Right'o! We are going to run the streets of Amsterdam this Friday, hitting on local Dutchies and Foreigners who are there to see Van Gogh, smoke some weed and see the sex industry - us! haha. It will be one of my first nights out since long time, since I have GF that will be working and later at a party of her own, hehe. Also, I haven't gone out with nobody from this forum so far, so it will be the first! I am not counting Shark. I did go out with him, but we never surged... Even when we where together nothing happend. I guess we have different styles. I go after pussy, while I never understood what he was doing... :lol: Who else already had a chance to go out together here? Tiger
Damn, you guys are lucky to go out together! I wish I had a teammate to go out with, or someone with mad skills so I could see what the hell is going down. Plug Those Holes dude!
Push Harm into the arms of a few girls! hehe But above all, have fun, have some laughs, and don't stress!
HIII! It is 16:30 and we (Tiger and I) are at my place resting our legs. So far it has been, for me, nerfwrecking. But I know this is what I need. So far I only spoke a few words to girls. And I've widnessed Tigers mad skills as he was hitting on a shop girl in some soap store. This started as a sell. But Tiger SOMEHOW hit that switch in the girl that really turned her on. She couldn't stop talking and laughing about every joke he made and she started getting more physical (hugging touching etc.) For me, I had the honor to witness it and so now and then help the girl out with her English. Even before this happend we went in this souvenirshop (I NEVER visit these shops, I mean come on ) but his girl happend to be Portugues. And so Tiger talked a little with her while I pretended to browse the goods in the store, for this day, I was a tourist. So what was cool about this? We actually going to visit her again, Tiger said we could come back at '5. Sounds like great succes. But I still have a long way to go. But for now, I am happy that I even started. Better now then never. PS, Tiger says HIII Harm
That's GREAT, guys...Harm and Tiger are getting together and Tiger is showing you how to meet women. TM
So my first day of going out with intention of getting to know women is over. After we visited the tourist store the girl was gone. Tiger got the phonenumber from her colleague but the Portugeus girl did not respond, happens. Still I was very nervous and a bit tired. Around 10 o'clock my wing called me to join us. After getting a free pint (no joke, totally FREE) in a club that kinda scared us (various reasons for that, even Tiger agreed) we left to scan the area for more crowded clubs or bars. After a while we found this random place. Outside the place standing two British women late in their 20s. Tiger talked to them and a few seconds later they showed interest in me I did not take any risking hitting on them, just talk the normal routine; where you from? "Tells where she is from", "oh cool which part?". Wow, "asking related question to the area". All with a smile and good will to show some interest. While smalltalking we were walking upstairs to the main hall of the club/restaurant where we spotted a group of 20 beautiful girls around 17-21 age. All just dancing and talking to each other. So here was my chance, I had my first opener and short conversation. Never thought it could be so fun! Just plain small talk, we quickly found out it was a dance group from all over the world. Tiger really learned me a lot, the main thing is that he pushed me to talk to some girls, the coldest approaches are done! And now it is 2:14 local time and I tiiiiired. So lets get some sleep over here. From now on more motivated talking to females. A final thanks to the forum and it's administrator that brought me in contact with Tiger. We will be hanging out again Bedankt voor het lezen en een gezegende nachtrust! Harm
Right'o! So Harm basically told about all the major sets we had, so there will be just only a few things I will be able to add. First of all, I enjoyed very much this go out with Harm and his wing - William (is that how you spell his nam?). It was fun because I have never done pick up in the bars and gone to happy hour :lol:. Certainly I found out that I am still very much a lone wolf, as I could not really integrate Harm and his wing in my game, thus there were couple of moments where it did not go the right :lol:. In the end, the point was not really only f for me to get the girls, but also to show Harm around, so no problem there. Here are some sets I liked: Before the Soap girl, there was around 18yo girl in the music store that was eating me with her eyes when I was just leaving the store. I came back, took her hand and tried to create that special moment, where it just me and her in the world and nobody else. The funny thing was that my magic world was couple of times invaded by storm wizard - Harm, saying "Tiger, what are we doing?" and "Tiger, are we leaving?" haha. He simply didn't see it, so I don't blame him. Also he said I would probably would get arrested due to her age :thumbup:. The soap girl was one of these girls you expect nothing to happen and than its just comes together. In fact that was probably why it happened: I just did not care about results because I didn't think something was doable. How it happened was: I just jumped her physically and she responder physically back. Conversation actually did not matter, although I though it was still very a awkward: I was directly seducing her, but poor thing could only talk about what she was selling, lol. In the end she took us out