Throw away sets

Jesse's throwaway set concept has been a huge improvement over the warmup set concept elsewhere in the community. I hit the bar, order a drink and open a lone guy next to me. And the night rolls like gold.

Last night I opened a guy at the bar and felt..nothing. No connection. I kept going, found a commonality but just didn't feel in state. Opened a second guy, this one I recognized. Talked club for a sec. He was on the move and took off after recomending a venue for tomorrrow.

Didn't feel in state.

My wing brings me into a set. I let him run his opener without opening. These chicks were young. I kept myself in reserve and didn't engage. Another wing brings me into a one set. She sticks her fingers on my mouth and makes me smile. We chat for a sec, but she's drunker than I care for.

I bail for home. It was past midnight and I promised the LTR I'd protect her from the bad monsters she'd dream about after watching Skeleton Key.

Dropped a one liner to an asian gal while waiting for the coat check. Total invitiation to continue. I was hair's width from getting into state by that point. But obligations called and I left.

Why didn't the throwaways put me in state?

This part of not being in my usual environment? I'll list my personal excueses below, but excueses are bullshit.

[New venue, new wings, new night, 18+ crowd. My usual market is 22-30. New openers - long story.]

I think the throwaway opener is meant to do on a girl. It's to get you into the sexual talk....when it's done toward guys, it's more for guy talk.

Also, there was the storytelling part about guy talk which includes sports, jobs, school, work etc. If you talk to guys about that stuff, sexual talk won't really get into your head. But if you talk to a girl about sexual talk as a throwaway opener, then the mood goes to what you're looking for. Plus, that throwaway opener is good because there's no goal to just make a cheesy seduction. It doesn't matter if you screw up.

It's ok to have different states

You are not like a robot, like being 100 % all the
time. It's ok to have moments you do less good.

I would have danced on the dancefloor and forget
all about the girls. Before you know it you are in
state

Success,


TVM

P.s.: Get a good start at home before you go out.
Dance, sing, call female friends, stick your tongue
out to a few attractive women in trafic, etc.

P.p.s.: That's right Diamond_Cutter, the throw
away opener is to open sets of women. I would
do both, talk to guys and girls.

Come down

Like a drug..... what goes up must come down.... There will always be off nights.... like tonight for me i was working all day came home at 6 pm eat dinner and feell asleep till 11 when my rather drunkin wing called me up to go to the local club... i showered and left..... could not get into state even enough to approach at all it sucked ...... my wing got unreal hammered just left early to get his drunkin as s out of there ..... No Buzz no fun and no pussy