The corporate world and cheating

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  1. Bounce Active Member

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    Hey guys i just have a question about women cheating and the corporate world. I have been in a Corporate world for
    a while and it bothers me how the Corporate world makes
    guys with no game but higher positions look like alpha
    males. So in essence a CEO with no game would look like an alpha
    male and be attractive to a secretary that just joined the
    company with a lower salary.

    Knowing that not all guys in relationships can afford to
    have a woman who is not employed it bothers me how I can
    make my woman survive this danger. You might know very well
    that anybody who works spend 70% of their time at work...so
    work is pretty much half of our lives. Do you have any
    suggestion on this? I think most women would screw their
    seniors in a corporate world just because the are in senior
    positions and women just love a men in power. Can you give
    me advice. My woman is in the corporate world...i dont have
    any worries at the stage we have an excellent relationship
    we hook up threesomes whenever we want and I like it like
    that.

    It just worries me though to think that maybe some day some
    less of a man CEO or big coprate dude would make attempts
    and her and i think a senior position makes any dude look
    alpha in the corporate world. Also when seniors work with a
    women they can arrange meetings and conferences which gives
    better opportunity for pick up. Can you please give me
    advice on how I can manage my woman and my relationship so
    that I have better odds of not having my woman cheat on me
    when it comes to this kind of a situation

    I know this sounds like a very jealous mail but its just
    common sense for me. I am in a better position myself and I
    have seen how women that I deal with in lower ranks are
    just easier to screw.


    ultimately the goal for me as a man is to have finacial freedom which would mean my woman not working and me just pretty much having her look sexy anytime and traveling the world. but until then a man has gotta make ends meet....

    please advice what your thinking is on this issue and how a man can manage her woman well so that when a man higher in status comes he remains the man for her.....speak guys :)
  2. TheEarl88 Well-Known Member

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    Yo man, if your girlfriend is hot, I am CERTAIN that some guy, somewhere is checking her out. Probably right now.

    If you are having 3ways with her, etc, I feel like you are already wayyyyyyyyy ahead of the pack. It sounds like the real problem is job related, as your entire post was about high positions, making money, and women trying to move up.

    I do not know because I am not you and do not have a corporate job. But I get what you mean, I can't imagine a dude like Donald Trump can do anything OTHER than BUY or BULLY his way into a chick's pants.

    I would just trust her that she won't do anything stupid, and stop worrying about it. Although, unless she is super whipped, the temptation may be there as you already are screwing other girls with her.

    In that case, make sure you get some $$$$ from her promotion LOL:woot:
  3. Angelic

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    Pretty safe to say that there are guys she THINKS about fucking. Or at least it crosses her mind.

    Just like you yourself have probably seen plenty of women you'd like to bang... but don't act because the opportunity to easily execute just isn't there.

    So you have some options...

    Option #1. Don't worry about it. This is a passive approach, least amount of effort, and often works. However, it doesn't guarantee something won't happen.

    Option #2. Get in front of the issue. Start organizing threesomes with other MEN! Kinky double penetration. Rough sex. Either she likes the idea and goes with it, and you fulfill all of her sexual fantasies, OR she doesn't want to do it. Either way, she will NOT cheat on you when you voluntarily offer up all the dick she can handle.

    Option #3. Threaten her, get jealous, talk about it, get controlling of her movements. If you scare her just a little, this will have the opposite effect of what you want. She'll see you as weak and be tempted. BUT if you go full-force outright SCARY and controlling, you can often her prevent her that way through sheer fear. But it's both pscychologically scarring for the girl and for you. Not recommended, but it can work.

    If it really worries you, I'd go with option #2. Kink your sex life.
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  4. TequilaMan Well-Known Member

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    I like Option #2-
    "Get in front of the issue. Start organizing threesomes with other MEN! Kinky double penetration. Rough sex. Either she likes the idea and goes with it, and you fulfill all of her sexual fantasies, OR she doesn't want to do it. Either way, she will NOT cheat on you when you voluntarily offer up all the dick she can handle".

    I think Jesse meant, other women and men.

    Your sexual confidence will place you far ahead of most men.
    It looks like us men are in competition with other men. :lol:

    Jesse and I are providing a lot of content to place you ahead of most men.

    TM
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  6. TequilaMan Well-Known Member

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    Whew!!..what a story!
    I like the Master Level.

