I've been reading what different gurus have to say about responding to shit tests and the like. I've got my own stock of answers, but how do you guys field these inquiries? => Why are you alone?/Where are your friends? => What's your name? (When they open you with this question.) => Can you buy me a drink? (I always say sure, and since we are friends now the first round is on you, I'll have xyz.) => Wait here while I go to the toilet (I always say if I'm not here I'll be over there. There may be the bar. Then I go there.) => I have a boyfriend (Upon executing a number close.)
Why are you alone/where are your friends? --Wow, what do you mean!? You're my friends --I'm here to pick up girls and work on my Game --Yeah, I'm single. => What's your name? (When they open you with this question.) ---uhh, I just say my name, thinking that if a girl opens you, she either really put herself out there or wants you to take the lead from then. I'm sure, based on the situation, you could say something funny, but you are better off saying your name confidently, looking into her eyes and slowly offering your hand to shake => Can you buy me a drink? OHHH I love this!! Sadly, I don't get asked this enough. *Can I? Yes. (pause) Will I? No. Eww nope I hardly know you, you have work to do little lady! Go ask that guy over there, he seems NICE. One time, with a really hot girl, I opened a guy next to me, and worked with the girl to get free drinks from him. LOL => Wait here while I go to the toilet. I pretty much would say what you say. But, I just thought of something more fun: It'd be more fun if I came with you Hey, girl, are you trying to get me alone with you in the toilet!! SLOW DOWN, too fast for me => I have a boyfriend (Upon executing a number close.)- --So you can't have new friends? --I have a girlfriend, but Wednesday's are open. Can't wait till I am money enough to pull that one offf with congruence!!!!!!!! I'm sure other guys here have really funny or cool things to say. I bet if you watch a few James Bond movies before going out, you will have even more epic stuff in your arsenal. Like this one from Casino Royale: BondGirl: "No, I'm not cruel enough for that..." Bond: "Maybe you're just out of practice. My place, for a drink. *slight grin* "
I'm sure as I'm sure of anything that a chick who opened me by asking for my name was a government agent. I've got my own ideas, but can't you have fun being worried she is undercover or a stalker?
Sandee, I like your insight into the toilet scenario and locking in. That is crucial advice, completely forgot about those kind of dynamics. I'm gonna steal your line for "alone" as well. Cooper, I would agree with what Sandee said and keep it playful and tease and NOT SERIOUS at all. Do the government agent shit and have a blast with it. For me, I would just go the route of a genuine introduction to add kino. There is plenty of time to tease and goof off later.:thumbup: I have had nights where I banter and do whatever and everything rules and I am hilarious. Then I have had nights where I do that kind of goofy "goverment agent" shit and it seems too reaction seeking or try hard. Gear it to the girl. That sort of shit may work for you and be cool, but I have no idea how many approaches you have done and what your style is, so if you like it, keep at it!
