit, dude trys to AMOG/interfere (he was their friend) I act friendly to him, its all good. Chat more, then girl cuts me off and says, "nice meeting you." They had to go. I leave. No more looking for IOIs, just walking into sets and saying whatever. I find myself saying the same stories or openers now naturally, so I guess I am developing my own custom blend of "canned material." Examples being: Dildo Story, as you can bounce to sex in a funny way, Celeb Lookalike bc I get Tom Cruise/Zazh Quinto/ Dark Fabio all the fucking time-so I figure it makes me look cool. Every girl kino'd ME right off the bat, which was cool. Only guy approaching again. Talked to no more than 13 girls in 30 minutes, my new record. Left the bar cause no one was hot enough for me to make a real effort, and everyone was really drunk. I am turned off by drunk game, as I want to feel like I am using skill to slay these broads. Still have alot to learn and plenty of experience to gain! It'd be like hunting a deer with a broken leg. I'm a lion grrrr baby! I wanna slay my prey. A man, a plan, a canal, panama:woot:
You're picking up some great basic references experiences here Earl. Everyone reinforces the core belief that you're a cool dude. :thumbup:
Fucking mystery of the century. Hasn't returned my call, don't want to text/call too much to be needy but would like to see her this week. My biggest fear is that she isn't thinking about me.
There could be dozens of reasons for this which have no bearing on you dude. Who knows maybe shes got exams, family commitments etc etc. Just keep on doing what your doing hitting on and meeting other girls.
Well, I like my idea of a sincere text like proposing a spontaneous date...but, yeah, she can choose not to respond or blow out a "date" text, or any other kind. She has blown off other date texts/voicemails with hooks...so...The "neg" text is what got her to go out with me in the first place. Again, AKM, muchas gracias Her last text to me, after sending "how excited are you for your first shake?!" (assumes she is excited, and going out with me) only warranted a "maybe next week " So, sure, why the hell not, I'll go for the long, assholish text since it worked the first time around. I just hope it goes well, and that she doesn't preceive it as false/a lie/ not me...etc. But hell, I'm willing to do something risky and retarded because a) it's more fun, and b) it's worth the reward.:thumbup: I was going to text her a truthful, funny, random text like "OMG if it weren't for a lucky gust of wind, someone would have a Titleist in their living room..." and once she responds work it into a date. For the asshole version, how does this sound? "Omg I jst got back frm epic rafting, sorry to hear u were stuck at home studying or else u could've tagged along. But u know what the worst part is?" I do go rafting/tubing/kayaking* She studies alot for school, so I am assuming she is a bookworm* I want to keep it short, like, not too long or showing too much thought* Well, I'm out of town Friday, shes out Sat Sun, so if I don't catch her at the gym tmr, I will send the text. If that doesn't work, I'll hit the town with a friend. If she only responds with a weak "wat?" or "no?" it sucks to reply with the epic, "I was just begining.." but whatev Sound alright? Not too much too soon since I saw her last Wed and called her Mon? Thanks again man, don't let the door hit you in the vagina on the way out
Fml So today I sent the DHV blah blah hook text. No response. When I looked at my sent message box, it did look a bit long winded/too thought out. Almost try hard. I feel like she probably sees through that shit, but it worked the first time out so wtf!? Ball is in her court now. I can only hope she calls/texts me back as I have not seen her at the gym. I just don't get how our date can end with a K-close, and then she goes off the grid. I mean, total AFCs and every dumbass guy I have ever known in my life have pulled 2nd dates and then some after they totally fuck shit up. Why would she bail after things went reasonably well? I hate that fucking glimmer of hope. I am not going to call anymore. I am not going to text. Maybe I will bump into her, but I sure as shit am not going to beg and grovel to get her to come out. Fucking sux cause she had alot of potential. As much as I don't want to, I am going to stop thinking about her and let what remains of the image of her in my head dissipate. I can't allow myself to keep the perpetual fantasy alive.