    TM
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  8. TequilaMan Well-Known Member

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    I have toyed with the FuckMaster and Sex Slave sex fantasy story acting.
    I doubt if I could bring it to the level that you, mentioned.
    We are getting into BDSM, which I have never delved into.

    TM
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    Ok I hear you all. And thanks for the contribution....I particularly like AKM's input.....slightly deeper and I just love deep stuff. I have been thinking about this for a while now and I just think there is a deeper answer to it....it's not all just sexual. Although *sexuality takes up to about 70% on the issue.

    This is slightly beyond a girlfriend situation because my girl and I have been together for a while and we got a baby.....serious shit or not. Be it as it may I have pushed my girl to the core about MMF and she insisted endlessly that she would like me to be the last man she sleeps with........she is very open to turning other men on though whilst I watch and it makes her feel sexy...it makes me want her and fuck her is if I never did before. This also helps because she tells me about any other guy that she thinks was hot for her in the office when she is in a blissnotic state...cause she knows it makes me want her more.

    I am taking as slightly different angle from sexuality here onwards.

    I just think that naturally women are wired to nurture and take care of their families. Therefore a woman shouldnt take a major part in providing for the family or for herself for that matter because it would leave her vulnerable.......making her submissive to any attempts that a boss might make. So as a man to protect her you've got to make sure that she works for fun not out of serious need to provide for the family.*

    Some women have career ambitions that do not come out of a need to provide for themselves or family. These women aren't really likely to want to get a promotion by sleeping with a boss because they want to feel they deserved the promotion and that they capable. So in essence a woman who has a need to provide for herself or the family is more vulnerable than a woman who works for fun.

    Society has changed now. Women are expected to be more independent. We all know that with that twist there is a lot of confusion between male and female roles sometimes to a point where neither sex know what's good for them.

    anyway my summarry is provide for your woman....play the role of a big ass CEO to her by being leaderful and providing for her so that she has no need to feel like she needs to do a lot to take care of herself. This is somewhat psychological....by being able to provide for your woman you already play a CEO role thus when a boss comes to play she is not weaker because 1. She is used to a man of power and control which you already wud be to her 2. She works for fun not out of a need.

    Just also keep in mind that providing for a woman does not necessarily equates with being rich. It just means being man enough to manage your finances well and to accommodate her needs....meaning spend and invest wisely. Also whilst providing for a woman you shouldn't do it blindly, protect yourself cause relationships do end. For instance if your woman wants to open a shoe business for fun instead of giving her money to own the whole thing you become the owner of the business and make her a manager with a share...that way dominating her, she works for you. You are the CEO.

    Also, most of this shit is about dominance....a woman is naturally wired to be submissive to the man that dominates her. So in the corporate world the big ass guy or supervisor dominates the woman by virtue of his position of power if you dominate your woman any less she will be more likely to succumb so another way to minimize the risk is to dominate the woman so much that when the boss dominates her she doesn't feel anything cause she already got the man of power...hmmm I shud be making you guys pay for this good info hehe

    Jessie in one of your products you do mention that a man must let a woman do something that she enjoys and allow her to have enough time to look sexy for him...there is more psychology in that. Catch my drift???

    There isn't always a magic pill for preventing a woman from running on you but as a man you should be careful on what naturally sets up a woman for becoming unfaithful.......no matter how good a woman is there are things that can set her up to run on you. Just like we guys can't do without a steaming hot woman who gives us mind blowing sex there are things that women also in a way can't do without...Jessie touched on this on his previous topics.

    Trust me on this.....if you are a man who decided to settle with 1# how you provide for the family becomes an issue because the family has to live comfortable....if you fail to do so adequately despite sexual dominance you live a need thats left unfulfilled on the woman. How I wish the pick up industry can get slightly deeper than getting a guy to just pick up and shag a woman....it's about time shit gets deeper hehe
  10. TequilaMan Well-Known Member

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    It's good that you are telling us more about yourself, Bounce.

    "Be it as it may I have pushed my girl to the core about MMF and she insisted endlessly that she would like me to be the last man she sleeps with.....".

    It would be a good idea to ask her what her sex fantasies are..women have a very good sexual imagination. Bringing-up the idea of FMF, might be an idea she would consider.


    "my summarry is provide for your woman....play the role of a big ass CEO to her by being leaderful and providing for her so that she has no need to feel like she needs to do a lot to take care of herself. This is somewhat psychological....by being able to provide for your woman you already play a CEO role thus when a boss comes to play she is not weaker because 1. She is used to a man of power and control which you already wud be to her 2. She works for fun not out of a need".

