Guys, I met a polish girl yesterday see my journal. Been bantering back and forth. I nick named her alittle cat she replied back "Would you like me to be a nice and sweet kitten or a very wild kitten ?" xx How would you respond to this ? would you respond back with dirty texts ? or keep it non sexual until I meet her next ?
Don't text back dirty until you sleep with her - being suggestive is enough. You can be ambiguous and leave it up to her own imagination... "both". That's how most girls see themselves. You can also use this to PUSH her, create space, so that she can chase... "ooh... you're dangerous for me " Generally keep texting limited to playful banter, or role playing. Or suggestive, like "What r u wearing?" and just ignore her previous text, you don't have to answer it directly.
Thanks.. How often do you text a girl ? every day ? i am planning to organise a date in a weeks time. How often would you recommend texting ? everyday ? would that come across as needy ?
This initial texting stuff is NOT in my realm of doing, a lot. It just reminds me of one woman who had NO sense of humor. I NEED to get that shit out of my mind. :thumbdown: Role playing, now that's a GOOD idea. Here's one example of role playing: Pretend that we are on a deserted island. What are we wearing? What colors are they? What color is the beach? Is it day or night? Did we build a place for us to live in? What does it look like? Who does the fishing? Who builds the fire? How do we keep warm when it's cold at night? (You see, FM, you will be kicking-in her imagination. (It sounds romantic, doesn't it). :thumbup: With each short text, YOU will be asking her to imagine the two of you on an island. She will make this her fantasy of the two of you together. You will be amazed at how imaginative a woman can be.) TM
Thanks TM i called her today and had a short chat to her about her day she said shes really looking foreward to seeing me sunday. Things are really on with this girl. Its funny she says she loves older men shes 23.
Us men seem to all anxious about what to say during text messaging. We "TRY" to be funny and NOT seem needy, etc. :lol: I think that a woman wants to HEAR a mellow confident man on the phone, NOT a text message. That Deserted Island Fantasy is still a good idea. You want to kick-in her imagination, whether it be romantic or sexual. (I write sex fantasies). TM
TM There is some really good advice here, but I think I'm definitely in the texting generation too. I have read studies that said the more contact you have with a person the more attraction builds up in them and the more time you spend apart the more attraction fades, so I would always suggest, if you have it in your schedule get out with them sooner rather than later. If a girl wants to be with you, even if she works, she will try to find a way to be with you even if it's a little late at night or in the middle of the day. I met this girl at a doctor's office when I was going in for a knee injury I got from rock climbing. Because I was going to see the doctor, it wouldn't have been wise to ditch the appointment on the off chance I might get to sleep with her. So what I did is find out where she was going to be that night, because her interest was high at that moment, I knew she was telling me the truth and if I choose to see her there I could continue the PU. So, I saw her that night, but because I had a date with another girl that night, I just got some face time with her, worked on upping her interest in us hooking up and then I said, you know since I've come to see you - now you have to come see me tomorrow. She said something about having to work and I said, "what you work 24 hours?" She laughed and said no. Then we made plans on where to meet. It happened to be close to my house and it was an easy turn to go from there to my place. What I'm trying to get across is, limit the phone and texting. What really matters is face time. No one ever got laid over the phone or with a text message. Use it to build interest but don't use it as a substitute for real face time. Hope this helps.
In a week's time? That's pretty far off. She could decide to call it off because she doesn't feel enough connection... OR because she gets nervous because you have a good vibe. The more time that goes by, the more likely she can get inside her head about it. Doesn't mean that will happen here, but holding a girl's interest with text messages for a week isn't the ideal. You can go two routes; Just be real and text her when you want. If you come across somewhat chumpy because of it to some girls, so be it. Other girls will enjoy the texting though. Second is to be unpredictable to keep her guessing and keep her reacting. Text her multiple times on day, but then cut it off cold for a day or two before starting the next barrage. That keeps her on her toes and wondering what you'll do next and wondering if she really has you. Both are risky in their own ways; really you want to meet up with the girl and not rely on texts.
Thankyou everyone.. I am being unpredicatable with my texts. Texted her yesterday telling her she looks very good in skirts she replied back "I am trying on a new short tight skirt something for you to think about xx" Didnt reply back will text her a non sexual text today. She seems to be really into me i guess it helped as we went for a instant date when we met so it helped to develop more of a connection.
Steven & Others; I believe, the two MOST important things a man can provide a woman in order to create hard-attraction, are: 1. TOUCH 2. His VOICE If done properly, Phone Sex can be VERY powerful. You're kicking-in her imagination. I saw a text message to a woman from some guy she knows. It said: "Do you know this guy"? (He included a pic of his dick.) :woot: TM
