true alpha male

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  1. superfly New Member

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    reading some stuff on alpha male. seems there are two schools of though on this one.

    1)the alpha male does not give a shit about anyone, and thats what makes him so attractive ie to the womans subconcious it the number one sign that he's alpha and any caring on his part is weakness.

    2) the alpha male is a leader who cares about others.

    which one produces raw sexual attraction in women? from what i've seen its number 1, women do like to be treated like shit even the high self esteem ones, no?????
    superfly, Jun 30, 2011
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  2. Chanceriskluck New Member

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    A combination

    A combination of both schools of thought creates the kind of attraction you're looking for, you've got to have the power of the first one but, in the right circumstances to care for the rest, in a social leading way :) and yes women are sexually attracted to the dominant guy but not treated like "shit" as you said :)
    Chanceriskluck, Jun 30, 2011
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  3. TequilaMan Active Member

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    "1)the alpha male does not give a shit about anyone, and thats what makes him so attractive ie to the womans subconcious it the number one sign that he's alpha and any caring on his part is weakness".

    This is a anti-social stance to take, in fact, it will lead you into a very lonely world of unhappiness.
    The true BadBoy will have this type of view and only care about himself and what he needs. He will, eventually, be abusive to people.

    It is difficult to explain this and many people will try to mislead you into believing things that are NOT true and will lead you into a miserable life.

    What I believe is, lead a life, with women/people, that is NOT outcome based. Do your best to be the best you can be and keep-on learning about yourself and other people.

    TM
    TequilaMan, Jun 30, 2011
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  4. AKM Active Member

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    AKM, Jun 30, 2011
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  5. Angelic

    Jesse Charger Administrator

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    Wrong.

    Closer.

    What makes him attractive is he doesn't care about what other people THINK, as he takes action independent of other peoples reactions. For example, he'll approach a girl even if her friends are around her.

    But he cares about other as HUMAN BEINGS. Like it's not alpha to just punch the other guys in the face just because you feel like.

    What's alpha is he doesn't care about what the girl might THINK.

    The alpha male takes her hand when he wants. He talks about what HE wants to talk about. But yes, he DOES care about her.

    For example, he doesn't take her into the bathroom and rape her despite her pleading screams to stop. That's not alpha, that's creepy.

    So yes, he DOES "give a shit" about other people! But he's still his own person, he doesn't kiss their asses just to get approval.
    Jesse Charger, Jul 10, 2011
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