TOUCHING A Woman

OK, Alex Allman has sent me an newsletter about touching a woman.
He has mentioned a lot of things and I made in BOLD what I think is important and DO.
There are four important thing that he left-out, based on my experiences:
1. I believe that a man can feel the GOOD feelings that a woman will feel, but, NOT as intense. It will be transmitted through his hands.
2. A woman can feel ecstasy and sexual tension if TOUCHED correctly.
3. A man can, also, feel these feelings, with her.
4. A woman can experience a Full-Body Orgasm if TOUCHED correctly.

Here it is:
THE ALLMAN REPORT:

Use Your Hands: Tips For Touching


There's almost nothing in life that can
give you the same kind of just pure pleasure as
putting your hands on a woman's skin.

Everything about great sex involves touching,
and really mastering the subtleties of touching
is one of the best ways to really explode her
ideas of just how amazing sex can be.

The thing that I really love about the
"idea" of touching a woman, is that the pleasure
travels in both directions.

She gets the pleasure of feeling your
hands on her skin, and you get the pleasure of
feeling her skin with your hands.

And when you are both really in tune with
that exchange of pleasure, it can be absolutely
awesome.

So I want to share some simple techniques
for touching a woman that will give her the chills,
make her flush with excitement, and drive her wild
with desire.

There are a few important keys to touching
that can let her know, INSTANTLY that you know
exactly what you are doing-- and get her
powerfully aroused.

The first thing you MUST know, if you
don't already, is that WOMEN LOVE TO BE TOUCHED.

Touch is very important to all humans, and for
women, being touched gives her strong feelings of
approval. It is a powerful reward to a woman when
you touch her, and it can instantly make her feel
great.

If you've ever struggled with changing
her bad mood or tried to communicate that you
want to get back on track after a fight with
your woman and found that words just kept being
misunderstood and making things worse...

Try touching instead.

You will be amazed at how much you can communicate
to your lover through your hands when words just
keep screwing things up.

When your pride is in the way of your mouth saying
the right things, your hands will cut through
that crap and tell her that regardless of the
logical disagreement, you still care about her.

For the majority of women, touch is always a
pleasure and a treat...

I probably don't need to mention this... but just
in case I'll put in the disclaimer that I'm
assuming that touch we are talking about is
appropriate to the relationship. By appropriate,
I mean, a female friend might love it if you rub
her shoulders, but might be uncomfortable with
something more "romantic," like caressing her hair
and cheek.

I am going to talk about touching in a romantic
context, whether it be on a first date or with your
wife of 20 years.

Tip #1: Touch Her More

However much you are already touching
your lover... you can do it more often.

I can't emphasize enough-- how much more
of an emotional connection and bond can be
formed by this incredibly simple action.

Women link many feelings of sexuality,
love, and trust with the sensations that are
aroused in them when a man puts his hands on
her.

It can make her feel both sexually
excited and safe at the same time.

And, hormonally, it makes her body release
certain chemicals into her blood that make her
feel more attraction and more comfort with the
man that she is with.

If you're relationship is going through
a rocky period and you were considering couples
counseling, TRY THIS FIRST. It might just save
you $150/hour.

How's that for the simplest tip ever?

Try it out. I promise that it is as
effective as it is simple.

Tip #2: Try Touching Her like THIS...

There are particular types of touching
that women find more romantic, more sensual, and
more arousing than others.

But problem is, since all women are
different, you're going to have to do some
experimenting to find out which ones she responds
to most.

The key is to really tune in to her and
notice how she is responding.

That tuning in or "Paying Attention" that
I always talk about, is actually the really
important part of this tip...

It will guide you to touch her in the
perfect way, but also will cause both of you to
become "present", together, in the moment.

Most men suffer from a huge lack of creativity
in touching... they always do it the same way
(probably the way that worked on their first
girlfriend, or the way they think they're
SUPPOSED to do it based on something they once
heard). Just getting out of that box will
open a huge new world of sexual opportunity
for you.

Try these...

- Use the very tips of your fingers and run them
very, very lightly, so that it is almost a tickle,
anywhere (or everywhere) on her skin. Try it out
inside her wrists and up to her elbow pits for
instant chills.

- Stroke her gently, but not tentatively with the
entire face of your hand. Try running it up her
back, her neck, her legs, arms, or the side of her
face.

- Just hold her firmly, like a firm, manly handshake.
This can be such a powerful feeling for a woman. Just
place your hand on her shoulder, the back of her neck,
her thigh, arm, or hand... and just hold her. Let her
feel your masculine strength, but don't, obviously,
squeeze hard enough to hurt her.