    I will admit, women are assigned roles to do a lot for the family. This is why I am leaning towards a polyamorous relationship. There are many adults to provide for the needs of the children. Men and women aren't exactly satisfied with just one sexual partner.
    This belief is a paradigm shift in what makes a family.
    (I have never been married, so it is difficult for me to say that women need a MAN to be in charge (CEO).It seems to go back to old beliefs that women are second class citizens and need to be controlled because they are vulnerable and emotional.)


    "..a woman is naturally wired to be submissive to the man that dominates her".

    I question this belief in a general sense...I believe a woman wants to be submissive to a man, sexually. But, she is the one who is more highly sexual. Using the words, "wired" and "genetic" are NOT always the case.


    That's a good point and VERY true:
    "How I wish the pick up industry can get slightly deeper than getting a guy to just pick up and shag a woman....it's about time shit gets deeper hehe".

    I would like to see comprehensive sex ed. in our schools. Men and women know very little about their sexuality and how to achieve higher levels of PLEASURE.
    Some men, like, Alex Alman, are promoting deeper ideas.
    Jesses' site is geared towards the young man who needs to gain confidence.
    In reality, the whole intent is to teach men how to enjoy their life...it's a life-long pursuit.

    TM
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    Thanks Tequila.......I already had a number of fmf with my woman. Hmmm yeah you right jesse's market is younger man probably.....

    Havin been running with the man for six years I gotta say I achieved a lot of growth though. My relationship is free of drama, my woman knows she gotta look sexy for me.....I get lots of nights out. I wouldn't have achieved this without most of the education from here

    I have grown a lot comin to think of it...hmmm I am gettin too old hehe
  12. TequilaMan Well-Known Member

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    I enjoy posting things that interest me and it MAY be of interest to other people. (I get many articles from people who talk about human sexuality.)
    I am just glad that, Jesse, allows me to post the many ideas and beliefs that I have. Over the years, 2+(?), with, Jesse, I have gained much more confidence and started to enjoy my lifestyle, much more. It was his basic beliefs of showing sexual intent..I ended-up enjoying being with women much more...they started enjoying being with me, even more. :thumbup:

    Most of my ideas are NOT mainstream. Many people will find them difficult to understand. Most of them are from Tantric/Taiost Beliefs.
    (I am on another on-line forum where a mixture of people respond. Sometimes, it's difficult to explain or describe to them what I mean because they have never heard or read about it. But, I am gaining their respect.)

    TM
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    AKM said: "Please do consider doing some research in the archives so that you at least know who you're giving advice to and please consider your posts before going about correcting advice given as "too psychological" or "too deep" if at all".

    I barely remember much about Bounces' past posts and his background. So, I just gave him my opinion. (How many people will search the archives and make judgments about where a person is before addressing a person?..NOT many.)
    I don't care how much knowledge and experience someone has on this Forum...there are, still, beliefs being thrown-around that are soo passe' and misogynistic.

    You do get too psychological, AKM. It just drives me NUTS when someone tells me to seek someone to be my (ESL?) Psychological Mentor or whatever you told me to do.
    (When you came back to this Forum, we immediately didn't have similar beliefs. The use of psychological terms that ONLY you and a few more people know about, will confuse people.)


    "I'm sure you don't mean to be insulting but in many cases it's comming accross that way".

    I view some of the things that you say as insulting to me. (See above comment.)

    If Bounce finds my comments insulting, it's his responsibility to state that.

    If anyone else thinks this, it's their responsibility to state that and NOT bring it up, 1 month or more, later.

    I DON'T claim to have all of the answers, but, I do my best.
    I would like to see better communication skills being shown by people on this Forum..but, we are MEN, and we haven't learned this skill very well.:(

    TM

    Note: If anyone else has any comments about this subject..let me know.
    I am getting the feeling that I am being too much a "know-it-all". I am learning a lot on this Forum and from other sources that I post on this Forum.
  15. Angelic

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    AKM, I would side with you when TM posts on threads you started yourself, but this isn't your thread, it's Bounce's. It's up to Bounce to respond to TM and deem if he feels insulted, as I don't at a glance see anything needing moderation here. You can simply ignore posts you dislike, and let Bounce respond to TM. Very possibly Bounce takes all feedback as valuable feedback, so we shouldn't speak for Bounce.

    Thread is closed...
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