to the door, gave me a huge hug and few cheek kisses and some free stuff they give to a store visitors. I still considered to give her a kiss on the mouth, but because we were in front, where her manager and clients were, I skipped it. Definitely in the back of the store something would have happen . Lastly we ended up with the international ballet dancing group of 20 girls and 5 guys (who on any other occasion I'd call gay), with girls age ranging from 17to 19 yo. They were so innocent, but I though it was curious to notice how they ended up behaving like grown ups that protect each other in the clubs. Actually, in reality we were the only 3 guys who were trying to assault the group (us). What happen was that I was going for a smooth Tiger game on the group trying to integrate myself in the group before going for a kill. However Harm and his wing had a different game, that was not really complementary to my game, lol. Basically they were happy with less than me: to open, talk little bit, and thats it. So Tiger would talk to 2-3 girls at a time and even though there were 15 more girls, Harm and his wing would go for the same girls in the same time. It was more or less fine when it was 3x3 people, but was intimidating for the girls when it was 3 of us on 2 of them. In that cases I would immediately remove myself and go speak with other girls. However Harm + wing would crash that party right after they finished with the previous one. It felt ridiculous as it happen in short period of time, 4 times in a raw. By that time I isolated one girl and was actually scared looking to see whether they they'd actually crash that interaction, as they already finished with the previous one. They did not, but 1m later some girls came to save their friend from me as I was part of Tiger + Harm + wing team. At that time I knew that the set was over. Harm + wing did not think it was, lol, but we left anyway. I don't blame Harm and his wing. For me it looked bad, but they needed exactly that. Also I told them that they could crash the sets I was opening, as it was the easiest way them guys to talk to girls . I guess you did exactly that, haha! Anyhow, I still will go out with you Harm and your wing, so hope for the next episode! Cheers, Tiger
All of the above is true. After all I was just trying to talk to them, nothing more. Sorry for disrupting your game man it was never my intention. The coming weeks/months you don't have to pay off for my mistakes.
Harm, you did not make mistakes. It like asking you to build atomic bomb. Nobody expects you to do everything right (probably a wrong analogy ). I did go out with you for different reasons. If I want girl, I will get them in my home town. This go out was more for entertainment value, to meet you, to see where the go out places in Amsterdam are and to test whether I still got it. It was very much a success in my book! :thumbup: My only hope is that you had as much fun as I did. Tiger
Little misinterpretation from my part ^^ Tomorrow that friend of mine I bumped into wants to show me some places to go. Yeah, you still got it
Yo it sounds like you guys had FUN Tiger, what are some tips you have for creating that super HARD primal attraction in girls? Like for the store girl that you talked to and Harm witnessed. I feel like I can get girls interested, but to me, it doesn't feel, you know, primal. To have her instantly hugging, pressing herself against you, etc. ---without booze LOL Does most of that come from trying to create that "romantic moment" and being EXTREMELY physical?
Lol, AKM, I usually read the replies and wait some more time for more people to read and contribute as I think its becomes more interesting when more people jump in from the start. Maybe its not the best tactic to get the most of the post, but right now I will just jump in, because I got such a strong first impression of AKM's reply that I really have to say it otherwise I will just forget it :thumbup:. I do know that its a good advice for someone like myself, who are little more advanced, but I'm that not sure that this is best advice for some one like Harm or William, who are just starting. I say this because they are already too confused about what to do themselves before even starting to think about others. I don't know how it is with female cousins because I never had one, but once I went out with some female friends, 5 girls and me, and I just saw tons of guy's coming at them in waves. Trust me when I say that I rather have been one of these guys than to be part of the set because I was constantly worried for "my" girls and I could not do anything as there were just bombarded... I might have felt actually like one of the girls in that group. The sensation was strange... but the point is this story is that female cousin is not probably the best person to go out with, specially because she is a family :lol:. This phrase actually got me most laughing, as I don't know whether people would like to be called a "noob", even if they are really are so :lol:. Just a though as you AKM talked about having respect towards a pear. Maybe its your style and maybe it works, motivation wise. If it does I really would like to know :thumbup:. TheEarl88, you guessed it right: pure physical escalation. Practice it. One word of advice though, getting physical is very important (80%) of success, however its not all. You can still fail if you don't have solid pre-work, and, of course, after-work. Cheers! Tiger
It was Harm's first night out... it sounds like he did pretty well! Thanks Tiger for taking him out and letting him get some experience on your girls