If you do this right, she should feel the tenderness
and protectiveness behind your touch.

- Cup her with your hand, and stroke gently with
your thumb...

This combines the first idea of gentle finger tips
with the last one of holding her firmly...

I particularly like to hold the back of her neck
and then ever so gently stroke her cheek with my
thumb... while looking into her eyes.

Also try holding the back of her head and stroking
her temple, or hold her arm and stroke her shoulder,
or her thigh and stroke her knee.

Add eye contact to all of these and she will melt.

- Use your fingernails... super gently or
scratching

- Experiment with gentle pinching and pulling...
try this on everything from her shoulder
blades to her labia and clitoris

- Pet her hair. I have never met a woman who
does not enjoy having her hair stroked.

For women with straight hair, you can let your
fingers run through it. If she has curly hair,
just pet, so that you don't get stuck and start
yanking on knots.

Hair Pull-(This is what TM does to ALL women)
To really send her into orbit, start at her neck
and use your fingernails to pet upwards into her
hair along her scalp, then gently slide your
fingers back out while gently tugging her
hair between your fingers.

You can bring girls very close to orgasm with
that one.


Tip #3: Feel With Your Feelings

This is of HUGE importance in really
being able to rock her world in ways that will
make her forget any other guy she has ever been
with.

The basic truth is: A woman can FEEL, not
just the physical sensation of your hand on her
skin, but also she can FEEL the emotional content
of your touch.

I know this sounds a little bit "out
there," but again, as always, I challenge you
to TRY it before you dismiss it.

Because this is really an incredibly
powerful truth.

When you touch a woman while thinking
sexual thoughts about her, and when you focus
that intent into your touch, she will FEEL it very
strongly... and her body will respond to it.

That sexual energy will flow from you
and into her.

Likewise, when you feel tender feelings
of attraction and protectiveness for your
woman, and you stroke her hair, it makes her
feel loved and safe.

And there is nothing that will provide
you both with a more amazing night of mind-
melting sex than when the woman in your arms
feels loved and safe.

I know that I'm leaving a lot out here,
and that, especially this last tip is kind of
hard to wrap your brain around.

But don't hesitate to get started by trying
these tips. You will be amazed that even these
brain-dead simple techniques can make a HUGE
difference in how women respond to you sexually.

And if you are in a relationship, you will
be even more amazed at the positive changes that
just tiny bit of information can cause.

You can go to a marriage counselor, or
talk to a therapist, or read books on
"communicating" better, but there is NOTHING in
my experience that improves a relationship more
or strengthens the bond between a man and a woman
than great sex.

Plus, women notice the powerful increase in
confidence that men get when they KNOW what
they can do in the bedroom.

For Passion,

Alex

Thanks for sharing this TM I love Alex Allmans stuff .

This evening i met up with the polish girl i am seeing for an hour. Whilst i was kissing her i dropped my hand to her leg and began massaging her thigh. She began moaning and said dont stop.

I asked her where exactly she enjoyed being touched. She said that each time i rubbed my hand down her thigh just above her knee cap she got all horny and wet.

So i began massaging that area of her thigh and wow she began moaning and breathing more deeply.

I am sooo, HAPPY!...FM!!!:thumbup:

I think there is another TequilaMan running around in the UK!!

She is soo turned-ON to YOUR TOUCH!!! :thumbup:

Take advantage of her WHOLE body, FM!!
(She will LOVE it!)

Note 1: You are giving her many Full-Body Orgasms!!!:woot:

Note 2: I have just noticed, after reading the Newsletter, that I use different types of TOUCHING/massaging.
1. Sensuous/sexual
2. Romantic
3. Friendly
4. Nurturing (Touching her face/side of face)
5. Playful

TM

Today i was out with another girl. Will write up a FR later as i am too tired and its very late . Whilst we walked in the park i asked where she loved being touched on the body. She said where you were touching me just now. I began stroking a particular area on her butt cheek and she moaned. I asked her to describe the feeling she told me. That each time i rubbed that particular area she could feel a warm feeling in her pussy

"each time i rubbed that particular area she could feel a warm feeling in her pussy ".

FM, you are starting to TOUCH/massage a women like I do!!!:thumbup:

FM, you are starting to talk to women like I talk to them!!!:thumbup:

Full-Body Orgasms!!!:thumbup:

You have THE TOUCH!!!:thumbup:

TM

Here's an old thread that I posted, Jobic.
Alex mentioned, SEXUAL ENERGY, flowing from me to the woman...I still think this is TRUE. It's an esoteric energy.

TM